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    Question Getting into escorting

    I had a few questions about escorting that I was wondering if you ladies could help me with. I've been soaking up all the information on here like a sponge, but I was still unsure about these Q's. I'm sure they're entirely dumb, like when I started stripping and I asked the blondest things ever! But I'd really appreciate ya'll's help!

    If you work for an agency, do they provide an in-call location for you? Is it somewhere you stay solely for your appointment times, or do you spend a whole lot of time there between appts? And do they pay for it (hotel, apartment etc) or does it come out of your money?

    If you're Independant, is an in-call location your home? Or do you rent a hotel room etc for you appointments? I feel like having men in my house would be too personal, but then I imagine a hotel would get suspicious if you frequently showed up for one-day bookings

    Also, do you know if generally, agencies mind if you are in and out of town a lot? I am in the process of moving to NYC, so I'd like to escort there during the times I'm in town to do apartment hunting, look for jobs etc. On a lot of the agency websites I looked at from TER, it seemed like some of the girls were 'available' while others were not. Could this be because they're allowed be available only for weeks that they choose, and off for other extended periods of time?

    Thanks SOOO much in advance guys!! I know some things might be kind of 'duh' to girls in the business but I really want to get a good grasp of things before I get into it and am taken advantage of!



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    I had a few questions about escorting that I was wondering if you ladies could help me with. I've been soaking up all the information on here like a sponge, but I was still unsure about these Q's. I'm sure they're entirely dumb, like when I started stripping and I asked the blondest things ever! But I'd really appreciate ya'll's help!

    If you work for an agency, do they provide an in-call location for you? Is it somewhere you stay solely for your appointment times, or do you spend a whole lot of time there between appts? And do they pay for it (hotel, apartment etc) or does it come out of your money?
    Depending on what agency you work for. Some provide an incall location for you some don't. You basically do the "call" and get on with your business.. again it all depends on the agency. Some agencies require that you stay in their office for HOURS while on call. The agency I worked for was outcall only and none of that was required. They just required you be available for you shift.

    If an agency dosen't provide an incall location .. you will be required to host your on incall and usually you make the money back double.. If you're with the right agency.

    If you're Independant, is an in-call location your home? Or do you rent a hotel room etc for you appointments? I feel like having men in my house would be too personal, but then I imagine a hotel would get suspicious if you frequently showed up for one-day bookings
    NEVER use your home as an incall location. As an independent, I use vacation rentals and 4-5 star hotels. Don't go the cheap route and stay at a budget inn or something. It's TACKY and the innkeeper will catch on to what you're doing.

    When you book a hotel at the marriott, westin, omni.. they'll leave you alone as long as you don't wear clothing screaming "I'M A HOOKER!!" Be fully clothed at all times. When you're hosting an incall at a hotel, You'll book a hotel for 3 days - a week so it's worth your time. I wouldn't book one day stays.. I mean for all that I could just do a few outcall appointments and not have to stress about getting a hotel.

    Also, do you know if generally, agencies mind if you are in and out of town a lot? I am in the process of moving to NYC, so I'd like to escort there during the times I'm in town to do apartment hunting, look for jobs etc. On a lot of the agency websites I looked at from TER, it seemed like some of the girls were 'available' while others were not. Could this be because they're allowed be available only for weeks that they choose, and off for other extended periods of time?

    Yes just let the agency know your situation. Be honest and don't compromise your schedule EVER! They'll take advantage of this and try to have you work all the time if you do. If you like a Traveling.. a touring agency is a great way to travel the country you could get with one like Belle de Jour Nj or Glamour Girls. They're reputable and well known in the industry. Yes they'll pay for your incall location and all.. Good luck!

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    Default Re: Getting into escorting

    I had a few questions about escorting that I was wondering if you ladies could help me with. I've been soaking up all the information on here like a sponge, but I was still unsure about these Q's. I'm sure they're entirely dumb, like when I started stripping and I asked the blondest things ever! But I'd really appreciate ya'll's help!

