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    Why do we strive to date strippers?

    I always did, but now that I have met the goal:

    They are insecure about their looks, more so than any other woman
    They are jealous about any other dancer you have gotten dances from
    They are super jealous of other women
    They have shitty work hours so cant do stuff when you want to
    They are so into money. Ok I have it, but come on

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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    Why do we strive to date strippers?

    I always did, but now that I have met the goal:

    They are insecure about their looks, more so than any other woman
    They are jealous about any other dancer you have gotten dances from
    They are super jealous of other women
    They have shitty work hours so cant do stuff when you want to
    They are so into money. Ok I have it, but come on
    Where do you get this "we" stuff from?

    This belongs in blue, by the way...
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    Default Re: Dating a stripper

    Take this over to blue where some of the other boys will play your game.

    My "just posting and being inflammatory to piss the pretty strippers off" meter is going nuts - I can see that you've been a member of this forum for some time now, you know better if you've ever been over on pink the kind of response you're going to get from the girls.

    Knock it off, asshole.
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    I don't see why this has to be on blue. is this site become so pc, that any controversial topic has to be suppressed? If I'm full of sh*t, i'm ok with be called out. But when did this site become so bland?

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    Default Re: Dating a stripper

    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    Why do we strive to date strippers?

    I always did, but now that I have met the goal:

    They are insecure about their looks, more so than any other woman
    They are jealous about any other dancer you have gotten dances from
    They are super jealous of other women
    They have shitty work hours so cant do stuff when you want to
    They are so into money. Ok I have it, but come on
    because all strippers fit these 5 descriptions .

    i think the only one on there that is definitely steadfast is the hours,...and even that only applies to nightshift girls. and some men work the same 'shitty' hours (i.e. bartenders, djs, night club owners that nightshift girls do, making the schedules more compatible than it would be dating a civillian girl . so this has some subjectivity.

    the second most universal one is the so into money one. yea at work we are, no shit... but even with this, a lot of girls leave the gold digger-ness at work.... how else do you explain so many strippers dating broke ass loser boyfriends who have no job?

    the insecurities and jealousy stuff are all personality traits. oh right, i forgot , we all have the same personality. the entire pink side is like thousands of carbon copies of insecure jealous strippers. no deviance from that...




    to answer your question: when i dated a stripper, it was because she was hot and came onto me. so therefore, i dated her. WOWZA that was deep!
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: Dating a stripper

    Why don't u date another genre of humans then and see what sweeping generalisations you can make about them?


    I am not insecure about my looks. I get up in front of a room full of people, get completely naked and I love how they salivate over me

    The reason why the dancer/dancers you have chosen to date might be insecure about other dancers that you have dated is possibly because they know you are one of those men who are just out to fuck/date strippers so they find you hard to trust.

    Since you are into generalising here are some of my observations about men like you who want to date strippers:

    - you are generous in the beginning but then you become somewhat of a parasite and start taking our money
    - you are jealous and insecure and think we are bound to cheat on you because of the nature of our job
    - in the beginning you are SUPER COOL with our job "oh it doesn't bother me, it's only a job" then you turn into a neurotic mess once your feelings become stronger and start trying to get us to quit or work less often
    - you expect sex 24/7 and if we are tired or not in the mood you use the old "oh so you can be bothered to get sexy for guys at work when they are paying you but not for your boyfriend. Maybe I should pay you and then you will get sexy for me?"
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    This is the stupidest thing I've ever read. Men typically seem to want to date/fuck any woman whom they find attractive. There are typically some attractive women in the SC, where these attractive women will be nice to you to get your money. My hubby's ex wasn't a stripper, but she was insecure, very jealous, and didn't think highly of herself. I'm a stripper and I'm not. Any of those 'qualities' can be found in any woman, and you know it. I know plenty of strippers and 'regular' women who have some or all of those 'qualities.'
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Why don't u date another genre of humans then and see what sweeping generalisations you can make about them?


    I am not insecure about my looks. I get up in front of a room full of people, get completely naked and I love how they salivate over me

    The reason why the dancer/dancers you have chosen to date might be insecure about other dancers that you have dated is possibly because they know you are one of those men who are just out to fuck/date strippers so they find you hard to trust.

