what kinds of qualities do you think they should have?
What types of clothes do they wear?




what kinds of qualities do you think they should have?
What types of clothes do they wear?
I think a high dollar hottie should be attractive but in a classical and sophisticated sense. Her attire and wardrobe would be fashionable but not overtly sexual. She would dress in Calvin Klein, Prada, Gucci, Fendi, or have clothing that could be mistaken as such. She also should have impeccable manners and be cultivated. She should be well spoken and well read. She should be knowledgeable about the finer things in life: gourmet cuisine, wine, art, theater, travel, etc.
Lastly, I think a high dollar hottie should know how to cater to a man and his every need. She must be very attentive to her clients and their needs on an individual basis. I'm not just talking about sex and sexual favors. She knows how to make her client feel special and regards him as a companion. You need to be sincerely interested in your client on a human to human level. You need to be able to provide him with the a sense of solace when he is in your presence. You are his refuge from the outside world, from his family, his wife, his work, his boss, etc. You need to be able to make him feel loved and appreciated. Remember this can be somewhat faked if necessary. But you need to go through the motions and appearances that this is how you genuinely feel about him. Always remember that seduction is one of the highest art forms. It is one of the oldest and most effective forms of power. POWER OF THE PUSSY!!!![]()
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Erica is on point!
May I add...
Please invest in a gorgeous evening gown from Jovanni. You never know when you'll need it!
Where I shop: Jovanni, Burberry (I just started shopping here, Um the sales rack!!), Guess, H&M, Marciano, Ralph Lauren (Black and purple label my fav), Bebe...
Prada, Gucci and versace will see me next year HOPEFULLY! lol
Hell you can shop anywhere just look like a BILLION bucks. Men don't want to spend thousands of bucks on a girl that looks like she just robbed the salvation army but they also don't give a damn about designers either.....JUST LOOK HOT!!! Oh and I've found that the more expensive brands hug my curvesBebe especially..Go figure!
Oh.. Nothing like great perfume.. but go light. I loove Christian Dior Jadore. It's my signature scent. It smells sooo soo good. Just dab a little on and it'll bless the whole room lol! Tuesday, when I went to meet my assistant at Panera bread.. I was walking to the back of the room and some guy tapped me and was like "What are you wearing? You smell so good" I'm like "It's Christian dior Jadore" The whole collection is amazing! I recommend finding your own scent though. I've heard perfume could smell different on others. Dolce & Gabanna Light blue is awesome too.
Malaya and Erica are spot on BUT except for Playmates and Porn Stars, REAL HDH's with those qualities are few and far between. It's not so easy to pull off. As I have posted a number of times, the REAL courtesans who get paid just to go to dinner or attend a charity function as arm candy are a very thin upper strata in the escort biz. Although, their ranks have been expanded a little bit by the lousy economy and all the layoffs at a LOT of companies. A fair number of sophisticated college grads with a lot of real world experience have at least tried escorting to try and maintain their former lifestyles.
If I were to try and sum it up in one sentence: REAL HDHs do not look like anything other than beautiful and sophisticated women. Less is definitely more with regard to the clothes, jewelry, make-up and perfume. They stay au courant and they LISTEN. That's one of the silly little secrets about big money escorting : how many guys are willing to pay big money just to have someone to talk to and LISTEN to them. I never cease to be surprised by this but my escort gal pals assure me that anywhere from 10% to 33% of their encounters involve little more than socializing and talking.
Last edited by Eric Stoner; 02-08-2010 at 12:32 PM.




I think Im a great listener.. Ive even thought about becoming a counselor.. Id love that..



Omg i used to bank in chicago then i moved to vegas where my services were just not enough..lol i used to just hang out go to dinners,movies, shopping and thats it..in vegas it was gambling, dinners, just hanging out on the strip but then at the end of the experience that cloud of lets go back to my rm...im not on that and the times i did go to their rms only like one time we actually ordered rm service and hung out...the rest of the times i have to have an "energency call to attend to" because they were trying to have sex...no u paid for my company sir...that there u trying to do is illegal...jail is not a good look for either of us lol
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Interesting blue. Depending on what you were charging as a dinner companion/arm candy, I'd be suprised if you weren't labed an ROB on the review boards. No man's going to pay $600 (the usual in vegas) for just a dinner date just my $0.02. Yes there are instances where a guy just wants to watch tv and hang out and maybe go pick up a chicken sandwich or take you out to a nice restaurant but that's not the normal day to day in an escort's life. Reality is REAL escorts spend "private time" with their clients. Escorts that don't spend private time with their clients are called social escorts .. there is a market for that but usually when a guy books time with an escort he's expecting more than a movie date. You'd have to be on some Agent provacatuse ish and even then who would pay her $600 for just dinner.. Just keeping it real.
Escorts that DON'T spend private time with their clients and advertise on the escort directories are labled ROBs.. just FYI..
...and I understand not wanting to spend private time with the guy but you wouldn't want to mislead anyone like that it's VERY dangerous.
Last edited by malayataylor; 02-05-2010 at 02:47 PM.