    If you work for an agency, do they provide an in-call location for you? Is it somewhere you stay solely for your appointment times, or do you spend a whole lot of time there between appts? And do they pay for it (hotel, apartment etc) or does it come out of your money?
    It depends on the agency some will provide the incall location a condo or hotel, and your pretty much there from start to finish of your shift unless you are able to talk to them about only coming in when you have an appointment it can get pretty depressing staying there all day when you have no bookings. They take their cut from what you get booked for your calls. anywhere from 40% and up.

    If you're Independant, is an in-call location your home? Or do you rent a hotel room etc for you appointments? I feel like having men in my house would be too personal, but then I imagine a hotel would get suspicious if you frequently showed up for one-day bookings
    If you choose to be independent you would basically decide on what you feel comfortable with offering incalls (remember incalls is a huge risk) If you have a low traffic you shouldn't cause too much attention to yourself.

    Also, do you know if generally, agencies mind if you are in and out of town a lot? I am in the process of moving to NYC, so I'd like to escort there during the times I'm in town to do apartment hunting, look for jobs etc. On a lot of the agency websites I looked at from TER, it seemed like some of the girls were 'available' while others were not. Could this be because they're allowed be available only for weeks that they choose, and off for other extended periods of time?

    Thanks SOOO much in advance guys!! I know some things might be kind of 'duh' to girls in the business but I really want to get a good grasp of things before I get into it and am taken advantage of!

    Agencies do not care where your from, once your the new girl you will attract business, when you have been with the agency for a period of time that is when things start to go south, Some agencies do not like hiring black women just because they are racist so you might have a hard time for just being there. so be prepared for the drama and headaches from agencies, no matter how reputable an agency might seem on paper they aren't that great once your there working for them.

    Agencies will gernally ask for your availabilty. and like I said before you can believe what the agency looks on paper.
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    Thanks so much you guys!! I really appreciate getting the opinions of people who have some experience behind what they say. Minnie, when you say incalls are a huge risk, do you mean safety wise? Or in terms of LE?

    I had a few other agency Q's, although I know each agency does things a bit differently. Do you know if most agencies expect you to have good pics in order to apply? Or is that something you would get set up after an agency took you on? I read a lot about photographers taking pics in exchange for putting the pics in a portfolio etc, but there seems to be no-one doing that in my area at all.

    Also, if you work for an agency instead of private advertising etc, how would convey what you would and wouldn't do? Malaya, I know when I asked you about it, you said you pointed potential clients towards your 'likes and dislikes' section, but if you were with an agency I'm not sure how that would work given that they set up your appts for you. I don't want to be discussing money and services with guys at all but I'm not sure how to make my boundaries clear.

    Thanks so much ladies!


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    Thanks so much you guys!! I really appreciate getting the opinions of people who have some experience behind what they say. Minnie, when you say incalls are a huge risk, do you mean safety wise? Or in terms of LE?
    in Canada incalls are illegal, so you take a risk each time you do an incall here, yes LE will be a factor to consider but it also depends on your city your working in. some LEs pick easy targets to arrest so you want to get an idea of the volume in your area of prostitution.

    I had a few other agency Q's, although I know each agency does things a bit differently. Do you know if most agencies expect you to have good pics in order to apply? Or is that something you would get set up after an agency took you on? I read a lot about photographers taking pics in exchange for putting the pics in a portfolio etc, but there seems to be no-one doing that in my area at all.
    Some agencies will hire a photographer to take your photos, which is nice but they might say that you have to pay for the photos and then there is a bit of a battle of who owns the photos as well. If you submit your photos to your escort agency, you will have to be on thier tail for them to remove them from the website when your not working with them anymore and also it would be a good idea to get them to sign a legal document saying that you own the images and they are only using for adveritisng purposes you could probably google a basic agreement for photos and their use. Some agencies out there are called bait and switch, they will have a photo of a lady and then send the clint someone else which makes it for a hassle and a headache. I have an agency out there I know of using my photos and I do not work for them.

