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    This is a funny thread because I'm experiencing this from younger dancers who are hating on me for reasons I know not

    I've always been friendly w/ everyone at first until they are not friendly to me. But in this club, I just don't get it. The younger ones are supposed to just write me off an old hag who is no competition, am I right?

    The only thing i can figure is that I don't work this small club very often, yet I have been there for almost 5 years, off and on. It may be a 'house girl' thing.

    However, I find it amusing that I can inspire negative feelings in other females, cause personally, I've always thought of myself as an energetic, cute but somewhat geeksih dancer. And how can that inspire negativity? Oh yeah, and I'm old
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    damn, homegirl bounced!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corey View Post
    This is a funny thread because I'm experiencing this from younger dancers who are hating on me for reasons I know not

    I've always been friendly w/ everyone at first until they are not friendly to me. But in this club, I just don't get it. The younger ones are supposed to just write me off an old hag who is no competition, am I right?

    The only thing i can figure is that I don't work this small club very often, yet I have been there for almost 5 years, off and on. It may be a 'house girl' thing.

    However, I find it amusing that I can inspire negative feelings in other females, cause personally, I've always thought of myself as an energetic, cute but somewhat geeksih dancer. And how can that inspire negativity? Oh yeah, and I'm old
    Some people are just jerks to make themselves feel better. They very well may not have any reason to be asshats to you other then that.

    I have noticed that when someone acts like a big butt head, often others will begin to kiss ass to get on their "good" side. Kind of a weird social perception thing.

    I'm just pleasant to everyone. If someone's a bitch to me, well then I ignore them and figure they're just insecure and have learned that being mean can sometime = positive attention. Lame. They will get no attention from me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wanderlust08 View Post
    damn, homegirl bounced!
    Ha ha, yeah, a while ago. Guess she realized no one was gonna jump on her band wagon

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    LOL, poor little thing is probably embarrassed. Good.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Camillian View Post
    Some people are just jerks to make themselves feel better. They very well may not have any reason to be asshats to you other then that.

    I have noticed that when someone acts like a big butt head, often others will begin to kiss ass to get on their "good" side. Kind of a weird social perception thing.

    I'm just pleasant to everyone. If someone's a bitch to me, well then I ignore them and figure they're just insecure and have learned that being mean can sometime = positive attention. Lame. They will get no attention from me.

    ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^

    I try not to let it bother me, but our dressing room is ]tiny.
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    not adding much more than anyone else, but at my last club one of the few friends i had was an older dancer, i'm not sure how old she is maybe late 30s? (and she was all natural) had an awesome body and was more gorgeous than a lot of the younger girls...imo it seems like the older dancers are a lot cooler with me than the younger dancers...maybe b/c i'm not all into partying and am there to hustle and make my money and i think the veterans understand that.

    also, are there really women in their 30s getting botox?? if there are, i certainly can't tell lol

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    i'm only 25, and planning on getting botox in my forehead soon, but only half a syringe. i'm starting to notice a few lines, i wanna kill them before they get too bad. i'm blaming the lines on being a fair-skinned redhead, a smoker, and having two very high spirited children.

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    yeah i would consider it once i start seeing lines in my forehead...i notice them already and i'm 21, and smoker too. my mom has gotten botox though and you can't tell, but she mostly has only gotten it in her forehead...maybe lines in the forehead is a genetics thing in my family.

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    I hope you're going to stay young forever, because you're not very smart, nice or funny.. Once the molester appeal wears off and you're not making money solely on the barely-legal appeal, you'll be in the same boat as everyone else. Youth is not a virtue. Everyone has been young. You're not special.

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    I tried to respond to this last night from my phone, but the message wouldn't post. Oh well, the passion on this subject has died off now.

