Every club is different. Some are more "entertainment" clubs that are more stage performances and air dances.. And, some are more contact clubs.. And, of course, some are full out extras clubs.
As a dancer you have to choose which type of club you want to work at, and as there is much variation within dancers at each club, you have to decide how much contact you will personally allow.
Everyone is different, and there is a customer for every kind of dancer (thank goodness!!)..
Now, for MY opinion~ I work in an "entertainment" club and I am a strictly "entertainment" dancer.. I do not want to grind, never want to feel a hard penis, and do not allow touching (on his part and for my part on his naughty bits).. I feel strongly in the fact that I believe stripping/DANCING is my job, but I will not provide sexual favors (such as grinding to the point of ejaculating). I am a DANCER, an ENTERTAINER, and nothing else.
My dances are no contact and my VIPs are pretty much the same, with more of a focus on making the customer have a FUN time, laughing and being treated like the most important man on earth, rather than a grinding/sexual experience.
That is my personal preference.. I don't judge those who feel differently and I recognize the fact that in many places, I would not make any money! Which is why I don't travel, and stay at my home club. Fortunately for all of us, there is a club and customers for each type of dancer, so everybody's happy! (in whatever sense of the word

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Oh, and if a guy is just trying to get off, he's not going to stick around for too long once he realizes you aren't going to get him there.. They are pretty persistent in asking/pressuring you to grind.. or they just move on to the next girl!
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