    Also, if you work for an agency instead of private advertising etc, how would convey what you would and wouldn't do? Malaya, I know when I asked you about it, you said you pointed potential clients towards your 'likes and dislikes' section, but if you were with an agency I'm not sure how that would work given that they set up your appts for you. I don't want to be discussing money and services with guys at all but I'm not sure how to make my boundaries clear.
    You can google escort terms there is alot of them out there, some review boards have a list of codes to determine what a service provider does or does not do. but it is also an easy way for LE to traget you and the agency as well. In the interview some agnecies will ask you what services you provide (BBJ, GFE, PSE, etc) you might want to do research to find out what all the terms mean. and some of them are just really ridiculous.
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    Thanks so much you guys!! I really appreciate getting the opinions of people who have some experience behind what they say. Minnie, when you say incalls are a huge risk, do you mean safety wise? Or in terms of LE?
    Hmm depending on where you're located. Minnie is in canada.. The procedure here is not really the same. Here Incalls are safer. You can screen out LE 80% of the time doing incalls. Hell you can screen out LE by simple screening t ..just pay attention to detail and you'll be ok.

    When doing incall, Make sure you have pepper spray (just in case) this applies to outcalls also. Make sure you have pepper spray in several parts of your incall where it is easy for you to get to but hidden.


    I had a few other agency Q's, although I know each agency does things a bit differently. Do you know if most agencies expect you to have good pics in order to apply? Or is that something you would get set up after an agency took you on? I read a lot about photographers taking pics in exchange for putting the pics in a portfolio etc, but there seems to be no-one doing that in my area at all.
    No you don't need good pics to apply to an agency. Some agencies will arrange a shoot for you some dont. Just make sure your pics are at least decent. Remember , You want clients to want to see YOU. Sign up to modelmayhem and message photographers about working with you on a TFP basis. I'm sure you'll get a few photographer willing to work with you.

    Also, if you work for an agency instead of private advertising etc, how would convey what you would and wouldn't do? Malaya, I know when I asked you about it, you said you pointed potential clients towards your 'likes and dislikes' section, but if you were with an agency I'm not sure how that would work given that they set up your appts for you. I don't want to be discussing money and services with guys at all but I'm not sure how to make my boundaries clear.
    I have a preferred411 profile that's pretty much public. Anyone can see what I will and will not do. Being an independent you can pretty much do whatever.. it's your business but being with an agency, you can't really make those things known. .. I know Glamour girl escorts have a hidden profile where clients could see what the girls do and don't.. not all agencies do that.. So you could end up at an appoinment with a guy that wants greek .. Imagine that.. Indy is really the best way to go.. but work with an agency for 3 months to kinda get a feel for things first so when you go indy you'll be confident and feel like a pro

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    Could I ask just a few more quickie questions? Then I think I'm done, I promise! *hides*

    Which do you feel is safer, both in terms of personal safety and LE, Incall or Outcall. I know it's different in Canada, but if both were possible, which would you prefer?

    When you and a client meet for the appointment, does the time it takes him to shower (do you ask all clients to do this when arriving?) and have drinks and small talk etc come out of his hour for the appointment? Or do some clients prefer just to jump right into it to get the 'most' out of their time?

    When a client is 'finished' before all his appointment time is up, are you expected to stay for the rest of the hour/2hr appt etc? Or is it more common that after your business is done you/him head out regardless of time left? I feel like a 3 or 4 hr appt the client might expect to 'go again' after an hour had passed, maybe.

    For an outcall, I've noticed its advised you call the hotel to check the clients confirmation and things. Does the hotel readily give this out? I was under the impression hotels weren't allowed to give out names and room numbers of their guest to random callers because of confidentiality

    Finally, with the money-counting things. I know it depends on Agency Vs independent, but it seems like its most common to count the donation while in the bathroom. Would you kind of, take the envelope and discreetly drop it into your purse and then take your purse in there to 'freshen up' so you could count?

