Oh no, I live in Texas, not MA. My house got flooded some years ago.




Oh no, I live in Texas, not MA. My house got flooded some years ago.





Your friendship with Yoda led me to think you lived in this area. My error. You folks have more weather drama than we do. I actually didn't realize what a big deal this was till i heard it being talked about on national news programs the night it was happening. And since you mention Texas, that band I mentioned earlier in the thread just returned from playing there but I realize your state is a little bit bigger than mine, so they probably weren't in any proximity to you.
Last edited by bem401; 04-03-2010 at 11:39 AM.
"never trust a big butt and a smile"-- Bell Biv DeVoe
If you're in your twenties and aren't a liberal, you have no heart. If you're in you're forties and aren't a conservative, you have no brain - Winston Churchill





As I've said before BEM, I don't go to strip clubs looking to have conversations with customers, least of all one who spreads gossip and innuendo indiscriminately about the same women he calls his friends. Save your one-on-one bs for someone who cares...
By the way, I don't consider myself an expert or a "luminary". Those are your words. I do however have opinions otherwise I wouldn't be posting here. You have proven time and time again on this board that you are unable to discern context therefore the fact that you say I said something is meaningless. This isn't math class BEM. Everything is not as black and white as you would like to paint it...





I get around BEM...
BTW, I am truly glad that you and your friends survived the floods in relatively good shape but you must have missed the news reports on parts of Massachusetts being declared a disaster area, the President touring the damages last week, the IRS giving folks in the heavily damaged areas an extra month to file their taxes and all the news reports of bridges, roads and parts of towns being under water. What happened in the Ocean State is truly horrific but we got a little rain up here too...




Yoda, how did your properties fare from the flooding? Are you and your loved ones safe and ok?





We are all OK KS, thank you for asking. There was severe flooding in my city near the river but, fortunately, I don't live in that part of town. There was a dam that was threatening to burst near my mom's building and, if it had, she wold have had to evacuate but luckily it didn't happen.
I guess I'm lucky. The house I lived in when I was married used to take on water in the basement pretty much on a regular basis. If I was still married I would probably still be living there! I can only imagine what the folks who live there now are gong through. Dozens of folks in the lower areas of my city have lost everything. One lady's house was actually lifted right off the foundation by the water.
I live in a condo with no basement and I'm quite happy about that...





Actually, I wasn't thinking so much about it being a conversation..... As far as spreading gossip and innuendo, I did no such thing. My only mistake was not realizing certain conclusions could be mistakenly jumped to that were by no means implied by me, much like a picture of a young golfer was somehow or other seen as kiddie porn. Concluding that two people spending time together outside the club necessarily means escorting is taking place only happens in the minds of people who are wrapped up in that lifestyle and see these women as sex workers or sex objects first and normal people second. Such people can take inocuous comments as gossip and innuendo because they are fixated on what that lifestyle involves.
OK, so I guess I imagined that you made the Asian comment and a prior one about conversations.
"never trust a big butt and a smile"-- Bell Biv DeVoe
If you're in your twenties and aren't a liberal, you have no heart. If you're in you're forties and aren't a conservative, you have no brain - Winston Churchill





"never trust a big butt and a smile"-- Bell Biv DeVoe
If you're in your twenties and aren't a liberal, you have no heart. If you're in you're forties and aren't a conservative, you have no brain - Winston Churchill





I thought you were done...
At any rate, you have said nothing new here. Just the same old broken record arguments about the minutia of what was said or not said in another post. You keep falling back on the same one or two specifics but what I have are pages of emails from you that support my opinion. Your continued insistence that I have a problem because I go into a strip club and act like a customer instead of a time-wasting parasite is, as always, laughable but entertaining.
The national news had plenty of coverage concerning the flooding in Mass as well as RI and other states. As usual you made an off handed comment based on your myopic view of the world and you are now back-pedaling and claiming that, among other events, a presidential visit to Massachusetts that included touring flood damage in the state was not covered on the national nightly news. Come on BEM, I was born at night, but not last night...
The shelf life of a regular is the amount of money that he spends minus the amount of aggravation that comes along with it. I think it's pretty clear why your "friends" don't want your money...










Yes, because they don't view me in the same light as you, yet several will socialize with me away from work (BTW, that doesn't mean they're escorting, FYI). Hell, I've even been treated to dinner by people you've paid to spend time with. Keep it up.
I don't watch the nightly news. Too biased. Obama was in MA for a fundraiser and blew off RI, that's all I heard. I was glad though to hear you escaped damage though, I wish that on no one.
One of my friends texted me a photo today of her destroyed apartment. Water to the ceiling at one point.
The club we discuss escaped any noticeable damage but a bridge within sight of it was destroyed and the river overflowed it's banks only a couple hundred yards away. There was all kinds of tires and garbage over its banks when I went by the other day.
"never trust a big butt and a smile"-- Bell Biv DeVoe
If you're in your twenties and aren't a liberal, you have no heart. If you're in you're forties and aren't a conservative, you have no brain - Winston Churchill





The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.




