This is the flip side of the "how many man missles do you SAY you have had?" thread. So you ask the guy, what number do you REALLY want to hear? Don't care? If the guy says 78, what then? How about 112? Would you have preferred to hear just enough that he's not lacking experience, but not a man whore (say between 8 and 12?), or you really don't care?
No, men are not under the same pressure to lie as women, but yes, there is actually some pressure there.




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I mean, I volunteer my number because I feel like I should warn anyone I might sleep with that I'm not really all that experienced, but I don't remember asking anyone for their number and haven't been ask myself since HS. I don't even have a slight clue how many girls my STBEX had been with before me. Don't really care about that sorta thing as long as they aren't engaging in any high risk behavior and we've both been tested...but I totally agree with some of the other girls, I'd rather they've had enough to know what they're doing. Why bother with a guy if the sex is gonna suck?
I really try to avoid all the "test" questions and other useless girl dramaz. Unless of course I'm having a PMSy "I feel fat day" or get ignored on my b-day or something, then all bets are off and out comes the crazy.


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