    *deep breath* Ok thats all! After that I can't think of anything left unanswered I freaking love you guys!


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    Which do you feel is safer, both in terms of personal safety and LE, Incall or Outcall. I know it's different in Canada, but if both were possible, which would you prefer?
    Incalls are a lot more safer. Outcalls you're subject to a sting or a bust if you don't screen. I'm not saying you can't get busted doing incalls.. I'm saying you're at less risk.

    When you and a client meet for the appointment, does the time it takes him to shower (do you ask all clients to do this when arriving?) and have drinks and small talk etc come out of his hour for the appointment? Or do some clients prefer just to jump right into it to get the 'most' out of their time?
    LMFAO...

    Yes they all count! Some jump right into it .. some dont.. it all depends on the client but if you got there at 7pm and he booked you for an hour and he took a shower and all ..yall made small talk bla bla bla you'll still leave at 8pm. Whatever he does is his business but time is money.

    When a client is 'finished' before all his appointment time is up, are you expected to stay for the rest of the hour/2hr appt etc? Or is it more common that after your business is done you/him head out regardless of time left? I feel like a 3 or 4 hr appt the client might expect to 'go again' after an hour had passed, maybe.
    I had a client fly in from london to see me. He paid me $600 for two hours (before I had my $400 an hour rate) We had chocolate, wine and talked all in 45 minutes..we were "done" and he slept like a baby..what did I do? I kissed him good night and left.. As a GFE you're supposed to stay the whole time but really what can you do if he falls asleep? lol! But usually you'd try to stay the whole time...I mean I don't allow MSOG (Multiple shots on one goal) So I wouldn't "do it again"


    For an outcall, I've noticed its advised you call the hotel to check the clients confirmation and things. Does the hotel readily give this out? I was under the impression hotels weren't allowed to give out names and room numbers of their guest to random callers because of confidentiality
    You call the hotel and ask "is mr so and so in room 1022" and they'll say yes or no. Very simple procedure. If you asked "who is in room 1022" they won't tell you.

    Finally, with the money-counting things. I know it depends on Agency Vs independent, but it seems like its most common to count the donation while in the bathroom. Would you kind of, take the envelope and discreetly drop it into your purse and then take your purse in there to 'freshen up' so you could count?
    Exactly what I'd do.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_McKenna View Post
    I had a few questions about escorting that I was wondering if you ladies could help me with. I've been soaking up all the information on here like a sponge, but I was still unsure about these Q's. I'm sure they're entirely dumb, like when I started stripping and I asked the blondest things ever! But I'd really appreciate ya'll's help!

    If you work for an agency, do they provide an in-call location for you? Is it somewhere you stay solely for your appointment times, or do you spend a whole lot of time there between appts? And do they pay for it (hotel, apartment etc) or does it come out of your money?

    If you're Independant, is an in-call location your home? Or do you rent a hotel room etc for you appointments? I feel like having men in my house would be too personal, but then I imagine a hotel would get suspicious if you frequently showed up for one-day bookings

    Also, do you know if generally, agencies mind if you are in and out of town a lot? I am in the process of moving to NYC, so I'd like to escort there during the times I'm in town to do apartment hunting, look for jobs etc. On a lot of the agency websites I looked at from TER, it seemed like some of the girls were 'available' while others were not. Could this be because they're allowed be available only for weeks that they choose, and off for other extended periods of time?

    Thanks SOOO much in advance guys!! I know some things might be kind of 'duh' to girls in the business but I really want to get a good grasp of things before I get into it and am taken advantage of!

    McKenna, on your profile it says you are 23. You are young and beautiful, but also very vulnerable because of this. DO NOT let anyone talk you into escorting or prostitution of any kind which is basically what escorting is. It is NOT safe. I don't care what anyone says. I have been maced, beat up, raped and held against my will going to some strange jerk's house. I don't want to see this happen to you. You look too pretty. Most of the women I know that are in that line of work for any extended period of time are very numb, hardened, suffer from symptoms of PTSD and don't look so good anymore.

