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    ...and did you bounce him as a regular because of it?

    I thought of this idea for a thread after on of my Favs told me a story of one of her regs embarrassing her in front of a guy she was working for dances. Sometimes, ok, a lot of the time, guys who spend a lot of money on a dancer start to think they own her when they visit the club. Bugging her when she is sitting with another guy, whining when she leaves the table to go work the floor, bugging her for OTC meetings, etc.

    How far do you let a guy go with this sort of bad behavior? Do you tolerate it based on how much he spends or is there a point of diminishing returns? How pissed-off do you have to get before you say something...or cut him off?
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    I had a regular for about 2 years and we had a good relationship (I thought). At first I used to dance for him and then that kind of got old LOL coz he was coming in every shift I worked so he started paying me for my time just to sit in the private area and chat. He also used to bring in a massage tool and massage my back and feet with it which was delightful and he even came in in the last few hours of my shift to do that when he knew I would be sore and tired.

    Anyway all of a sudden he started touching me inappropriately. Like using really dumb excuses to try to hide the fact that he was trying to cop a feel. For instance he pretended to think there was something wrong with my g-string in order to try to touch that area.

    It was really offensive and invasive and it really soured me towards him. I started to feel really uncomfortable and defensive around him, always watching his hands. It was a shame he had to spoil it like that. He is no longer my regular but I didn't tell him to stop coming in he just did. I did put up with his bad behaviour because he used to give me about $600 to sit with him for 2 hours and I didn't have to dance. Guess he reached his use by date.
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    My regular didn't have the cash to pay me, and thought I'd be cool fronting him the dances. Ruined my entire day, as I was out about $100, on a dayshift. He paid me back the next week, and I pulled an extra $20 or $40 out of his wallet for punitive damages. Then, next time I saw him was in the parking lot of the club, before my shift. He asked me if I wanted to take a ride with him in his truck and give him a BJ. I never spoke to him again.

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    I had a few regulars who thought it meant they were my only customer, aka my "club boyfriend". Yep, a few actually thought that because we chatted in the cub we were dating. One guy got into a fight with another regular because he was "stealing his girfriend". I had to tell him that I wasn't his girlfriend "yet" (not ever but didn't want to say that). He stopped coming to the club. Another regular would sometimes bring his wife. Ok, I had no issue with that one, except eventually they asked me to join them for a threesome (I declined). They still spent money though. On a lesser note, I had a few regulars who eventually thought I'd spend more time with them for less money and eventually no money. When I said no, they also stopped coming to the club.

    This didn't happen to me, but my best friend (as in a best friend since high school I got into dancing) got this one regular. He seemed nice and spent a lot of money on here. After a while he started waiting for her outside after a shift. She was polite to him because he paid well. That is until one day we were driving home (we drove together since we lived nearby) and noticed he was following us. We got on the interstate and drove into a different area to lose him. A few days later we quit the club (which we were planning to do anyways). Another dancer had a regular follow her to her apartment (which she shared with her boyfriend). He crawled into her window! Not sure what happened after that though. After these stalking instances, I always checked to make sure no one got in my car, and no one was following me.
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    Got another one. Regular liked me to talk dirty to him. Now, I'll gladly talk dirty all afternoon if the custy wants to pay, sit back, and enjoy regular dances. But, like jazaine's cust, mine stated getting handsy too. It was waaaaaaaay too stressful to talk dirty, lapdance, AND fight his octopus hands.

    Once I got sufficiently fed up, I thanked him and started to leave when called for my stage set. He begged me to stay, tried to shove money in my hands, offered to buy me offstage. The club was very dead that day and I knew I would have made less than $10 from 4 or 6 songs onstage. But I didn't care, I had other customers to deal with, and he had pushed me way past a level of manageable discomfort.

    Every time I saw him at the club after, he's just stare at me with puppy dog eyes and this sad face, like he was a homeless stray who really needed "a bone".

    See guys, even strippers sometimes won't take a customer's money! I just couldn't condone his behavior for myself or any other dancer.

    It was too bad, because he was so polite in asking me if I would talk dirty with him as part of our dances, and said he'd understand if I said no because many dancers were not comfortable with it. But when it came to grabbing me repeatedly after I said no, all bets were off.

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    I was a little more tolerant when I first started dancing. Or rather, I didn't know better. Anyway, one of my regs was obsessed with me. I mean head over heels in love. He knew I was married and I thought that bc he knew I was married, he'd also know that he had no shot at anything OTC. God was I wrong! I had given him my cell # (you know that lil voice in your head that tells you not to do something? Yeah she was screaming at me over this but I ignored her) and he'd given me his. Fine no problem. In the beginning it was a text every now and then. Then he was texting and calling ALL the time. Still I tried to be nice - he was still spending. And then when things in his head started to get more serious with me he stopped buying dances. So I stopped spending as much time with him. Then one night he went absolutely insane bc he thought I left without saying goodbye. He BLEW UP my phone. Literally called a DOZEN times in the space of 5 min. That's not an exaggeration. I didn't answer and I called him back the next day and told him not to call or text anymore. I found out later he was going around telling ppl I was his gf.

