View Poll Results: Why do you personally do extras ITC?

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  • I enjoy it.

    12 30.77%
  • I can't work for an agency for certain reasons.

    1 2.56%
  • I do it so rarely I don't want to be a full time escort.

    5 12.82%
  • It's the norm in my area, I have to keep up.

    19 48.72%
  • I don't have a choice for whatever reason.

    3 7.69%
  • I have a quota to make that is set my someone else.

    1 2.56%
  • It's easier for me to make money that way.

    14 35.90%
  • I don't like to talk.

    7 17.95%
  • I feel it's safer ITC than screening clients.

    5 12.82%
  • I don't want to give an agency a cut.

    4 10.26%
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Thread: Extras girls, motivation?

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    In the places that Mediocrity has danced, her income is going to be limited if she doesn't occasionally let big spenders touch. I'm not talking about below the waist touching or licking of any kind. I, too, can make money not allowing men to do it! lol
    In Vegas you just WON'T make good money longterm without it. To the girls that worked in Vegas etc and were in the 5% top earners, you know what I am talking about. You can make maybe 400 a night if you are a 8-10 in looks, maybe 1k or more if you are lucky or you can be guarenteed 1k a night and more.

    I am also not saying that you should let the guys rub your chest all night. But one or two quick touches while in a couple grand vip room is not totally out of the ordinary.

    ETA: chest touching is not a extra in any club I have worked outside of Foxy Lady Providence and Dollhouse Tampa when i was first starting out. (I might be forgetting maybe one more...)

    One last thing: The poll choice are somewhat ignorant and I find that this thread started in a condescending tone. ESPECIALLY THIS by Mediocrity: "Though I get your point. No customer was going to touch these boobies. Just my SO. AH, retirement. Been .... interesting. "
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    Default Re: Extras girls, motivation?

    I didn't vote, I've only danced one night so far.

    A customer gave me $50 to touch (gently, no squeezing) my breast.
    I allowed this.

    Extras seem to be normal-ish at the club I was at (Fantasy's in WV)

    I had a "party" with another dancer who chose to get fully nude and make out with the (nice, clean) gentleman who asked for us. I didn't see her get paid for it though

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    Default Re: Extras girls, motivation?

    The only time I allowed anything to happen was in a CR with a guy I really liked, and eventually dated. He got two hours with me-it was worth it, especially for the money I got that night.
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    Default Re: Extras girls, motivation?

    Quote Originally Posted by laurcon View Post
    yeah i'm unbelievably surprised that any girl would vote "i do extras because i enjoy them." maybe they enjoy the money they get, but i just can't imagine a girl doing something like that because she's actually horny. on a regular basis.
    I actually disagree with this.. Ive worked with a couple girls who honestly love it and ARE just that horny. I don't get it, and I am quite the opposite. But I've seen it!

    You would think money would be the motivation, but I personally think they are selling themselves short. They don't charge more yet they do more, sometimes without even being asked... Fuck that! I've seen girls get paid the same as me for a VIP, and then ruin the sweet guy who just wants to talk by sticking their boobs in his mouth, and worse. Dumb bitch we just made the same amount and you did soooo much more than was necessary! And this customer will come back expecting the same treatment when he could have been a easy, polite dude to get money out of. Very uncool.

    As for me, I didn't vote b/c I am a strict dance-only dancer... Actually Im a prude but my customers have fun and I make good money. And, I've got a long way to go til retirement, headturner...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Christyismyalias View Post
    I actually disagree with this.. Ive worked with a couple girls who honestly love it and ARE just that horny. I don't get it, and I am quite the opposite. But I've seen it!

    You would think money would be the motivation, but I personally think they are selling themselves short. They don't charge more yet they do more, sometimes without even being asked... Fuck that! I've seen girls get paid the same as me for a VIP, and then ruin the sweet guy who just wants to talk by sticking their boobs in his mouth, and worse. Dumb bitch we just made the same amount and you did soooo much more than was necessary! And this customer will come back expecting the same treatment when he could have been a easy, polite dude to get money out of. Very uncool.

    As for me, I didn't vote b/c I am a strict dance-only dancer... Actually Im a prude but my customers have fun and I make good money. And, I've got a long way to go til retirement, headturner...
    Thanks Christy. You really don't *HAVE* to allow anything to make money. My first year at SR before the economy tanked I did very, very well and did not allow boob grabbing. Also all three years in ATL I never allowed it either. Don't know what it's like now but back then it was very strict. I never even saw an extra firsthand until I moved to SF in '05, and I started dancing in '00.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Christyismyalias View Post
    I actually disagree with this.. Ive worked with a couple girls who honestly love it and ARE just that horny. I don't get it, and I am quite the opposite. But I've seen it!