    You are going down a path that you don't want to go down. Stick to stripping. As hard as it is and as frustrating as it may be, you are much safer and you aren't required to have sex with them which you will be required to do if you escort. Don't let any agencies (pimps) or review boards (de facto pimps) tell you different. You will be forced to have sex, give head many times without a condom, kiss and i mean french kiss these guys and have guys wanted to go down on you as part of 'gfe' package. No, it's true. You can refuse to do these things, but good luck getting any business. Also, if you depend on review boards to get your clients, you can get blackmailed by the owners or hobbyists that are on these boards. You can also get banned for the slightest infractions such as standing up for yourself.

    Please don't be fooled by what you see on tv or think that you will be getting hundreds of thousands a dollars a year. You won't. It is not a get rich quick scheme. I just got off the phone with an escort today. She is $400/hour. She gets on the average 4 calls a week. That's $1,600 a week. She's not rolling in the dough and she has plenty of reviews. She was charging $600/hour and didn't get anything even with reviews. You can make that easily from a few nights of dancing.

    I'm just giving it to you straight. I hate it when people mislead ladies, especially young ones, into making a mistake they are going to regret. Also, remember when you get busted and almost everyone does, it will be a permanent black mark on your clean criminal record. It won't go away. If you ever apply for a regular job, it will come up.

    And whatever you do, DO NOT work for an agency. The government has stepped up their enforcement efforts to crack down on trafficking in women and pimping and pandering plus the RICO act that prohibits racketeering. Desert Divas in Phoenix, NY Confidential in NYC and the DC Madame are all examples of what can happen when agencies get busted. Not to mention, they are using reviews on boards like TER as evidence of illicit activity.

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    ....wait...

    Are you saying we're talking her into "escorting" ..."prostitution?

    I've been an escorting for a while now (months) and I'm not " numb", "hardened", and don't suffer from symptoms of PTSD and have you seen my pictures? I'm pretty cute ... Yeah ..I really am uh huh!

    You were maced, beat up, raped and held against at some strange jerk's house .. that's your experience AND I'm very sorry that happened to you. However, My clients know not to even raise their voice at me. Don't think everyone's experience is the same as yours because IT'S NOT!!
    You will be forced to have sex, give head many times without a condom, kiss and i mean french kiss these guys and have guys wanted to go down on you as part of 'gfe' package. No, it's true. You can refuse to do these things, but good luck getting any business. Also, if you depend on review boards to get your clients, you can get blackmailed by the owners or hobbyists that are on these boards. You can also get banned for the slightest infractions such as standing up for yourself.
    Dude this is bullshit. YOU ARE NOT TELLING THE TRUTH. NO ONE HAS EVER BLACKMAILED ME OR ANY OF MY FRIENDS IN THE BUSINESS.. ARE there bad clients? Yes! Have I ever been "forced" to do anything? NO! You'll have clients that don't want to respect your limit maybe. When I was working for an agency, I had to deal with this. Since, I've been independent I've never had to deal with this. I have NO reviews on the review boards because for a long time I had a "no review" policy and they respected that.

    Please don't be fooled by what you see on tv or think that you will be getting hundreds of thousands a dollars a year. You won't. It is not a get rich quick scheme. I just got off the phone with an escort today. She is $400/hour. She gets on the average 4 calls a week. That's $1,600 a week. She's not rolling in the dough and she has plenty of reviews. She was charging $600/hour and didn't get anything even with reviews. You can make that easily from a few nights of dancing.
    sorry for your friend. That's just not the case for everyone. I could sit here and brag but I won't. Oh and btw I'm also at $400 an hour