    Since you are into generalising here are some of my observations about men like you who want to date strippers:

    - you are generous in the beginning but then you become somewhat of a parasite and start taking our money
    - you are jealous and insecure and think we are bound to cheat on you because of the nature of our job
    - in the beginning you are SUPER COOL with our job "oh it doesn't bother me, it's only a job" then you turn into a neurotic mess once your feelings become stronger and start trying to get us to quit or work less often
    - you expect sex 24/7 and if we are tired or not in the mood you use the old "oh so you can be bothered to get sexy for guys at work when they are paying you but not for your boyfriend. Maybe I should pay you and then you will get sexy for me?"
    I've seen your pics and I understand why you aren't insecure. You re a goddess I think you are right. I thought I was cool with her job, but after I started dating her, started to hate it. But I don't expect sex 24/7, I'm fine with23/7

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    Quote Originally Posted by hot4ablackchick View Post
    This is the stupidest thing I've ever read. Men typically seem to want to date/fuck any woman whom they find attractive. There are typically some attractive women in the SC, where these attractive women will be nice to you to get your money. My hubby's ex wasn't a stripper, but she was insecure, very jealous, and didn't think highly of herself. I'm a stripper and I'm not. Any of those 'qualities' can be found in any woman, and you know it. I know plenty of strippers and 'regular' women who have some or all of those 'qualities.'
    That's probably right, but I guess I had this fantasy about strippers.

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    Damnit - I always feel this inexorable need to post in every damn "dating a stripper" thread. *sigh*

    I've dated several, one for 4-5 years, and MM for over a year now and we're engaged, and a few others over the years (MM is the first one I met ITC). I find your comment to be every bit as offensive as most of the ladies do, and inaccurate to a frightening degree.

    Strippers are just like most other women. They tend to be prettier, and sometimes a little higher maintenance (though not moreso than other girls of their typical looks and income level), but really - just like any other girl in any other profession, they're all different. Some have issues. Whoa - HUGE revelation there, buddy! Have you ever dated - oh, I dunno - ANY OTHER WOMEN?

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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover
    I think you are right. I thought I was cool with her job, but after I started dating her, started to hate it.
    THIS RIGHT HERE.

    I've said over and over again, most guys just can't handle dating a dancer. And they'll fuck up the relationship by keeping it going too long before they'll admit it, and mess up the girl in the process.

    It's not "them" gameover, IT'S YOU. You and every guy in that situation.

    Grr.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    Why do we strive to date strippers?

    I always did, but now that I have met the goal:

    They are insecure about their looks, more so than any other woman
    They are jealous about any other dancer you have gotten dances from
    They are super jealous of other women
    They have shitty work hours so cant do stuff when you want to
    They are so into money. Ok I have it, but come on
    I don't know about "we" but I'm guessing that you used to strive to date dancers because you were stupid enough to buy into all the ridiculous stereotypes about us being sexually open hookers with hearts of gold. Now, you don't want to date us because you're stupid enough to buy into all the negative stereotypes. Either way, you're stupid.
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    ^ Haha - SO RIGHT...

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    I think you should be asking yourself, "Why do strippers date me?" prob for the very last thing you listed if you really feel this way about 'all strippers' because I'm pretty sure all the things you listed are ways to run game on a custie to get his money.

    lol

    your cracking me up right now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chris91 View Post
    I don't know about "we" but I'm guessing that you used to strive to date dancers because you were stupid enough to buy into all the ridiculous stereotypes about us being sexually open hookers with hearts of gold. Now, you don't want to date us because you're stupid enough to buy into all the negative stereotypes. Either way, you're stupid.
    I probably had unrealistic expectations. I guess I was expecting a super chick And yes, I am stupid

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    this reminds me of that opening scene in Die Hard 3 where Bruce Willis goes uptown to Harlem and is walking around with that sign around his neck

    feign craziness now like he did, and escape with your life!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by WestCoast101 View Post
    this reminds me of that opening scene in Die Hard 3 where Bruce Willis goes uptown to Harlem and is walking around with that sign around his neck

    feign craziness now like he did, and escape with your life!!
    That's fine. bash me because my life long fantasy was destroyed