    You would think money would be the motivation, but I personally think they are selling themselves short. They don't charge more yet they do more, sometimes without even being asked... Fuck that! I've seen girls get paid the same as me for a VIP, and then ruin the sweet guy who just wants to talk by sticking their boobs in his mouth (or worse). Dumb bitch! We just made the same amount and you did soooo much more than was necessary; and this customer will come back expecting the same treatment when he could have been a easy, polite dude to get money out of. Very uncool.

    As for me, I didn't vote b/c I am a strict dance-only dancer... Actually Im a prude but my customers have fun and I make good money. And, I've got a long way to go til retirement, headturner...
    Like I said, I am referring to boob touching for champagne rooms when someone is spending big money, not random boobs in mouth and worse. Like I ALSO said, I CAN TOO make absolutely top money without it but not everyone can (and NOT in Vegas with the current economy). It depends on a ton of factors. Where you are dancing, how you look and take care of yourself, how well you talk etc, etc.

    What good money is to someone, is bad money to someone else.

    If a hot guy is spending thousands in Vip and he touches my chest in Vip once, im not going to cry about it.

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    Default Re: Extras girls, motivation?

    I'm really surprised 22 girls responded to this... indicating that they do at least some form of extras.

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    I let them grab my boobs. Infact, if their hands wander else where, I will purposely put their hands there. It is the lesser of two evils. I'd rather someone grab my boobs then think they can finger my asshole or rub my clitoris for three minutes straight.

    Although, I draw the line at boob sucking. I have had guys make a kissing motion towards my boob and I hurried up and moves. I have had guys who were too quick and landed that kiss and then I pulled away/turned around. I have had men almost start suckling and I turn around. I will go even as far as to point out a random customer who happens to be wearing a suit/shirt and tie. Then go, "Zomg! It's the manager!!!". Then turn around. The idiot suddenly shapes up and behaves himself.

    I grind hard too hoping that will distract them from even thinking about putting their hands south of the equator. However, I do not grind to completion. I don't have sex with the customers. I have also made out with a few customers because they were actually dreamy. I mean you should see some of the men we usually get. I don't have a boyfriend. Noone saw me. So, from a moral stand point... I don't think I did wrong. From effecting another girl's income stand point... I don't think so either. If noone saw....

    If that is so terrible, sue me lol.

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    i think its solely for the money...maybe its laziness...from what i have seen in my clubs its been the less attractive women at the club who feel they have to resort to it in order to keep money coming in when competing with the prettier girls...i personally dont do extras, and im a houston girl btw , i make my money by hustling and hustling and hustling some more.

    boob touching comes with the territory though...i dont consider it an extra its a standard part of a dance in houston or u arent gonna make any money at all.

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    All you guys' posts make me really wanna get out of Miami. At least 50 people tried to touch my kitty tonight for a stupid dollar and boob sucking is completely normal when getting dances. Don't get me started on what goes on in the CR...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny View Post
    I'm really surprised 22 girls responded to this... indicating that they do at least some form of extras.
    considering how many members are on this board I'm actually shocked that it's only 22.

    I'd say there are about 30-40 girls who work at my club on a regular basis and out of those there are 5 girls who are known for doing extras. there are thousands of dancers on this board I think. it makes sense that there would be extras girls on here, just not very many who would come flat out and say it

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    I am also bothered by the Boob grabbing being so looked down upon. Where I work two way contact is legal and therefor, it happens a lot. Guys are allowed to touch your chest. Big deal! Unless you have sensitive boobs, I don't see a problem with it. Its kind of hypocritcal, I mean, its like a girl who works at an air dance only club saying that lap dances are something that is gross and should be reserved for the SO.

    What a condescending, negative thread.

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    I also don't think boob grabbing is a big deal. I would never let it happen at the club I work at now because it's strictly forbidden and I respect my coworkers and my club as well.

    I have worked at other clubs where it is was the norm, though....and not letting it happen would result in disgruntled customers that wouldn't buy another dance or sometimes even 86 the dance right in the middle of it. Asshole-ish, yes....but sometimes it is what it is and if you know how a club operates and you still choose to work there then I guess there is no room for complaint.

    I used to work in an extreme extras club where I saw everything go down and the most I ever did was let a guy touch my breasts, butt, and legs. I have to admit I also had a VERY well paying customers that I flashed my crotch to, but like I said they paid very well and were good customers. In a club where full vaginal sex was the norm, I never felt bad about anything I did.

    Like I said before I'd never do it in the club I am in now because it's a respect thing and also I don't HAVe to do those things there to make money and so I enjoy that. At a high contact club, yes.....I'll do what I need to do.

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    Default Re: Extras girls, motivation?

    When I was a new dancer it took me a while to figure out what my boundaries were at work. I worked at a few places where extras were tolerated and/or encouraged, and I sometimes did things most SWers would disapprove of. Now I go to work knowing exactly what I am and am not willing to do, and how much money I need to be paid to tolerate various customer behaviors, but I didn't start dancing with such firm boundaries. I suppose "Because I don't know any better yet!" wouldn't really work as a poll option, but I suspect it's often the case.

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