    I'm just giving it to you straight. I hate it when people mislead ladies, especially young ones, into making a mistake they are going to regret. Also, remember when you get busted and almost everyone does, it will be a permanent black mark on your clean criminal record. It won't go away. If you ever apply for a regular job, it will come up.
    Of course... there are ups and downs in the business. I know women that have been inthe business for 10 years and have NEVER got into any legal trouble. I didn't just jump into escorting. I studied the business for a LONG time. Just because you had a bad experience dosen't mean everyone's having a bad experience. Sorry you had to go through all that but there are providers that truly love their job like myself. I'm not escorting because that's the only way i can make money...my friends will tell you I love sex and meeting elite men. My assistant same, The most sweetest girl I've ever met. Her best friend.. not so much.. that's another story. It's not for everyone ..maybe it's not for you. Maybe it's not for Mckenna.. but please don't say we're talking anyone into doing something illegal. They ask for advice and we give it. I don't own an agency or a "referral service".. I give advice on my experience alone. Just because something didn't work for you..dosen't mean it won't work for someone else.


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    nd whatever you do, DO NOT work for an agency. The government has stepped up their enforcement efforts to crack down on trafficking in women and pimping and pandering plus the RICO act that prohibits racketeering. Desert Divas in Phoenix, NY Confidential in NYC and the DC Madame are all examples of what can happen when agencies get busted. Not to mention, they are using reviews on boards like TER as evidence of illicit activity.
    Thought I HATE agencies, I'll say this. There is something called common sense. You're not just going to apply to any agency you see on google. There are very reputable agencies to name a few ...belle de jour, colorado passions, roomservice girls nj, glamour girls... that have been around for years. Again this business is not for babies.. It takes a pretty smart lady to do her own research on these agencies... Oh and you forgot to mention emperor's club.. Don't get me started on that one I can name 100 things they did wrong.

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    Dude this is bullshit. YOU ARE NOT TELLING THE TRUTH. NO ONE HAS EVER BLACKMAILED ME OR ANY OF MY FRIENDS IN THE BUSINESS.. ARE there bad clients? Yes! Have I ever been "forced" to do anything? NO! You'll have clients that don't want to respect your limit maybe. When I was working for an agency, I had to deal with this. Since, I've been independent I've never had to deal with this. I have NO reviews on the review boards because for a long time I had a "no review" policy and they respected that.
    There are many ways to force someone's hand. Guys will get together and collaborate to force ladies to lower their rates by trashing them to other people. Or they can "blacklist" any lady who doesn't provide certain services on her calls like bbbj. Don't believe me.


    "I'm not escorting because that's the only way i can make money"

    Then why are you?

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    You're an idiot if you think escorting is the only way i can make money. Search the threads and search google. you're fucking clueless. YOU'RE STILL ESCORTING and putting the work down. GET A LIFE loser. You're fucking crazy dude.

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    When I logged in real quick this morning and saw love_to_entertains post, I was appreciative in a way that she wanted to give me the 'other side' of the story, even if she was completely misguided in going about it. Then when I got back tonight, I saw that she'd posted the same thing in every available topic she could get her paws on

    I can't imagine where anyone would get the idea that the ladies on here are trying to force others into escorting. I'm sorry but that's nothing short of ridiculous. People will do what they want to do and it's a damn sight better IMO to have people like Malaya, Minnie and others offer you the information that you need in order to make the right decision. We could have ladies come here and find out about the job before deciding whether it is or is not for them, or alternatively they could skip the 'forcing' ( lol!) going on here and just dive into it blind. Sure, their lack of knowledge will likely get them arrested or attacked, but at least they did it on their own rather than being pushed into it on Sweb, right? Of course escorting is not for everyone. The same is true for dancing, camming, phone sex etc. I genuinely enjoy stripping, but I know for a fact I couldn't handle camming. Plenty camgirls say they chose that job because they would never handle stripping. Everyone is different and no-one can decide for anyone but themselves!

