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I met my partner at work - although I now identify as gay, we both were engaged to men when we met. We both broke off our engagements with the guys and never looked back. She is pretty much straight, and not really bisexual either (I know, I know - long story!). We are also an interracial couple (she's cantonese, I'm cauc). Jeez - our story could have made a great Lifetime channel movie of the week!
So, my point is that you just never know when or where you'll meet that special someone. Sometimes she just drops into your lap when you're least expecting it.
There are several lesbian/women run activity groups here in LA that cater to single & partnered ladies, and offer activities that range from theatre outings to white water rafting trips (and everything in between). Perhaps there might be similar types of groups in your neck of the woods.
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