I never said i adveritsed like that. i never got over on anyone nor was it a in order to do xyz u need xyz up front. these were guys that approached me while im hanging out in vegas, or who have contacted me in the past and they found out i was in vegas. each and every time the amount they paid out was not predetermined by me its what they gave me for my time. and in any and all situations u can say till your blue in the face as to what you are not going to do and people will still poke and prod and try to get u to do otherwise.
former guest of mine when i was dancing in chicago have contacted me and found out when i was in vegas and was like hey id love to go out for drinks, take u shopping ect and i will pay you for hanging out. id be like sure and everytime we went out for drinks, maybe gambled a bit and that was that and id still make the equal if not more than i would if i was getting paid 500 and hour in vip.and it was always what they offered i never said they had to pay me. they just did. and the only time it was one of those ackward situations was when i was hanging out w friends or at casino and sum1 approach me and again they hang out still pay me but no matter how much i said we werent doing anything they's still try to push the limits to see if id change my mind and when i didnt it was still ok have a great night and some of the times we did the same thing either the next day or the duration of their visit.
I never had sex for money or did that until i went to cali in 07 and did my first porn scene and porn is as far as getting paid for sex goes at least for me
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Forgive me I assumed you were advertising as an escort. The OP was talking about escorting and you never mentioned in detail what you were working as (escort/dancer?). You were meeting these men in casinos..? Cool. I've heard about girls that do that ish and bank!
I'd never do porn... just not my cup of tea. One of my perverted uncles (long story) would see that shit and tell the whole world. Funny how that ish works huh? lol



as far as my original answer i had quoted some1 who had said something b4 that i thought my 2 cents were relevant to that post that i quoted lol
Girl please! go to any casino on the strip an sit at the bar...about half the girls sitting there are working. and not working for the casino lol which is why if u doing that u dnt sit at the bar at all! unless u want to get caught up lol. its a lot of stuff u not supposed to do lol but if you are ever in vegas and want to know hit me up lol
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Hm.. Sounds like something i'd do 4 sure.. I'm actually going in august with my sister for the wsa show (trade show)! Maybe I'll hit up the casinos!!! I'll be 21 in june! RIGHT ON TIME! LOL!




Ya vegas is soo fun! I went with a SD of mine in october and it was awesome! I got a CK coat ($400), about a grand of channel make-up and some bad ass jeans! It was fucking awesome! but I really dont like SDs, they take up alot of time..





LMFAO @ sDs take up a lot of time!! YOU AIN'T LYING! I rather get my money and get out. I really don't like convincing someone to spend money on me/ give me money. They should know when they meet me I mean business! lol!!
This is one of the ONLY reasons I'm happy to have an uber-conservative Christian family. After I get my boob job I'm gonna start doing porn, I've heard once you get 70+ titles under your belt you can start charging through the roof for escorting...and cam work...and you can start featuring. I wanna build my own little empire lol.








yes that will set u up for hella shit..for 1 if you are not into anything bareback then dnt put pse whatevr they watch in the vids if u put that pse down they will expect u to get down like1...just watch out
Man i dnt even do esorting and folks are like man how much u charge? every since i started doing porn ..i be like hunny thats not goin to happen first off I get paid from 900-1100 per scene what makes u think ima lay up w u for 200bucks they b standing there shocked i be like yeah as i said not going to happen..jail is not a good look lmao
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Well, I guess the way I look at it is there's gonna be certain things I will never do on camera (like anal....that only happens if you're dating me and beg every day for a year until you get me drunk one night and I finally give in...and only once. Haha.) so I won't do anything in an escort appointment that I wouldn't do on camera. Most guys I've seen just want normal stuff anyway.
But it would be nice to be able to book a week trip somewhere, do 1 or 2 escort appointments at $1000 a pop during the day, then walk into the local strip club and do a feature show for $1500, then go back home, all because I screwed on camera...which I also got paid for. Can't beat that with a stick. I'm working on a paysite right now too.
Ugh, I just wish I could get over being sick so I could go back to work!!!