And I'm sure that someone else had gotten treated to dinner by my CPA. And my mechanic. And my psychologist. Hell, even my hairdresser spends free time with people whereas I have to pay her to listen to my whine while she does my hair. Imagine that.
See where I'm going here? If yoda doesn't mind being a customer and keeping it professional, why keep attacking? If he didn't want to spend the money he wouldn't. Srsly, he is a very likeable guy. Just that some people prefer to simplify aspects of their lives.





BEM, you have not cornered the market on dancer friends. I simply choose not to come here and prattle on and on about my experiences with dancers outside of the club. By the way, I'm not sure what would give you the idea that I ever thought you were paying your friends to escort for you. I've never even mentioned it where either they or you are concerned.
I make it a habit to pay for the meal when I dine with a lady...call me old fashioned...





KS, any of my "attacks" on him are in response to his on me. I initiate nothing, I only react. As far as him being likeable, one of his dancers told me a couple years ago that she thought he and I would actually get along were we ever to meet. It got a laugh out of me but I'll admit this girl generally knows her stuff. Now you watch, he'll find something in this post to attack.
And Yoda, I always pick up the dinner tab unless the lady I happen to be with insists on doing so, and on a few occasions or more, the woman has insisted. And as far as "prattling on" on about outside experiences, I've only done that to explain why being a customer no longer works, at least at the (only) club I visit. As I've said before, I find myself in this situation quite by accident. It was never my goal to arrive here. It just happened.
"never trust a big butt and a smile"-- Bell Biv DeVoe
If you're in your twenties and aren't a liberal, you have no heart. If you're in you're forties and aren't a conservative, you have no brain - Winston Churchill



Are we still talking about "regulars" and how long they last ???





LOL, your friend is wrong...and so are you...
Yeah, I've had them insist as well. I am always flattered by the offer. I politely thank them and pay anyways. They always appreciate it.
Yes BEM, we've heard it a thousand times. The reality however is that, quite often, your are babbling about your status with these women as an attempted means of putting me down. It doesn't work of course. Since you know nothing about my real world relationships with any sex workers you are basically talking out of your ass when you start trying to compare your life to mine.













1. I was right to laugh.
2. She is generally right, though I'll pass along your comment that she isn't.
3. Of course, you found something to attack, just like I predicted ( I told you, KS)
There are 3 things in that post alone that were accurate.
I think you are just overly defensive about the way you behave. I comment on a thread without mentioning you at all. You see yourself in what the thread is criticizing and choose to attack me personally for not being a customer like you.
As far as comparing my life to yours, I've never done that. Apparently you do. BTW, one difference is apparent. The girls I have real world interaction with are not considered or called sex workers by me because that has nothing to do with the way I see them. Apparently its a big part of the way you see them, since you label them as such.
Lets just finish this argument one on one next time you waddle into town and I see you.
"never trust a big butt and a smile"-- Bell Biv DeVoe
If you're in your twenties and aren't a liberal, you have no heart. If you're in you're forties and aren't a conservative, you have no brain - Winston Churchill





LOL, of course BEM you are entitled to think whatever you like. I have my opinion and you have yours.
The women that you call friends and that work in a strip club work in the sex industry BEM. That's not a derogatory term , at least not from my side. If you see it as a negative I can't help that. Obviously most dancers I know don't broadcast what they do for a living outside of a small circle of trusted people and I don't walk around introducing my dancer or escort friends as sex workers when we are in public. That's just common sense BEM, something you seem to be severely lacking in.
You say that you don't compare my life to yours but you just did it again in your last post.
What is this obsession you have with meeting me in person BEM? You have been bugging me since your first email to me years ago to seek you out when I'm in Providence. Have you not yet gotten the point that I'm not interested? There is no argument to finish. You are just another faceless handle on Stripperweb to me BEM. We do what many people do, exchange opinions on the internet. You seem to think it's personal because we both know a few of the same people. Well, it's not BEM. When I log off from SW you don't exist in my life. When I take the time to drive to RI and visit a strip club I am doing it to visit with a stripper and yes, spend money on her. I don't make the trip to waste time arguing with bar flys...If I ever decide I want a crash course on how to get banned from strip clubs I will contact you, otherwise, don't hold your breath...
lol, "waddle" well, at least you are not making it personal now are you?
Babble on BEM...




Sex workers accept being called, considered, and looked at, as sex workers. Otherwise, they don't last very long in the industry. There are plenty of other occupations available to women.



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