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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    That's fine. bash me because my life long fantasy was destroyed
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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    I don't see why this has to be on blue. is this site become so pc, that any controversial topic has to be suppressed? If I'm full of sh*t, i'm ok with be called out. But when did this site become so bland?
    No it's not that it's that "PC" or bland. It's that you knew it was a douchebag thing to post and you went ahead and posted it anyway just to be a douchebag. Good for you. And good for you that you know how to stereotype!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    I've seen your pics and I understand why you aren't insecure. You re a goddess I think you are right. I thought I was cool with her job, but after I started dating her, started to hate it. But I don't expect sex 24/7, I'm fine with23/7
    I was in a two year relationship with my former regular. I mistakedly thought he would be cool with the job (as did he) due to the way that we met.
    My club is very low contact but as time went on he just couldn't deal with the idea that I was showing my naked body to other men. I never expected this because he was a strip club regular when we met.
    He admitted he couldn't handle it. I never considered stopping for him. He should have been able to see that I was trustworthy. I also don't see a problem with showing my naked body to strangers but I do concede that it's a difficult thing for a man to deal with once he is in love with a woman.

    A lot of guys think it will be the ultimate fantasy to date a stripper and then realise it is just shit. Better to keep it as a fantasy so you can masturbate over it lol. I used to masturbate thinking about going down on another woman, when I actually did it I found it disgusting and it did absolutely nothing to turn me on. Should have kept that one as fantasy.

    I agree about the hours making it shit to maintain a relationship. I hate giving up saturday nights when I could be spending time with a partner but the money on saturday is too big to give up - generally $1-2k. I have just accepted the fact that while I am dancing I probably won't be able to have any meaningful relationships.
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    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
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    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    ^^I second all that!



    But... what is the point of this thread?

    And.. all those you listed are bullshit.. Each woman is different, stripper or not..
    You say you've been there, done that and don't seem to thrilled by it, so hopefully you are one less moron hoping to get a date from us while we are working...
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    They are insecure about their looks, more so than any other woman

    - ummmm no. How would we be able to dance naked on a stage if this were true? If anything, most of us probably think we are hotter than we really are from hearing compliments all day.

    They are jealous about any other dancer you have gotten dances from

    - no sorry. I personally don't feel jealousy.

    They are super jealous of other women

    - Again jealousy is an individual personality trait. But if strippers were mega jealous types there'd probably be a lot more controversy between the dancers. Just look at any of the picture threads on this forum... complimenting each others hotness...I suppose we do this because we are jealous??

    They have shitty work hours so cant do stuff when you want to

    - Depends on the dancer, but I work usually 3 days a week... that's 2 whole days less than someone working an office job. Also aren't you usually sleeping between 11pm - 6am?

    They are so into money. Ok I have it, but come on

    - Again a massive generalization. We enjoy making money yes, but read a few threads and see how many girls complain about their lazy ass boyfriends. If we were all "so into money" don't you think we would all hook up with rich guys and quit stripping??

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    I never have, and never will, understand the jealousy thing from the having a problem with what she does for a living perspective. I can conceive of it in some hypothetical mindset, but it's so foreign to me that my mind rejects it out of hand, LMAO.

    Some small (and I mean tiny) part of me has worried when MM has had a good regular that she speaks highly of, just because - well, that's how we met, lol. Never was the case with other dancers I dated because I didn't know they were dancers until we'd dated a bit. Anyway, it's literally nothing, just background noise in my brain.

    And as for the guys who cause a scene ITC... That just blows my mind.

    Jaizaine - at least your ex (I ass-u-me he's an ex the way you framed that paragraph) had the decency to discuss the problem with you rather than drag out the relationship and cause harm all around! And don't give up - there are in fact plenty of us very decent guys out there that range between don't give a shit about it up to proud as hell that our girls are that independent/hot/confident/etc. You'll find one when you're ready, whether you're still dancing or not.

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    lets change this tread to: why you should date a stripper
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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    Why do we strive to date strippers?

    I always did, but now that I have met the goal:

    They are insecure about their looks, more so than any other woman
    They are jealous about any other dancer you have gotten dances from
    They are super jealous of other women
    They have shitty work hours so cant do stuff when you want to
    They are so into money. Ok I have it, but come on
    Dating a girl because she's a stripper is the dumbest reason in the world to date her.
    And all your 5 characteristics may refer to them at work but not necessarily how they behave elsewhere.
    Most of the ones I'm friendly with behave IRL nothing like the way they do at work.
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