    No-one has the ability to talk me into doing anything I don't want to do, similarly no-one has the ability to talk me OUT of what I want to do. I've more than lost count of the amount of times people have listened to me mention an ambition or goal only for them to tell me to get my head out the clouds. I love it, because it makes it even SWEETER when I achieve it. If I decide that I'm going to charge a large amount of money per hour, and only offer the services that I choose to, then that's what I'll do, and that's what I'll be successful at. Clients who don't like that are welcome to keep walking on by. The joy of not being forced into something is that you can call the shots - I don't need escorting money to pay off a pimp or drug dealer, I have my shit together already. What I want is more money than I can make dancing, in order to make a better life for myself. Sure, I could make the same money dancing - every single day for obscenely long shifts, that is!!! A part-time finance exec could quit his high-salary job and put in doubles 24/7 at Mc Donalds to make the same money for less stress.... doesn't mean it's gonna happen!!!

    I'd rather turn down 100 potential clients than see even one who I had a bad feeling about, was the blackmailing type, expected me to show up at a strange house with no screening etc. All the awful hypothetical situations you mentioned are -for the most part- what happens when desperate girls start seeing anyone and everyone, without doing research and knowing what they're getting into before they start. Every single thing Malaya, Minnie, Bambi, Wanderlust and the other girls have said has gotten me closer to going about escorting the right way, and thus avoiding each and every reason you gave for not getting into the business.

    I can see that you have very obviously had bad experiences with escorting, and I'm truly sorry for that. No-one should have to go through the things that you mentioned have happened to you. However, I have an immense appreciation for all the info and advice the ladies here are offering, and honestly it seems like the only person trying to talk me into something is you


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    why are you only picking on malaya? the rest of us aren't shying away from telling you exactly what we think. obviously you've got some kind of personal vendetta against her.

    and i don't think you're still escorting, i think you're just claiming to so that you can maintain a shred of credibility.

    have you noticed you're all alone in this? no one is siding with you. no one is coming out of the woodwork agreeing with you how horrible this business is. the average person who tries it doesn't like shrugs and goes on about something else.

    it's probably a good thing there's no escort union out there, if an ex wal-mart employee walked around talking like this, they'd get slapped with a lawsuit so fast...

    but keep running your mouth, eventually you're going to get yourself banned, and on that day i'm gonna hop out of my computer chair and do the irish jig.

    also, one thing you failed to mention about the epic downfall of ny confidential...they didn't pay their taxes. and the owner bragged about it. on television. any time you draw major attention to yourself like that, you're basically asking for it.

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    Keep deleting my post. Apparently you idiots deserve whatever you get. That's what you get for trying to help people. Have fun getting turned out, bitches. I tried to be nice to you, but I can see it isn't appreciated.

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    the only person deleting your posts is the MODERATOR. regular members don't have the power to edit/delete other people's posts.

    which brings me to my next point, insulting the mod is like shaking your fist at god. No one's listening, and if they are, all you're doing is pissing them off.

    Oh, so we're bitches, huh? Yes, you just reek of niceness. And no, we don't appreciate troublemakers who call us liars and throw out racial slurs. Wouldn't be prudent.

    By the way, does this mean you're leaving?


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    Quote Originally Posted by wanderlust08 View Post
    the only person deleting your posts is the MODERATOR. regular members don't have the power to edit/delete other people's posts.

    which brings me to my next point, insulting the mod is like shaking your fist at god. No one's listening, and if they are, all you're doing is pissing them off.

    Oh, so we're bitches, huh? Yes, you just reek of niceness. And no, we don't appreciate troublemakers who call us liars and throw out racial slurs. Wouldn't be prudent.

    By the way, does this mean you're leaving?

    WanderLust, you crack me the fuck up! I love you, girl!

    ...LMFAO

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    Good riddance! We don't need that kind of BS here!

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    Glad she is gone! I hate negative people

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    Quote Originally Posted by ebonygoddexxx View Post
    Glad she is gone! I hate negative people
    Ditto. Why be negative? Life is too short!

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