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    ^I'm guessing that "not being willing to pay for it" will be right near the top of the list...
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    I don't pay for conversation but I enjoy talking to the dancer sometimes. I may take the dancer straight to the lap dance room or we may talk for 15 minutes or so, depending on the mood.

    Paying a dancer for conversation in a SC is different than talking to women OTC. In the SC, it's a sexually charged atmosphere (half naked dancer), a no strings attached environment, a party atmosphere where the customer may have had a few drinks, and a fantasy environment.

    So, in the SC, there's an endorphin/chemical rush for the customer, an emotional high of sorts, when he's paying for conversation. Having the conversation may give him an emotional high just like when you go into a casino.

    When a dancer just sits and talks to a customer for free, the customer is getting free services without the dancer knowing it, sometimes. It's OK to talk for a few minutes with a customer, but anymore than that and he's getting free services.

    He's not paying for conversation per se, he's paying for that emotional high.
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    for me it works about to about $2 bucks a minute if i both iniated and continue to drive the conversation and there is contact initated by me (she's on my lap at the bar or something similar)i) - usually in 10 dollar increments.

    with an exceptionally attractive dancer (possibly new to that particular club) and if I pick her out and ask her over to the bar. i willusually start it with a $20 , but in those cases, I will usually buy at least a few lap dancers, and often tell her I intend to buy a dances in maybe 10 minutes.

    I actually want these girls to make lots of money, but no just from me, especially true with new dancers, as there is always a risk they might not be able to handle the level of bullshit certain customers inflict on them, and will quit

    when you are with them at the bar, and they are getting paid, iits not like they are out of sight to other customers when they go in typical lap dance areas. so some of these other customers will still see them, and that benefits everybody, they make money and odds go up they stay in the business.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SteveSmith View Post
    I don't pay for conversation but I enjoy talking to the dancer sometimes. I may take the dancer straight to the lap dance room or we may talk for 15 minutes or so, depending on the mood.

    Paying a dancer for conversation in a SC is different than talking to women OTC. In the SC, it's a sexually charged atmosphere (half naked dancer), a no strings attached environment, a party atmosphere where the customer may have had a few drinks, and a fantasy environment.

    So, in the SC, there's an endorphin/chemical rush for the customer, an emotional high of sorts, when he's paying for conversation. Having the conversation may give him an emotional high just like when you go into a casino.

    When a dancer just sits and talks to a customer for free, the customer is getting free services without the dancer knowing it, sometimes. It's OK to talk for a few minutes with a customer, but anymore than that and he's getting free services.

    He's not paying for conversation per se, he's paying for that emotional high.
    the cheap asses and other assorted weirdos actually do make the club experience for other type guys way way better at times for guys fitting a bit different category.

    when you rotate among a core group of high contact clubs located in fairly distant areas. with visits usually, an hr or so for each one. there can be this "high" of sorts, just contemplating visiting clubs, never knowing who the new girls might be, whether a certain very hot girl you've previously met might be there again, and while I might hava a vague idea about a "schedule" I never accept any contact information about when they might be there, as i don't want regular things, and i want to keep it all as random as possible. This is the customers version of being what in real life women refer to in men as being noncommittal, actually not a bad thing for reasons i've alluded to eslewhere

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    Quote Originally Posted by SteveSmith View Post
    I don't pay for conversation but I enjoy talking to the dancer sometimes. I may take the dancer straight to the lap dance room or we may talk for 15 minutes or so, depending on the mood.
    Oops. I meant, I'll talk to the dancer for 15 minutes or so before the lap dances. I won't waste a dancer's time talking to her unless I plan on buying dances afterwards.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Slin View Post
    We hear about horror stories regarding customer behavior during lap dances all the time on here. I was wondering if there are any (hopefully amusing) similar stories regarding customers during conversations. Just like how some dancers don't like to be touched a certain ways, what are things that you guy would consider to be improper behavior from a custie during conversation? There's the obvious ones like trying to get extras or a OTC meeting but what are the less obvious ones?
    Any kind of racist comments. I've been getting a lot of that ever since Obama was elected. People think that just because I look white, it's ok for them to talk to me about "the mexicans" and our n----- president. I even had one guy tell me that he wouldn't go into the adult bookstore that he owned because of "the fags". It's fucking disgusting.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Slin View Post
    Just like how some dancers don't like to be touched a certain ways, what are things that you guy would consider to be improper behavior from a custie during conversation? There's the obvious ones like trying to get extras or a OTC meeting but what are the less obvious ones?
    While I'm not on the right side of the conversation to answer this, it's not that different than talking to a real girl. I don't know why anybody would think that cause you're paying for her time, the types of conversations you have should be different. Pretty simple: don't be a jerk (and make fun of people), be considerate and respect her boundaries (if she feels uncomfortable with a certain line of conversation, don't push it - she probably has reasons she doesn't want to talk about something), and don't be a debbie downer and focus on any negative things (like how dead the club is).

    Be respectful, keep the convo light (politics are a big no-no) and have fun (flirt!). The upside of dancers is they'll never make you feel bad if you're a bad conversationalist - make awful jokes and watch them bomb - they'll laugh at you (although they'll sure make it seem like they're laughing with you!).

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    Quote Originally Posted by ct1111 View Post
    The upside of dancers is they'll never make you feel bad if you're a bad conversationalist - make awful jokes and watch them bomb - they'll laugh at you (although they'll sure make it seem like they're laughing with you!).
    You mean, my jokes are not really funny?
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    Quote Originally Posted by SteveSmith View Post
    I don't pay for conversation but I enjoy talking to the dancer sometimes. I may take the dancer straight to the lap dance room or we may talk for 15 minutes or so, depending on the mood.

    Paying a dancer for conversation in a SC is different than talking to women OTC. In the SC, it's a sexually charged atmosphere (half naked dancer), a no strings attached environment, a party atmosphere where the customer may have had a few drinks, and a fantasy environment.

    So, in the SC, there's an endorphin/chemical rush for the customer, an emotional high of sorts, when he's paying for conversation. Having the conversation may give him an emotional high just like when you go into a casino.

    When a dancer just sits and talks to a customer for free, the customer is getting free services without the dancer knowing it, sometimes. It's OK to talk for a few minutes with a customer, but anymore than that and he's getting free services.

    He's not paying for conversation per se, he's paying for that emotional high.
    well put!
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    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Slin View Post
    We hear about horror stories regarding customer behavior during lap dances all the time on here. I was wondering if there are any (hopefully amusing) similar stories regarding customers during conversations. Just like how some dancers don't like to be touched a certain ways, what are things that you guy would consider to be improper behavior from a custie during conversation? There's the obvious ones like trying to get extras or a OTC meeting but what are the less obvious ones?
    Very little, besides the obvious stuff like bragging about criminal acts that involved victims (drugs and hookers are fine, I like talking about that stuff). Expounding religious or political views and values that are very different from mine come to mind. Bujt I've had to listen to that from clientele in other lines of works, so you grin and bear it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ct1111 View Post
    While I'm not on the right side of the conversation to answer this, it's not that different than talking to a real girl.

    *twitch*

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