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    I don't usually post much on SW, but I guess I'm in a posting mood.

    I'm just curious, how many of you girls that escort are in a decent, healthy relationship??? Does your significant other know about it, and if so, is he cool with it?

    The owner of the agency I work for, his wife is on the roster, take appointments regularly, and he books the calls for her and has absolutely no problem with it. He's a really great guy, and I'm thinking that he must be the exception to the rule (He and his wife are both swingers too...)

    I'd really like to meet a decent guy. The few relationships I've been in were absolutely horrible, and I've never felt comfortable explaining my occupation to any of them.

    So, are any of you involved with a guy who has full disclosure about your job? Did you start dating before or after you got into this line of work?

    I refuse to lie to a decent guy about my job, and I also refuse to get involved with another abusive asshole just because I get lonely at night.

    Any thoughts?

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    There is SOMEONE out there who will love you no matter what your profession is. In the meantime just enjoy the single life and having fun, and don't ever settle for less than you are worth!

    I'm not an escort, but I do dance/model and have an active Domme/sub relationship with someone else, and my significant other doesn't care. He probably wouldn't care if I decided to escort either, as long as I made money. Now, is it a perfect relationship? No. He does a lot of stupid shit that pisses me off, but he does accept me.

    That being said, acceptance isn't the only reason to stay with someone. I guess that goes back to not settling...
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    Default Re: Escorting & Dating

    I also don't escort, but I know a number of people who do - and most of them are not single but rather married or in long term relationships.
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    Yeah, I think if a man is secure he wouldn't have a problem with it, but those kind of guys are few and far between. It's worth waiting for someone who will respect you though.
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    *coughs* Guess I'll chime in here..

    Yeah I've dated a guy last year while I was working as an escort.. It worked out pretty well until he ALMOST found out my little secret and I decided to break up with him. So yah I didn't tell him for personal reasons which is OK.


    Now I wouldn't date a guy and not tell him I was an escort. However, If I were dancing and I was dating a great guy ..personally I wouldn't tell him. Escorting, You're putting YOURSELF and that person at risk.. I think an SO deserves to know when his health is being put at risk. It's only fair you know?

    You'll find that guy that loves you unconditionally and won't give a shit what you do.

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    heyy girl you know my story but Id thought Id share for the other ladies..

    Ok, I danced first.. then I fell on hard times and started escorting.. theres not an agency that works locally, so I started going out of town for a week and I had to tell my bf that I was working for traveling featured entertainers (dancing) and he bought it at first but he kept saying little things.. not too harsh or anything just like what do you do up there.. I was like dance, flirt with guys.. I stuck to my story for about 3 months.. and one night we got in a little argument (because my stupid ass got too drunk with my friends!) I thought I saw him texting some girl at 3AM and I didnt say anything til I was drunk I was like WTF ? I dont mind you talking to your friends but who talks at 3AM!!
    and he gave me his phone and it was fucking 3PM!!
    YES I felt like a fucking FOOL! UGHH I had said before that I felt like I couldnt trust him if he was texting a girl at 3AM.. and he was like you dont think I know what you do out of town?? Huh? I know but I turn my head all the damn time! and I just said WHATEVER! and I couldnt think of anything else to say so I was like I dont wanna fight blah blah blah and we made up.. so we didnt talk about it again til I left again and he was asking me "what do you really do up there?" and he wasnt being mean, he said it in a calm voice, and I was in the airport so I was like" same ole shit " and he was like... and that is????
    and I was like ughh fuck Im lost! let me call you right back.. and a few hours later I texted him this "Ok this is really hard, but Im going to be honest. I dont dance anymore. I dont like what I do and I feel guilty. I dont have an emotional connection with anyone I see. I do it for the money and that is it. I see this just as another job and It is what I have to do to get me through school. I dont plan on doing it forever but its what I have to do right now. So now you know, please lay off my back about it. Im sorry Ive been lying to you. I can understand if you want to leave."

    and he just texted "I understand"
    and I said " Im really sorry"
    and he said "me too" (as in he was sorry he was on my case about it)

    and this was only a couple days ago, Im still out of town and we have been talking like we always do everythings been good.. Im just praying that when I get home things wont be weird. If you wanna pray for me too thats cool lol!

    Im soo blessed to have an amazing bf, I mean he asked why I started dance and I told him I was about to lose my house (and I have kids) and I didnt know what else to do I was already working my ass off.. and his response was "man, that takes alot to just go up there and dance so you can pay your bills" so he is very respectful and understanding.. Hes probably been the best guy for me! I really hope things work out between us!

    So we will see how things are when I get home.. I pray to god that they are still good and he is just not saying that!

    Ill update yall when I got more to say..


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    Quote Originally Posted by babybambi08 View Post
    Im soo blessed to have an amazing bf, I mean he asked why I started dance and I told him I was about to lose my house (and I have kids) and I didnt know what else to do I was already working my ass off.. and his response was "man, that takes alot to just go up there and dance so you can pay your bills" so he is very respectful and understanding.. Hes probably been the best guy for me! I really hope things work out between us!
    Awww! Sounds like a fab guy, I hope it works out too!


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    thanks he is a sweetheart


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    ok... so heres my update!
    Ive been home for 3 days and its been great!
    I havent been work, but Im going to work tomorrow and he is baby sitting so let hope that, that goes well!
    We have been doing great, I really hope that it last


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    Glad things are going well for you babe

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    thanks


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    i actually had my best friend / fwb of a year ask me to officially be his girl today, he knows what i do and he doesn't care because he knows its just money. we've been friends for a year and i've been waiting for him to ask me to be his girl and today it finally happened. its nice because he is happy with me as ME not a girl he wants me to be...and i promise u i've only had one bf before this and i thought i was going to be alone forever but i'm happy i just waited and got thru the lonely nights and it feels worth it even if i lose him later its going to be okay because right now i am happy

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    awe thats cool!


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    i'm bringing this question back up, because i met someone that actually fit my criteria of "dream man" (other than the billion dollar bank account, but i'm willing to negotiate some things in life...) that i'm actually interested in for real...soooo....how soon is too soon to bring up my current occupation?

    (side note: OMG! a hot indie rocker boy who wears chuck taylors and high end label buddy holly-style glasses...be still my heart!!!)

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    Mmmmmm he sounds SUPER HOT! Within 90 days of talking/dating him.... in other words before you sleep with him.. LOL!

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