    Seriously though, I can't believe someone could think this way! Wait, yes I do... fresh out of high school and the "clique" mentality. I'll be interested to see how she feels when she hits 30... especially since SF is a pretty high mileage town. I mean, what's next?
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    theres like a clique developing at my club now and i see new girls sitting around drinking with the waitresses being social like its a party and i dont really get it i must say.

    but then again there is a 42 year old dancer at my club who doesnt respect any of us younger dancers, promises sex to clients and bitches about us to them about diseases we have etc. first i et it slide coz she has kids and i respect and dont start shit with people who have kids, but then she started to turn up with designer goods [some she stole from us, like bags, bras, makeup and drugs].

    really, i dont mind every man for themselves atitude but actively sabotaging us will get you fired

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    I hope you're going to stay young forever, because you're not very smart, nice or funny.. Once the molester appeal wears off and you're not making money solely on the barely-legal appeal, you'll be in the same boat as everyone else. Youth is not a virtue. Everyone has been young. You're not special.
    The "molester appeal" ha, ha. That is soooo true. I don't know if the OP meant to sound so bitchy, but I am 27 and I will probably be dancing when I'm
    30, but I didn't think that made me an 'old hater.' I just don't get that if someone doesn't like you its because you're young & pretty and they are old, and 30 is old and ready for botox? Jeebus
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    I'm 25 and I just got Botox in my forehead. I didn't really have any wrinkles yet, but was well on my way. I figured if I start the Botox now, I won't be able to make my ugly wrinkle faces and then will never develop the ugly wrinkles.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anouk.oui View Post
    theres like a clique developing at my club now and i see new girls sitting around drinking with the waitresses being social like its a party and i dont really get it i must say.
    I love it when girls do this. Means more potential money for me to make while they sit around socializing.

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    ^ Yup, no joke. A good chunk of the dances I sell at work are a direct result of the simple fact that I was the only one who seriously approached most of the customers at the club. Some girls just sit at the bar and do nothing, and some of them will occasionally walk around and use the "wanna dance" approach, then get bitchy when it doesn't work and go back to their bar stool.

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    hey we're all into different things. they wanna party every night, i wanna get paid every night.
    i like it when they waste time, but i respect it more when people come to work to work. no wonder not even the customers take them seriously if we dont

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    Funny,Botox hasn't even been around that long,but whatever!
    Agree with everyone else.This girl will be in her 30s one day too.

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    aaand another 25 year old here *raises hand* anxiously awaiting my first shot of Botox. Fine lines on forehead, NOT feelin this shit! I'm not a smoker either.
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    is it just me, or when we hit 25 do we all freak out???

    i'm literally having a quarter-life crisis. i don't think it's the number so much as i don't feel like i have accomplished enough to be 25....nor do i deserve wrinkles at 25.

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    ^meh I wouldn't worry too much. It will give you more wrinkles hehehe. And I had accomplished too much (degree, married, career I thought I wanted) at 25 and freaked out cause I realized I had never let loose and partied. All my friends had made stupid mistakes and I had none. Now I'm almost 30 acting like Im 20, so I wouldn't freak out. Just cause everyone else thinks one path is the only path doesn't mean you can't take another route. I've been walking backwards for 2 years now and loving every minute of it. By the time I'm 33-34 I'll be back to where I was when I was 23-24. haha

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    You are 25 and have wrinkles? What are you doing to your skin?! I know 35 year olds with perfect skin. It's not a complicated equation. Wear sunscreen, drink water, use moisturizer, don't tan, wash your face before you go to sleep.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    You are 25 and have wrinkles? What are you doing to your skin?! I know 35 year olds with perfect skin. It's not a complicated equation. Wear sunscreen, drink water, use moisturizer, don't tan, wash your face before you go to sleep.
    It's also largely genetic. I smoke, but I don't tan, I moisturise and wear sunscreen. I'm 27 and don't have any wrinkles.

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    ^^also stress is a big factor.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    I think tanning is the biggest mistake young strippers make. I mean, you're cutting your career in half! You're ruining your looks for the rest of your life to make a few more bucks a night off some middle aged asshole. They invented self-tanner for a reason! Smoking would have to be the second worst mistake. Make yourself look awful and die. Awesome. Chantix works! Drinking is third, which I am guilty of.

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