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    As most people know I've been having dramatic trouble with my boyfriend. And lately, I've been thinking I'd probably have more of a connection with women.

    This isn't some spontaneous, "I hate men so now I'll like women" thing. I've always liked girls, but never really found one who liked women, in my day-to-day life.

    Any idea of where I could meet other bisexuals or lesbians?

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    From another thread.

    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    ^ SOoooo true. Bitches be crazy.

    I thought I might be gay until I tried to date a woman. O_o

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    I think you'd know if you really are attracted to other women. Have you had any experiences before? Are you comfortable and relaxed, in the intimate company of other demonstrative women?

    Here in the UK it's not uncommon for teenage girls or younger women to experience sexual encounters with other girls...almost as a 'rite of passage'. I'm not saying it's rife - but it's not unusual. I did - when I was around 17 or 18 - and it was an experience I never regretted....in fact it opened up a whole new side of my life.

    I'm in a happy, stable marriage of over 20 years - but I love women too and would class myself as truly bi-sexual. I wouldn't hit on a girl however unless it was very obvious that there was a mutual attraction and something was likely to happen.

    A sexual liaison or relationship with another girl is a deeply sensuous and erotic experience. It can also be emotionally intense so be prepared for some fireworks sometimes! However, I for one would recommend that you investigate this further if you really do find other girls attractive. If it's your first time seeking a full-time realtionship, it might also be a good idea to look for someone more experienced who can guide you to start with....

    There are plenty of women only dating sites around - you could look here:

    www.thepinksofa.com

    www.girldates.com

    www.lesbainpersonals.com

    www.wedatefree.com


    You're likely to find bi-sexual girls on swinger sites so you can try some of these too:

    www.letsmeetup.com

    www.adultfriendfinder.com

    www.playnaughty.com

    www.swingtowns.com

    www.sexinyourcity.com

    www.xmatch.com

    - there's hundreds of others..just look on 'Google'.


    For advice and tips you can have look here:

    http://lesbianlife.about.com/od/lesb...ating_Tips.htm

    I hope this helps....and may I add - is that you in your avatar? If it is...you'll have no problems finding a beautiful female partner....you're stunning.
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    You could try a gay bar if there is one in your area, word of warning though you will get hit on by some very very butch females, although I would say the personal sites listed above would be a better bet just make sure you read the ads carefully so you dont end up in a "boyfriend wants to watch" situation

    very fun thing I do with some girls from work is go to a local gay bar and compare who gets hit on the most (i'm not gay but then again most of them aren't either)

    as far as it goes though you will have relationship trouble regardless of if you are straight, gay or bi there has never been such a thing as the perfect relationship even Adam and Eve had trouble (I mean no offense to any religion or religious individuals)

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    But same goes with women as with men- I feel that meaningful connections can't be "found," they simply (and sometimes, unfortunately) must be "stumbled across." All of my best friends and lovers aren't people who I TRIED to look for and connect with, they just... Happened.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pussyinboots View Post
    I think you'd know if you really are attracted to other women. Have you had any experiences before? Are you comfortable and relaxed, in the intimate company of other demonstrative women?

    Here in the UK it's not uncommon for teenage girls or younger women to experience sexual encounters with other girls...almost as a 'rite of passage'. I'm not saying it's rife - but it's not unusual. I did - when I was around 17 or 18 - and it was an experience I never regretted....in fact it opened up a whole new side of my life.

    I'm in a happy, stable marriage of over 20 years - but I love women too and would class myself as truly bi-sexual. I wouldn't hit on a girl however unless it was very obvious that there was a mutual attraction and something was likely to happen.

    A sexual liaison or relationship with another girl is a deeply sensuous and erotic experience. It can also be emotionally intense so be prepared for some fireworks sometimes! However, I for one would recommend that you investigate this further if you really do find other girls attractive. If it's your first time seeking a full-time realtionship, it might also be a good idea to look for someone more experienced who can guide you to start with....

    There are plenty of women only dating sites around - you could look here:

    www.thepinksofa.com

    www.girldates.com

    www.lesbainpersonals.com

    www.wedatefree.com


    You're likely to find bi-sexual girls on swinger sites so you can try some of these too:

    www.letsmeetup.com

    www.adultfriendfinder.com

    www.playnaughty.com

    www.swingtowns.com

    www.sexinyourcity.com

    www.xmatch.com

    - there's hundreds of others..just look on 'Google'.


