Ok so you all know my and J's arrangement. Here's my problem-
How do we find other girls? We have one friend, but she is kind of a flake and stood us up last time. I don't want to bring home any crazies, and we want something on the regular because we have delegated one day a week to have third parties as per terms of our relationship. We also like to "date" the person- go out for dinner, have drinks and see if we both mutually like her. Hell, other guys too, he's cool with it.
I've never done a relationship like this full time so to any of you who have done this, share your tips with me!!
J is super, super picky so going to a swingers club I don't think he'd be down with. We also don't want to swap or do anything when the other person isn't present.
I need ideas!



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Wish I had tips, but I don't really! I have trouble finding couples.. I'm just too shy to go into swinger's clubs or certain bars alone.. I am that so-called elusive, pretty bi chick, but no one can find me because I'm not out there LOL
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