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    Default "How many Vag's have you had?" question

    This is the flip side of the "how many man missles do you SAY you have had?" thread. So you ask the guy, what number do you REALLY want to hear? Don't care? If the guy says 78, what then? How about 112? Would you have preferred to hear just enough that he's not lacking experience, but not a man whore (say between 8 and 12?), or you really don't care?

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    Default Re: "How many Vag's have you had?" question

    I hope to hear a high number actually, since I'm a dirty slut.

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    Default Re: "How many Vag's have you had?" question

    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    I hope to hear a high number actually, since I'm a dirty slut.
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    Default Re: "How many Vag's have you had?" question

    I would prefer a high recreational number. Mine is rather large, and I want to be on an even playing field with my guy. Pretty much, if he isn't sure as to the exact number, I'm cool with that. The more important question is "Are you healthy? How do you know?"


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    Default Re: "How many Vag's have you had?" question

    I prefer a low number, partially b/c I'm deathly afraid of getting an STI from someone. I figure experience/expertise is something that can be learned.

    It isn't a deal breaker by any means, but I would (and have) question my compatibility with someone on the basis of our lifestyle differences (in other words, it could be a problem for him that I'm asexual, just as it could be a problem for me if the other person were highly promiscuous). Similar to how I'd view someone who eats 10,000 calories a day. Serious lifestyle differences usually indicate incompatibility.

    * ETA: A really interesting thread idea, OP, even if it's derivative. My SO and I were just discussing the pressure men are under to 'know everything about sex' and the pressure they endure from their friends to constantly try to fuck women. Obviously it's not the worst kind of pressure, but there nonetheless.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    I hope to hear a high number actually, since I'm a dirty slut.
    same here. It also means he has alot of experience, so 9 times out of 10 he's god at what he does, &likes it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by daniella_maria View Post
    same here. It also means he has alot of experience, so 9 times out of 10 he's god at what he does, &likes it.
    Same here.
    When I have sex with my boy friend I always end up screaming " oh god oh god", he is god at what he does.

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    Default Re: "How many Vag's have you had?" question

    just a question, are all numbers equal? like, a one-night-stand is equal to a 5 year relationship?

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    Quote Originally Posted by sexy_adriana View Post
    Same here.
    When I have sex with my boy friend I always end up screaming " oh god oh god", he is god at what he does.
    lol! That was supposed to say good, not god. But that's really funny.

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    Default Re: "How many Vag's have you had?" question

    I don't ask. I prefer not to know because I will have a problem with it if it is high due to my jealousy/insecurities and also because I am cautious about STD's.

    I prefer not to know about anyone they have been with in the past - girlfriends, one nighters etc.

    I don't want to answer the question myself so I wouldn't ask a guy.
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    Default Re: "How many Vag's have you had?" question

    I've never asked. I'd ask my guy friends, but it's none of my business. And with my partner, it's irrelevant 'cause he's currently only getting one, and that's all I'm concerned about.

    I think men are under less pressure to lie, because women are less likely to ask, and men are less likely to be called whores and sneered at for being honest.

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    Default Re: "How many Vag's have you had?" question

    when talking to guys trying to decide if they are relationship material, i've found that i prefer virgins. i've only had one boyfriend (out of 5 total) who had any prior sexual experience and it sucked cause i would feel like he was comparing me to past girls. that everntully led to me having massive jealousy and insecurity issues and ultimately the end of the relatioship. i dont know if its purely coincidental that i've had better, longer relationships with guys that were previously inexperienced. of course i would not want the guy to lie to me about his past experience but i would hope its a low number.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pinkkitten View Post
    of course i would not want the guy to lie to me about his past experience but i would hope its a low number.
    And knowing/sensing that's what you hope for, will probably give you a low number whether it's true or not. Women are under more pressure then men in this area, but we too are under more pressure there then women probably appreciate. Just sayin...
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    Default Re: "How many Vag's have you had?" question