    For advice and tips you can have look here:

    http://lesbianlife.about.com/od/lesb...ating_Tips.htm

    I hope this helps....and may I add - is that you in your avatar? If it is...you'll have no problems finding a beautiful female partner....you're stunning.
    Thanks, this was really helpful!
    And also, my pics are here: http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...126411&page=12
    And here:
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...126411&page=11

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    Qi-
    I met my partner at work - although I now identify as gay, we both were engaged to men when we met. We both broke off our engagements with the guys and never looked back. She is pretty much straight, and not really bisexual either (I know, I know - long story!). We are also an interracial couple (she's cantonese, I'm cauc). Jeez - our story could have made a great Lifetime channel movie of the week!

    So, my point is that you just never know when or where you'll meet that special someone. Sometimes she just drops into your lap when you're least expecting it.

    There are several lesbian/women run activity groups here in LA that cater to single & partnered ladies, and offer activities that range from theatre outings to white water rafting trips (and everything in between). Perhaps there might be similar types of groups in your neck of the woods.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw View Post
    Qi-
    I met my partner at work - although I now identify as gay, we both were engaged to men when we met. We both broke off our engagements with the guys and never looked back. She is pretty much straight, and not really bisexual either (I know, I know - long story!). We are also an interracial couple (she's cantonese, I'm cauc). Jeez - our story could have made a great Lifetime channel movie of the week!

    So, my point is that you just never know when or where you'll meet that special someone. Sometimes she just drops into your lap when you're least expecting it.

    There are several lesbian/women run activity groups here in LA that cater to single & partnered ladies, and offer activities that range from theatre outings to white water rafting trips (and everything in between). Perhaps there might be similar types of groups in your neck of the woods.
    How do you make that leap from platonic friendship to flirting to sex? I mean, i guess the same question applies to hetero-friends, too. I have some female friends I totally would date BUT once we are good friends I feel too embarrassed or weirded out by the idea of risking friendship to turn someone into my girlfriend. Then again, if we are strangers, I feel like we should try being friends, first.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sugary View Post
    How do you make that leap from platonic friendship to flirting to sex? I mean, i guess the same question applies to hetero-friends, too. I have some female friends I totally would date BUT once we are good friends I feel too embarrassed or weirded out by the idea of risking friendship to turn someone into my girlfriend. Then again, if we are strangers, I feel like we should try being friends, first.
    To be honest - you follow the same rules that you would if it were a straight date. Just because you're the same sex, it doesn't mean that the etiquette of dating doesn't apply. You still have to respect each other and get to know each other on a social level as well as emotional levels too.

    However - if you both find each other irresistably hot - the result will be the same as if it were a guy anyway!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by sugary View Post
    How do you make that leap from platonic friendship to flirting to sex? I mean, i guess the same question applies to hetero-friends, too. I have some female friends I totally would date BUT once we are good friends I feel too embarrassed or weirded out by the idea of risking friendship to turn someone into my girlfriend. Then again, if we are strangers, I feel like we should try being friends, first.

    Well, in my case we went from friendship to sex - no messy "dating" in between!

    We met at work, and she is the polar opposite of me. She was the "good girl", and I was the rowdy rebel. Somehow, despite our physical, psychological & cultural differences, we forged a friendship. We hung out after work, sometimes with just each other, sometimes in a group. I had always felt attraction towards women, but had never acted on it (re: engaged to man). She exhibited NO female attraction to me whatsoever....or so I thought. Several times she would occasionally offer a touch or say something that would have me guessing :"Does she like me that way? Is this sensual touch all in my mind?". After two years of friendship, and after returning from an impromptu Vegas trip, we crashed at her place. One thing led to another, and BANG! A sex-a-thon that lasted for 3 days. How or why it finally happened I really can't say. I made the first not-so-subtle move, figuring that since we're both going to go off and get married soon anyways, so why not go for it? The worst that can happen is that she'll completely reject me, and we'll both just resume our seperate marriage plans.

    That was 15 years ago, and we are still together

    I gotta say that my situation was so unusual that it could only happen to me.

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    ^^^that's a cool ass story.

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