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Last edited by sugary; 06-04-2010 at 01:01 AM.
Many issues here – lets go through them one-by-one.
First the easy one. The age difference is not a big deal. If he were 26 and you were 13 that would obviously be a very major problem. But as a 22 year old you are an adult and you are mature enough to make your own decisions. I am sure that many of the posters here would consider that the age discrepancy is not a big deal. 35 is not that old.
Secondly, is the issue of his girlfriend. By your brief account, this guy seems every bit the gentleman. This has to be a personal choice on your part. He is only human, after all, and 30/40 something males are drawn to younger women. But do you want to be the other woman? Once again, your call.
This leads into what I consider the most important factor. You are a alone in a relatively strange land. You are dealing with extremely difficult circumstances. You are lonely. In short, you are not thinking completely clearly. Although, as I mentioned above, the age of 22 makes you technically an adult, a 22 year old can still make missteps rather easily.
My advice – stay friends for now until things clear up on your end (hopefully for the best). I hope things go well for your family.
i have no advice for you as my own mind is full of relationship issues currently, and i can't begin to think of another one. BUT, the age difference is NOTHING. "age ain't nothin but a number"! i'm 22, and i'm dating a 31 year old. i wouldn't date someone any younger. i've pursued people 40+. whatever.
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