LOL @ anal.. I've never went there.. ha! I'm tooooo scared! I'd never go there with a client. My ex bf used to beg me to let him so much I'd get so irritated.. I mean I'm thinking "what's with the booty infatuation?" lol! Ah men! Most men I've seen want the usual "vanilla" stuff some have been into some REALLY kinky ish! I've had "whoooa wtf" moments during calls once too many times but I can't complain
Interesting that you're working on your paysite I've thought about it but damn those contracts scare me. It's something I'd really have to sit and thnk about. My own paysite would be kool but actual dvd porno would be um.. mortifying.. lol!
Damn 1k a pop sounds nice.. lol @ pop!! You're so silly girl! How about 1k a pop times 4.. hell rent and bills will be all paid up in ONE DAY.. in two days rent, bills, a nice vacation to st lucia would be all paid for DAMN!! I love this industry! Its frikking awesome!! Hmm I'll have do some more research on PSEs
lol...oops @ the $1000 a pop...that pun was SO not intended hahaha. I do graphic design/web design work in my spare time so I would be running my paysite all by my lonesome...I just have to learn how to embed a members' section and a streaming cam...I may subcontract someone to code that in for me...
Yeah this industry works great as long as you keep your nose clean and stay out of trouble...it's a shame that it gets such a bad rap from the mainstream media...of course, if everyone did it then I'd probably be out of a job.





I kinda thought so about the whole barebacking thing. My goodness would those poor men be disappointed! Men should know better its sad they don't ugh! LMFAO @ "They'll expect you to get down like one".. Eh.. I kinda thought so. No wonder PSEs command such high rates..oh well. I'll keep my $400 an hour.... when my other business takes off I'll raise it just for the hell of it.
Jail is not a good look but it's avoidable. It takes a very smart woman to be in the industry we're in. There are ways to avoid these things though some get caught up. I know women that's been in the industry 10-15 years and have never been arrested, abused or whatever. That's what I was trying to explain to that hot mess on the other thread. It's all good blue! All love and power to ya.. stick to your dancing/porn girl! Dancing is not for me I learned that ish early on. I couldn't shake my ass in the club for 8 hours and leave with $300 in my pocket.. ha! I'd one angry black woman.![]()



yes girl! ive been dancing 5yrs and just now making money.. i used to be one of those that came to work every day stayed long hrs and at end of the nite everybody be like wtf u cute as hell y u aint made no money. until i went to scores then finally bankd w like 1500+ on the weekdns...but now i got my shit together and have stopped stuff and drama at home fuck my mood lol plus now i travel so its hey bitch get it together u make no money u can't get back home lmao
but yall better than me an i give u guys props my nerves to bad an im too paranoid lol
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Aw girl I can't wait till we meet! You do graphic web design too? I'm wanting to take classes at the local community college for that lol! That would be awesome. I'm sure you'd bank!
Keeping your nose clean is right! I'm also kinda glad there are so many women against it.. They can keep making their $10 an hour while I make my $400 doing what I love!
You may want to update your research. First of all, porn generally does not pay well.. Not anymore. Not unless you have your own web-site and/or production company.
You can get BIGGER money for escorting if you have titles under your belt. Anywhere from 40% to HALF will go to the agency that books and promotes you.
Note I said "bigger". Porn credits mean you will be billed out from $1000 to $2500 an hr. depending. It does NOT mean there will be a market for you and remember that at most you get 60 %.
Featuring ? Where ? The market for "feature" dancers is DYING. Personal appearances, maybe. Most don't pay very much.
For every Jenna or Jill Kelly there are dozens of Ginger Lynns. Be careful.





Errm.. You may want to read her posts again
1.) She never said she was planning on making "BIG" money in porn
She simply said she was going to use it to boost her escorting career...
2.) If you read her OTHER posts, You'd know she's working on her own website.
so what makes you think she hasn't already done her "research"?
Make sense to me...
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