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    Angry dj harrassing me at work RANT

    I really like the club that i work at but im having a problem with the dj. When I started he would tell me he liked me and wanted to go out with me. I brushed it off like he was joking bc the other girls said thats how he is. One night he asked me for a ride home and i agreed and he starts telling me how he saw me at the old club i worked at and used to watch me dance. then he says he really wants a girlfriend, and he fantasizes about having sex with me.

    I turned him down and ever since then hes been giving me a hard time at work. Like calling me into the booth or corner me somewhere in the club asking why im "ignoring him", even if im with customers. He constantly comes into the dressing room unannounced, ive caught him staring at me like a perv when im onstage, trying to talk to me while im onstage...ect. Oh and another time i only tipped him the minimum he bitches he saw me make more and demanded more..... and one night he started banging on all the lockers when i tipped him the minimum and he saw i had a decent amount of cash.

    ive been ignoring all this shit for a couple weeks now and then he plays "baby got back" when im onstage tonight and i dance to rock/metal. Now it wasnt the song itself that made me mad it was the fact that he did it purposely to get my attention since i was ignoring him and i was so sick of it. I was pissed and he saw it so he storms into the dressing room and gets in my face asking me what my problem was. I said " Dont fucking talk to me" and walked away. My friend told the owner to talk to me but i froze when he asked me what was wrong. I mean hes not gonna fire the guy im sure so whats the point. I just had to vent about this im so mad. HATE THIS GUY!!!!!!

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    Default Re: dj harrassing me at work RANT

    Regardless of whether or not he's going to fire him, you still need to talk to the manager. You all work in the same club, so the owner needs to make sure that everyone gets along, and that means knowing all the stories.

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    Default Re: dj harrassing me at work RANT

    I agree, at least hear what the manager has to say about it, then decide what u wanna do.
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    Default Re: dj harrassing me at work RANT

    thats a creeper and if he gets fired, he deserves it for making you go through all of that. he wont get good tips from you if you arent having good nights because he is fucking up. makes no sense why he would do that...to that point. many djs act like but usually just to have fun not to be serious. never met one that did it to be serious.





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    Default Re: dj harrassing me at work RANT

    ^^^I never have either I think that's why I didn't know how to handle the situation

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    Default Re: dj harrassing me at work RANT

    Wow, I feel your pain, but I've never been in that kind of situation before. You should at least tell the manager, and let him know that you don't want to start anything but the DJ is being very unprofessional (which he is). If he is calling you over when you are sitting with customers, then thats something mgmt needs to know about, and tell them that the DJ is fucking with your money by doing so! If you are forced to tip this guy, then he should be playing what you want to hear. He really needs to be fired, but if he is really cool with mgmt and has been there awhile then they probably won't fire him. I hope they at least talk to him and tell him to leave you alone. You could try talking to the DJ, but that just may make the psycho angrier. This would seriously piss me off and is my worst fear, so I make it a point to ALWAYS bring up the fact that I am happily married to the staff. I am sorry this is happening to you, and I hope they get rid of this asshole.
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    Default Re: dj harrassing me at work RANT

    I would tell management, I mean what's your other option? Ignoring him clearly isn't working, so it's time to get someone else involved.

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    Default Re: dj harrassing me at work RANT

    Wow why would you NOT say anything.
    Just because you give someone a ride home does not mean they own you.

    The guy is psycho. Tell the manager.

    You can't be the only dancer he has terrorized. Maybe other girls said nothing too.




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    Default Re: dj harrassing me at work RANT

    U are absolutely right stripperhacks. Really the reason i was afraid was bc hes been working for them for so long, he even used to be a manager. I did mention that someone was harrassing me to the owner. I talked to the dj and handled the situation, he said he wouldnt bother me..... i just think the guy is a wackjob!

    So if he does ONE MORE THING to fuck with me im going straight to the owner. Luckily i didnt have to work with him tonight but i will update if anything happens for sure.

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    Default Re: dj harrassing me at work RANT

    ^^^Good luck!





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