    I honestly don't really care if he has no experience or has a lot. As long as I trust him and I know he is not carrying anything, the rest can be taught. ^_^





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    Default Re: "How many Vag's have you had?" question

    These thread are just poppin up all over the place! lol

    Who are these people that ask this sorta thing? Really? I mean, I volunteer my number because I feel like I should warn anyone I might sleep with that I'm not really all that experienced, but I don't remember asking anyone for their number and haven't been ask myself since HS. I don't even have a slight clue how many girls my STBEX had been with before me. Don't really care about that sorta thing as long as they aren't engaging in any high risk behavior and we've both been tested...but I totally agree with some of the other girls, I'd rather they've had enough to know what they're doing. Why bother with a guy if the sex is gonna suck?
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    ^cuz sometimes teachign them the things you like is just as fun as the complete act itself.





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    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    These thread are just poppin up all over the place! lol

    Who are these people that ask this sorta thing? Really?
    Yes really. For me, this comes under the "don't as questions you may not like the answers to" kinda thing, so I don't ask. None of my business really. However, within a fairly short time of dating, or over silly dinner conversation, etc, I have been asked many times. Thought that was common for others too. It seems like one of those probing female test questions.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Will View Post
    Yes really. For me, this comes under the "don't as questions you may not like the answers to" kinda thing, so I don't ask. None of my business really. However, within a fairly short time of dating, or over silly dinner conversation, etc, I have been asked many times. Thought that was common for others too. It seems like one of those probing female test questions.
    Oh weird! I personally have never asked, or heard of more than one woman I know asking. I KNOW I don't want to know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Will View Post
    Yes really. For me, this comes under the "don't as questions you may not like the answers to" kinda thing, so I don't ask. None of my business really. However, within a fairly short time of dating, or over silly dinner conversation, etc, I have been asked many times. Thought that was common for others too. It seems like one of those probing female test questions.
    I think I'm just a weird chick. I really try to avoid all the "test" questions and other useless girl dramaz. Unless of course I'm having a PMSy "I feel fat day" or get ignored on my b-day or something, then all bets are off and out comes the crazy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sxcbbw View Post
    Oh weird! I personally have never asked, or heard of more than one woman I know asking. I KNOW I don't want to know.
    Ya, I'm with you here. What am I going to do say "Can you please count back and try to add them up?" Yep, that'd be a way to make me feel like I really didn't know what I was doing. haha Ahh, so around ?? ...and I've had under 10...Wow. No thanks! I don't want or need to know.
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    Default Re: "How many Vag's have you had?" question

    I dont care. Do you know what you are doing? If you had 1 or 1000 makes no difference to me. The way I figure, being safe is my problem as much as yours. You might lie anyways. I was with a guy who only had 1 and he was pretty fucking good... just as good as some who had many. Just listen to what I want and I am happy. All chicks are different anyway. I don't get jealous about the last poon you had because I know I am the bomb and if someone is better I really don't care as long as we had fun together.

    I've been with tons of chicks...prob more than some guys and I stilll dont know what I am doing... we are a freaking rubix cube I tell ya!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    we are a freaking rubix cube I tell ya!
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    Default Re: "How many Vag's have you had?" question

    I kind of want to hear 2-3 honestly ....... but with my new guy .... I already know he's had a wife / a few girlriends / a threesome in Vegas ........ so I'm guessing his # is higher than I'd like and I don't really care ( practice has made perfect ) .

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    The thing about STD's is that you can have one wether you have had 1 or 100 partners. The only thing that would make me nervous about STD's is if the guy didn't want to use a condom - if he'll bareback with me, he'll try that with everyone. Not gonna happen.

    Regardless of the number of partners, a simple test will indicate if he has anything.

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    I don't give a damn. Don't ask me and I won't ask you. It's pretty obvious when someone doesn't know what they're doing and you can have had 300 partners and still be clueless so I don't think your "number" means a thing.
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