    Now? NO ONE gets my number. And NO ONE would EVER pull this crap with me again.
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    One guy became my regular and then broke up with his g/f for me even after I made clear I wouldn't date him. He was just as annoying as he was good-looking, in the end.
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    I had a regular who would come in once a week and buy two dances, tipping around $300 total for them. He liked to be "abused" and he fancied himself a submissive and a masochist. He wasn't, really. He liked a little bit of pain (little things, like standing on him and scratching him), but he was very pushy about certain things, and I'd be in there dancing for him, and he'd ask me to stand on him with my stilettos, then he'd grab one of my feet and try to change the angle. During a dom/sub situation, the sub does NOT tell the dom what to do. Ever.

    But he was very weird, and he would talk and talk and talk about the most inane things. I knew I wasn't the only girl there that he liked, but then I found out that he was trying to play me and another girl against each other. He'd tell her that she was his favorite and I was no good at the dances, and I would talk shit about her, etc., then he'd turn around and tell me the same thing about her. Neither of us dancers took him seriously. Then he stopped spending. He'd come in and sit and take up time and space, then say, "Oh, I don't have any money, my check doesn't come till Friday." And this was always the story. I haven't seen him in about nine months or so. Good riddance. Towards the end, even when he was paying a little bit of money, I could barely stand being around him for the amount of time it took to do the dances. He was so fucking annoying.

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    Quote Originally Posted by firemaiden04 View Post
    Towards the end, even when he was paying a little bit of money, I could barely stand being around him for the amount of time it took to do the dances. He was so fucking annoying.
    This sentiment seems to be a recurring theme with dancers I know. Sometimes it just isn't worth putting up with the needy and whiny BS for a guy's $40.
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    I had a regular about 4 years ago who spent a grand on me a week. Awesome fucking regular but jealous as hell and a mind fuck. When I went on stage I wasn't allowed to dance for any of the guys up there and when I got off stage I had to come directly back to him and not talk to ANYONE! I put up with it because c'mon $1000 a week??! Back in 2006 my club turned into Scores (didn't last, long story, kinda pathetic!) and Baba Booey from the Howard Stern show came in and I and a bunch of other girls got to go to dinner with him. Well we came back to the club and proceeded up to the VIP couches. My regular wasn't suppose to be in that night but showed up anyways. He saw me up there and ran up the stairs and was in my face screaming "Get your fucking ass down here by me right now!!" I was like, hell no! I told him to go back down and I'd be there in a bit. I didn't come down...he embarassed me and plus I was having fun. So he storms back up there and FINALLY someone (the owners son btw) comes up there and asks what the problem was. My regular was like, "I spend $4000 a month on her and I want her by me NOW!" So what does the owners son do??! Tells me that I need to go down by this guy because he's spending that kind of money. WTF? So I go down by him and he is just screaming at me at a table, the place is packed and I'm seething. Some customer butts in and asks me for a dance and I say "Of course!" Leave regular mid-sentence and go into booth. Regular follows me in the booth and is pulling me off of the customer by the arm. Finally the customer shoves him off of me and they are going at it. I'm just staring in disbelief. So a bouncer final-fucking-ly runs over and rips them apart. Owners son comes over, kicks the good customer out and lets psychopath stay!! I told them both to fuck off, packed my shit and left. I came back to the club eventualy but haven't seen that fucker since.

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    The only thing more outrageous than the idiot customer's behavior was the club not backing you up. Good for you, walking out!
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    I didn't really do the regular thing because I traveled so much when dancing, however, my best friend's regular made a real pain of himself when she kicked him to the curb and stopped taking his calls. He would come in and bother me in order to get to her. It got to the point that I asked him to leave, but he started messing with my customers insisting that I give him my friend's phone number.

    I had him bounced. He was already banned from coming in when my friend was working, that got him perma-banned.


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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    The only thing more outrageous than the idiot customer's behavior was the club not backing you up. Good for you, walking out!

    Yea no shit eh?! Thanks for NOT doing your jobs dick heads.. Just goes to show that money means more to some people than other people's safety..

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Yea no shit eh?! Thanks for NOT doing your jobs dick heads.. Just goes to show that money means more to some people than other people's safety..
    i really don't understand because he's paying YOU the 4k not the club right? i cannot believe the club didn't back you up, so ridiculous.

