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    Default Telling the boyfriend about camming

    What do you girls think is the best way to tell my bf that I want to start camming? I've been trying to have this conversation with him for weeks now and I always beat around the bush and chicken out before I get to the point.

    If it weren't for him, I KNOW I would have started camming already because the whole concept of entertaining and being my own boss and getting back from a job what I put into it makes me so friggin happy (I've had my domain registered for like 2 months). Any advice is appreciated.
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    Default Re: Telling the boyfriend about camming

    Ask him what he thinks of other girls that do it, to see how he feels about it. If he isn't screaming for them to be put to death, maybe hypothesise out loud about how easy the money would be and how you need extra cash.

    Play it by ear from there.

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    Default Re: Telling the boyfriend about camming

    Depends on how long you've been with him I think. I mean, from what I can gather from your post, it sounds like there's something about him that holds you back. If a guy makes you feel like that, and is standing in the way of your progress/happiness, is he really worth it?


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    These are the phrases that stood out to me and why I say this:

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    If it weren't for him
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    what I put into it makes me so friggin happy
    Quote Originally Posted by markx View Post
    I'd have to have a "4 simease twin strippers gave me head and then lite themselves on fire" story to blow anybody's mind here.

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    Default Re: Telling the boyfriend about camming

    Do you really have to tell him, I know I am selffish now I am the point where I am more concerned about things for myself in my life then what other people think.

    You just have to come out straight and ask him, if you ask him about other girls he will have a different opinion about his own girlfriend doing it.
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    Default Re: Telling the boyfriend about camming

    ^^^
    That's understandable. One of the dilemmas of being a woman in today's world I think. (Like it's all supposed to be one or the other or something).
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    I'd have to have a "4 simease twin strippers gave me head and then lite themselves on fire" story to blow anybody's mind here.

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    Default Re: Telling the boyfriend about camming

    I agree with Christany... don't let anyone hold you back!
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    Default Re: Telling the boyfriend about camming

    Babe, you have to do what makes you happy. Otherwise, what is the point of living? Just suck it up, sit your bf down, and tell him that this is what you want to do. Tell him everything you know about it and why you want to do it. Then, see what happens. Let us know how it goes. *hug*

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    Default Re: Telling the boyfriend about camming

    Gonna have to agree with everyone here, do what makes you happy!

    On the flip side of that I can see what you mean with him being "the one"

    You can probably get an idea of how he'd feel with how he acts in day to day life.. Do you two live together?

    Are there ANY trust issues at all between you? Do you watch porn together? Has 3soms ever been brought up (even jokingly)? How does he act around previous boyfriends? How do YOU act around his previous girlfriends? If someone hits on you at a club or something does he just kinda smile and love that he has you?

    Where I'm going with all these questions is jealousy.. If he gets jealous there might be some issues... If YOU get jealous easily he might also see it kind of strange, get what I mean?

    If you don't have any of these problems just sit him down and explain everything, but do your research first for any questions he has about it because it will still CATCH HIM OFFGUARD. Bring up how you can work when you want, that there are block zones so people you know won't find out, how you'll have more time for him, ect ect..

    He may be put off at FIRST... My boyfriend was like O.o at first ( I did it before I met him and had to break it to him lol) but now he absolutely loves it! But we are REALLY open with each other. It turns him on a lot! lol

    Good luck!

    edit: just wanted to add, if his only concern is your well-being later in life like your pictures being on the internet *forever* lol... compromise and say you can take archives without showing your face, OR you can even buy a really nice wig to use while hosting and do you makeup different, maybe even colored contacts.. I've been considering doing this myself just for a look change but it can definitely make you look like a whole different person

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