I've never been one to make friends in a strip club, for the most part, as I stick to myself, concentrate on making money, and then go home. However, I met a girl on here who had another friend from here (both say that they use EDN more now, so I'm not really worried about either reading this - even if they do, it's no biggie.) We both work @ the same club. Long story short, I consistently make more than she does - not just a couple more dollars; not just $100 more, either.
I'm not sure if I'm being paranoid, or if she really is starting to act bitchy to me in the club bc she's jealous that I'm making more, esp of slower nights. For instance, last night right when she sees me, she starts telling me how I shouldn't use my tanning lotion bc it makes me blotchy (even though I've been blotchy) and asked me in a condescending tone what I was wearing. I told her that it was my fav outfit, atm, and she said, "THAT is your fav outfit?!" She proceeded to tell me in a non-jking tone that I looked like a confused schoolgirl. I brushed it off and laughed, while explaining that people really liked my pink socks, to which she replied that "they ARE strippers." Actually, it's the customers, too. Anyhow...
Fast forward to about an hr late: there are about 8 girls and 4 guys who are all occuppied. I'm on stage and my friend's sitting w a guy who comes up to me. He tells me that he wants me to sit w him, but I tell him that I can't as long as he's got someone there, but I'll catch up w him later. After my stage set, I scan the floor and he's still sitting w her, but a few minutes later, she leaves. I talk and he gets LDs, then I put my $ away in DR. She sees me and asks if he wanted LDs, and I respond yes, and she storms away.
3rd encounter was after I did 2 rooms (and it's still bad for everyone else), and the DJ wasn't told that I'm in a rm, so he called me onstage, leaving me less than 1 song to get myself together after a rm. I tell him that I was in a rm, and he apologizes and says that nobody told him and that he'd put me up after the girl who is supposed to go after me - my friend. So, he calls her up, and she sees me in DR, and says, "YOU'RE still here?," to which I respond yes, and she asks why I can't go onstage. I say that I just walked out of a rm (nobody goes on stage right after a rm), and she says, "SO?!" and storms away again.
I know that she's insecure (she's straight-up said that to me when I asked her why she doesn't do more VIPs, saying that her insecurity gets in her way). I also know that she's been in a rut, has recently gone on antidepressants, and she also has told me that she's very competitive (even though I wouldn't have thought so, otherwise). This leads me to really think that she's getting tired of me consistently making more than her, bc she knows that I do...I really just think it's turning more into jealousy, even though I hate being one of those girls who think that people are jealous...
I don't want to quit working when she does, since I don't get in the club often, as it is, and I still want to be her friend bc she's not really like that when hanging out outside of the club. I really don't know what to do, and I understand her agitation at not making as much . I can also understand how it could be MORE angering/annoying to not make as much as someone closer to you, as opposed to a stranger.
What should I do?



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