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    Quote Originally Posted by laurcon View Post
    i really don't understand because he's paying YOU the 4k not the club right? i cannot believe the club didn't back you up, so ridiculous.
    SCL (Stupid Club Logic) would be that if he is that big of a spender and stays all night then he must be buying a ton of liquor. That is really all the cub cares about. Once the club gets a dancer's house fee out of her she is nothing more to them than an attractive incentive for guys to spend money on drinks and VIP fees...
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    Quote Originally Posted by laurcon View Post
    i really don't understand because he's paying YOU the 4k not the club right? i cannot believe the club didn't back you up, so ridiculous.

    Yep, all mine! By them forcing me to go by him that night, they lost his business anyways. As did I. It's sad because with the way the economy is now I would put up with his b.s. for that money nowadays

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    Mine is similar to Jay's. I had a regular who was just getting more and more clingy and spending less and less and constantly pushing for me to go to a hotel with him...ewww! Not that I would anyways, but he was old, fat and ugly. He also knew I was married and had my number. When I felt I could get no more money out of him without doing extras (there was no chance in hell that would ever happen), I dumped him. Told him I didn't want to see him anymore and that he shouldn't contact me.

    He proceeded to txt me around 10-15 messages in a row. Some where like, "I love you. Why are you doing this?" then the next would be "Your nothing but a dirty whore . I know you sleep with other customers you bitch" and "If you really loved your husband you wouldn't be working there. If we were together, you'd never have to work. I know it's me you really love." WTF? I didn't respond to any of them. I actually rang one of his friends (another customer) to ask if I should be worried he was going to stalk or kill me or something. The other custie said no and that he does this all the time. Picks a girl and thinks they are in love and then freaks when she won't take it further. But that he always backs off and finds another. He offered to talk to him, but I said no. The texts continued for a few weeks, just one or two here and there and I ignored them all. Then he rang on a blocked number which I answered thinking it was my husband and he asked if I wanted to go out for dinner. WTF? I just said, "No. I asked you not to contact me. I am not interested in you." and hung up. He never msged or called again. I saw him in the club one night and he came up and said hi. I just said hi and went off with one of my massive tattooed customers that looks pretty intimidating. The idiot regular then sent a text to my phone that said "You look beautiful. I miss you." Again I never responded. That was the last I heard of him and that was about 4 months ago.

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    ^^
    that sort of behaviour really scares me. stalkers can become violent and even homicidal.
    be careful walking to your car etc.

    The same regular I mentioned above also had stalkerish tendencies.
    He found out my licence plate coz he saw me leave work, found out what gym I trained at and then eventually where I lived. He used to mention it in a creepy way - like give little hints that he knew.

    Then one night my ex boyfriend saw a man standing outside in the dark spying on my house. The guy took off. I think it was him.
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    SCL (Stupid Club Logic) would be that if he is that big of a spender and stays all night then he must be buying a ton of liquor. That is really all the cub cares about. Once the club gets a dancer's house fee out of her she is nothing more to them than an attractive incentive for guys to spend money on drinks and VIP fees...
    I think I understand this logic. many of the serious "room guys" at my club drink only water. they came for the girls, not the booze. although of course these guys buy the girls drinks and/or bottles. i don't however think that one customer and one dancer's drinks could really make enough for the club to make it worth the shitty dancer morale.
    the way i could obviously see the club backing the customer is if he does hours in the champagne room and buys $800 bottles. then there would really be no question. that is why i asked her if he was just handing her the money or if the club was getting any, meaning through room fees or bottle prices.

    while the management may seriously tell a girl she needs to go spend time with a big spender, I can't imagine firing her over it.
    when it comes down to it, we are independent entertainers and do not have to spend time with or dance for anyone we don't want to!

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    I've had so many creeper customers its not even funny

    The worse was this one who became obsessed with me, he told me he loved me, would save me from the strip club, etc.
    I danced for him once, and then the other times would always sit with him and he would pay for my time. Then he started to try and get me to date him, I was young at the time like 18-19 yrs old and he was like 50's? Anyways he eventually started to get creepy, sending flowers to my day job (which I told NO ONE about at the SC so he must of been stalking me)
    I stopped going to work, and that's when the harassing text messages/phone calls started, they ranged from "I love you so much, please be with me" to "You fucking bitch, you must be gay to not want to be with me, I will ruin your name"
    He then sent flowers to my HOME, how he figured out where I lived I don't know, then one day I came outside to find a letter from him on my car...I was SO scared. I ended up contacting an officer I know and moved...He eventually left me alone but the first night I came back to work after a 6 month hiatus (he was scaring me so bad I stopped going into work) he was there and kept following me around the club and begging me to talk to him (I never replied to the texts/calls which bothered him SO bad). I told him if he didn't cease and deist I was going to get a PPO against him and have him banned from the bar permanently.
    He was SUCH a weirdo, telling me he was in love with me and I was his soul mate...I told him "You don't even know me, you have an infatuation not actual love for me"

    Sigh guys are so strange.

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    Wow you ladies have to put up with alot more crap than I would have ever imagined.
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