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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    Ok, I'm still dating her. And even thought I've probably alienated every dancer here . I would like some advice to help me with my dancer issues. Because this girl has gotten under my skin, and I can't get her out of my mind.
    ...please elaborate on "under my skin" and "out of my mind" with some examples. My popcorn and I are ready for the various replies.
    "Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."

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    Under his (for)skin and out of his (sexually obsessed) mind. Not that there's anything WRONG with that.

    It's just that his situation constitutes a waste of a perfectly good stripper, one that others could and should PROPERLY enjoy, either ITC or out. Clearly, gameover does not deserve ANY stripper tail, much less a real relationship.

    The latter part probably ought to be expanded to include women in general, but he made this about the dancers, and it's on stripperweb after all...

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    C'mon man. Don't put the stripper pussy on a pedastool. Not all strippers are great catches and prizes either. Seriously, if I could tell the stories I've heard in the dressing room, quiet and keeping to myself. I'm sure Game found himself a formidable and appropriate match.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Almost Jaded View Post
    It's just that his situation constitutes a waste of a perfectly good stripper, one that others could and should PROPERLY enjoy, either ITC or out. Clearly, gameover does not deserve ANY stripper tail, much less a real relationship.
    ll...
    Am I missing something? Is there anything stopping a customer from enjoying a stripper with a loser boyfriend ITC or out? Hell, its happening right now, before our very eyes! Someone, somewhere, is getting lapped by a stripper with a homeless, broke musician boyfriend sitting on her couch playing her Wii.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    C'mon man. Don't put the stripper pussy on a pedastool. Not all strippers are great catches and prizes either. Seriously, if I could tell the stories I've heard in the dressing room, quiet and keeping to myself. I'm sure Game found himself a formidable and appropriate match.
    She's definitely formidable That's why I asked for help

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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    Ok, I'm still dating her. And even thought I've probably alienated every dancer here . I would like some advice to help me with my dancer issues. Because this girl has gotten under my skin, and I can't get her out of my mind.
    Help how? If she's not going to quit dancing and you can't deal with her as a dancer it sounds like you are kinda SOL. Good luck though...
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Help how? If she's not going to quit dancing and you can't deal with her as a dancer it sounds like you are kinda SOL. Good luck though...
    Yoda, you are dead to me now

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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    Ok, I'm still dating her. And even thought I've probably alienated every dancer here . I would like some advice to help me with my dancer issues. Because this girl has gotten under my skin, and I can't get her out of my mind.
    If shes as fantastic as you describe in the first post than you'd probably go better with some advice from a psychologist.

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    What seemz to be teh problemz?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    What seemz to be teh problemz?
    Well, I think she is bad for me, but when I'm away from her all I think about is her

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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    Well, I think she is bad for me, but when I'm away from her all I think about is her
    Lord you sound like my best guy friend. He goes back, she treats him like crap, they break up, he goes mad without her, she gets him to go back, rinse repeat. I'm trying to beat some sense into him. He and I had a long talk last night. We'll see how it goes. He deserves better.

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    Yoda, you are dead to me now
    Ah well....take a number....
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    yoda, I want you so bad it aches in the swimsuit area.
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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    Well, I think she is bad for me, but when I'm away from her all I think about is her
    Need more details please. I have great advice on how to get away from bad partners. It may cost you mentally though.

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    Am I missing something? Is there anything stopping a customer from enjoying a stripper with a loser boyfriend ITC or out? Hell, its happening right now, before our very eyes! Someone, somewhere, is getting lapped by a stripper with a homeless, broke musician boyfriend sitting on her couch playing her Wii.
    You were missing the inherent sarcasm that the post you quoted was laced with, lol. I agree with you on a large scale.

    But like all tongue-in-cheek comments, it was based on SOME reality - and in my experience, she's a great girl that's stuck with a guy who can't get past the fact that she's a stripper. This threads very existence bears testament to that probability.

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    Hey I have worked with, and dated a few, that had some of the issues you described in various mixtures.

    But posting that here was kind of dumb. The women of SW are pretty exceptional, and very charming in a genuine way, from what I've seen. And this is basically a support type forum that allows customers to post freely so long as they are respectful. So posting stuff about the negative stereotypes isn't really appropriate, I don't think. I mean there's negative stereotypes out there in all categories and professions, but you generally don't point that out to the people who are above and beyond it.

    I have pretty much dated dancers exclusively for ten years now, they understand what I am doing and don't tend to flip out about it so much.

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    I don't really know what the problem is? Her job? Most probably.
    The Offspring song Self Esteem came to mind from your post, not saying you don't have self esteem, just because of the whole issue of a girl who is bad for a guy.

