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    Ladies, what would you say is the average shelf life of a regular, and the reason for the end? -like, he found a new girl, he became to needy and you cut him off, etc...

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    Default Re: Shelf Life of a Regular

    There is no exact number that will answer this question. Some regulars last years, others only weeks. This is like answering how long is the average marriage? The answer may be something like 25 years, but that really mean nothing to most people.


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    I would say the number one reason I lost a regular is because he realized I wouldn't go farther than being a regular. I've also lost regulars when I switched clubs (no, not all regulars leave clubs when dancers do), or he lost interest, or he moved (yes, lost a few this way). Others simply disappeared. One guy I used to call the $200 guy because every Friday he'd spend $200 (a lot for a $5 no contact bikini club) for about an hour of conversation and some dances. After a few months he disappeared. I never knew why he did that and others were the same way. For all I know his wife found out or he moved. He may have even died for all I know.

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    There is no exact number that will answer this question. Some regulars last years, others only weeks. This is like answering how long is the average marriage? The answer may be something like 25 years, but that really mean nothing to most people.
    True. There are a few regulars I've had since dancing, and while I retired from club dancing years ago, there have been times I still did parties for regulars (not that much now). Common? Probably not, but it does happen. I personally know a dancer who started in 1992 and still has one regular that followed her from club to club, to featuring. It's funny because in that time she's been married several times and other things yet he stayed.

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    same here. I have some regulars for 10 or more years. some just a few months reasons vary but mostly they just want a new girl.me I am not possive of my regulars, like some girls don't touch him he is mine type thing .me if they request me I go and if a guy who is my regular wants to try a new girl, I give him my best and so long.his money his choise/
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    I had one for 2 years, I currently have had one for almost a year. I've had very many for months.

    The reason for the relationship coming to an end is when he is no longer getting whatever it is he needed from the relationship. This is often brought on by unrealistic expectations about what is going to happen.
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    Personally, I don't like regulars all that much. It's great the first couple of times, but they always want more. They start to pressure me to do things they know I don't allow, but they think it will be different because they've spent some money on me before.

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    Agree with all said above... depends on each individual, but 9x out of 10 it's when they realize no amount of money is ever going to get me to sleep with them.

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    I think it depends on what the regular wants from the stripper. My best regular I've had for six months now, once a week like clockwork. He's been coming to my club for a long time and has been dancing with one girl for eight years. I'm fairly sure I'll have him for the next three until I quit. He loves my club and has been coming this often for eight years, is happily married and much older than me and has no desire to date me, and his wife knows he goes to the club and is totally OK with it.

    Some other regulars have lasted a few weeks, a few months. Some have dissapeared, I lost when I switched clubs, lost interest because I wouldn't take the relationship further, I dumped because they became too pushy and weren't worth the trouble, or I lost
    to other girls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    I had one for 2 years, I currently have had one for almost a year. I've had very many for months.
    My understanding is 6 months is the norm. Anything more than that is considered a bonus.
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    How about a twist on this question. What's the $$$ value of a regular during his duration as a regular?

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1st_samurai View Post
    How about a twist on this question. What's the $$$ value of a regular during his duration as a regular?
    Here's an idea. How about if you start your own thread instead of hijacking this one...

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    Default Re: Shelf Life of a Regular

    I have regulars from ten years ago. Does that answer your question?

    The end - It's rare but it seems that I've lost a few customers over the years to girls who under cut or are dirtier than me. It's really no loss. There will be others and more.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Stripper Hacks View Post
    I have regulars from ten years ago. Does that answer your question?
    Yeah, I suppose. I was just curious, the dancer I frequently see tells me most guys last about a year then they move on to someone else. Then she proceeds to tell me... ya know- we're approaching the one year point. -I was like....ok...wtf...do you WANT me to find somebody else? -haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tdonuts View Post
    Yeah, I suppose. I was just curious, the dancer I frequently see tells me most guys last about a year then they move on to someone else. Then she proceeds to tell me... ya know- we're approaching the one year point. -I was like....ok...wtf...do you WANT me to find somebody else? -haha
    Shelf life of a regular is pretty much in the hands of the regular. As long as you are spending money and respecting a lady's boundaries it isn't very likely that she is going to ignore your presence in the club.

    If, OTOH, a regular starts demanding more time for less money or more time than a lady is willing to give trouble starts. If a guy starts asking for OTC trouble starts. If a guy starts causing drama with the lady with the club, with other dancers or with other customers he becomes more aggravation than his money is worth. These are the guys who get kicked to the curb

    Clingy, whiny and creepy are not the qualities that dancers look for in a regular...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tdonuts View Post
    Yeah, I suppose. I was just curious, the dancer I frequently see tells me most guys last about a year then they move on to someone else. Then she proceeds to tell me... ya know- we're approaching the one year point. -I was like....ok...wtf...do you WANT me to find somebody else? -haha
    maybe she was hinting for an 'anniversary' gift..

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    Quote Originally Posted by dlabtot View Post
    maybe she was hinting for an 'anniversary' gift..
    -lol, I was thinking that myself.

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    Aww... yeah that's cute. I don't think it means your shelf life is up, I think it means like "Wow, we've been doing this for awhile, isn't that novel? In a world where most would have moved on.."

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    Congratulations on your "paper" anniversary. I hope you make it to "leather" or wood".

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Shelf life of a regular is pretty much in the hands of the regular.
    Indeed. And trying to politely become irregular (due to the economy, not by choice) can be difficult if your fav has your cell number.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sadbuttrue View Post
    Congratulations on your "paper" anniversary. I hope you make it to "leather" or wood".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tdonuts View Post
    Yeah, I suppose. I was just curious, the dancer I frequently see tells me most guys last about a year then they move on to someone else. Then she proceeds to tell me... ya know- we're approaching the one year point. -I was like....ok...wtf...do you WANT me to find somebody else? -haha
    That's a little strange. I never talk about other regulars in front of a regular because I dont want my good regulars to think that I thin of them as just another customer.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    That's a little strange. I never talk about other regulars in front of a regular because I dont want my good regulars to think that I thin of them as just another customer.
    Girls ALWAYS talk about their other regulars to me. Almost always negatively, which I think is intended to convey the message (true or not), "you're different and good."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Girls ALWAYS talk about their other regulars to me. Almost always negatively."
    -VERY TRUE, i get told names, ocupations, how long they've been a reg, and whether they tip or not. -TMI

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    My average is a few months. My longest was 6 years

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tdonuts View Post
    -VERY TRUE, i get told names, ocupations, how long they've been a reg, and whether they tip or not. -TMI
    That seems incredibly stupid... on the dancer's part not yours.

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