    Why do we always like things that are bad for us? If something is bad for you, try to have it in small quantities!
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    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Almost Jaded View Post

    But like all tongue-in-cheek comments, it was based on SOME reality - and in my experience, she's a great girl that's stuck with a guy who can't get past the fact that she's a stripper. This threads very existence bears testament to that probability.
    I'm not missing the point, your sarcasm is noted. I disagree with her being "great." You have no way of knowing that. Many, many strippers are completely lame, and are worthy of the stereotype they are given. Have you really ever spent time in the dressing room? Dating a bunch of strippers doesn't count.

    I still think you put the stripper pussy on a pedestool. And I can't blame you too much, with that awesome gorgeous lady of yours.

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    I don't know that she's great.

    I don't know that he is, either.

    Statistically, based upon my own observations and experience, the likelihood that she's similar to other women I've known in the business and that he just can't handle dating a dancer vs the likelihood that she's the problem is approximately 4:1.

    And thank you for the compliment of my wonderful MissMynxx, for whom my pet name in our relationship is "Perfect" for a reason. I am truly the luckiest man on earth, and strive daily to be worthy of her affection. Do not, however, be led to the conclusion that my having found God's most perfect female creation results in my "putting stripper pussy on a pedestal"; this is wrong for several reasons.

    First, no woman on earth can match her, profession notwithstanding.

    Second, she is by no means the first dancer I have dated.

    Thirdly, it is the comparison of those dancers I have known and/or dated vs the other women I have known that results in my estimation of dancers as a whole being better woman material. While I recognize that in many - nay, most - ways strippers are not dissimilar to any other sample of the female population, I have dated a LOT of women and as a group the dancers are better overall material on average. IF the person dating them can handle A. their profession and what goes with it, and B. the type of women that tend to do well at stripping as a career, which is the whole point.

    That is to say, some women are better suited to the job than others, and those women specifically I will deservedly place on a pedestal based on experience and observation.


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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    I probably had unrealistic expectations. I guess I was expecting a super chick And yes, I am stupid
    many strippers are super chicks, but they would never even consider dating you, even if you paid them. go work on yourself gameover and you'll be able to date a higher-caliber woman regardless of her profession.


    * sorry didn't realize this shit went on for 4 pages.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    Ok, I'm still dating her. And even thought I've probably alienated every dancer here . I would like some advice to help me with my dancer issues. Because this girl has gotten under my skin, and I can't get her out of my mind.
    I've lost track of where things are at on this thread. I don't follow it all the time, and it is in pink..............

    Where r things at with this girl? Are you really dating her or is this an OTC type of thing?
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    I don't really know what the problem is? Her job? Most probably.
    The Offspring song Self Esteem came to mind from your post, not saying you don't have self esteem, just because of the whole issue of a girl who is bad for a guy.

    Why do we always like things that are bad for us? If something is bad for you, try to have it in small quantities!
    I guess the stripper job is the big problem. No worries, I wouldn't still be seeing her if it wasn't worth it. I just wish life was perfect

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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    Why do we strive to date strippers?

    I always did, but now that I have met the goal:

    They are insecure about their looks, more so than any other woman
    They are jealous about any other dancer you have gotten dances from
    They are super jealous of other women
    They have shitty work hours so cant do stuff when you want to
    They are so into money. Ok I have it, but come on
    btw, if a stripper is acting this way, she's most likely just dating you for your money. when we REALLY like a guy, money is not an issue.

    perhaps she seems insecure about her looks because she wants you to buy her plastic surgery and expensive make-up? perhaps she's jealous that another dancer will charm you as easily as she did and get your money. probably she doesn't really have to work when you want to hang out, she just doesn't want to see you. And she's really into money because you do have it. if you didn't, doesn't sound like you would have ever reached your goal of dating a stripper.

    and she's got you. you realize all these things about her but you don't care cause the sex is so good. and another symbiotic relationship is born.
    i say keep it up and enjoy the sex and her hotness, just take it for what it is.

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    you got money, she's into money, and she treats you like shit, yet you are so hooked you are still hanging with her - but probably 99% of women like that don't even work as strippers, yet you interpret it as a stripper issue?.

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    Quote Originally Posted by laurcon View Post
    btw, if a stripper is acting this way, she's most likely just dating you for your money. when we REALLY like a guy, money is not an issue.

    perhaps she seems insecure about her looks because she wants you to buy her plastic surgery and expensive make-up? perhaps she's jealous that another dancer will charm you as easily as she did and get your money. probably she doesn't really have to work when you want to hang out, she just doesn't want to see you. And she's really into money because you do have it. if you didn't, doesn't sound like you would have ever reached your goal of dating a stripper.

    and she's got you. you realize all these things about her but you don't care cause the sex is so good. and another symbiotic relationship is born.
    i say keep it up and enjoy the sex and her hotness, just take it for what it is.
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    Unless I can somehow fly to Australia and hypnotize jaizaine into marrying me

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