IMHO, this always turns out to be true. Never do too much on the floor, and even in VIP, stretch it out with a lot of conversation. The VIP girls hardly ever do floor dances and when they do, there isn't much contact.



IMHO, this always turns out to be true. Never do too much on the floor, and even in VIP, stretch it out with a lot of conversation. The VIP girls hardly ever do floor dances and when they do, there isn't much contact.
So true, our top earner hardly ever does lapdances in the main dance rooms because she nearly always gets the guy to go straight to VIP. Even when she's in there she'll talk for hours fully clothed only doing the odd dance. Wish I could pull that off!





I must not have the magic touch because I make honestly make more when I hustle my ass off ( which I always do ). I don't work a high volume of nights, so each night is crucial for me to be able to take the time to dance.





^I think it's a delicate balance between being a customer magnet by just sitting and looking like the lonely stripper no one wants. I think the trick is to make it seem like you don't give a shit whether you get dances or not.





conversation is work, too, as is developing the type of hustle that attracts customers to spend money for convo and clothedness in a strip club setting.





Agreed Miabella!
Conversation is harder than being a trained monkey.
Rebecca Avalon



I agree. There's a girl I know with the most seductive voice ever. It's a sexy, deep, mellow Spanish accent. Not only that, she seems to have many men under her spell.
Developing a mystique takes time. Making a man simply want to talk and be with you takes effort. I try to have a lot of open questions when I'm in VIP, just to get the guy to open up. Once you have his pet subject, be 'enthralled' by it and you will be rewarded.
This works because men always want to chase a little bit....it seems to me that when I'm interested in a guy the less interested I seem, the more they want me...haha!!
so weird....




i def agree - too much dancing is boring, to me and to the custy, there are only 2 ways that kind of vip ends, either he comes- bad - no more money for you. or he gets bored and leaves, also bad. (and yes, this only applies to vips, crs, extended time, cause on a lapdance you're stilll suppose to dance) and it is much harder to learn how to talk, especially for long periods of time, but once i mastered it it made a HUGE HUGE difference in my money. cause thats where the money really is, in doing crs etc.
These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?




Ditto here, we don't have CRs or a real VIP but once I got the right combination of body language and conversations skills down I started getting a far more consistent income due to regulars and due to customers who were willing to tip me well for my time and pay me for blocks of my time. I will still hustle my ass off to make my money on those nights when I don't find the customers willing to spend on more than a few dances at a time but I do agree that I'm never the girl giving it all away for free on the floor other than the occasional boobie flash, and that's because my pierced nipples generate a lot of interest and conversation.
It's not less work, it's smarter work!





love it when that happens. i had a guy for four hours and only spent 15 mins dancing or even being naked. he preferred to hold my hand and stare into my eyes
but yeah id prefer to dance like a machine than fake intimacy. its hard work without getting personally involved, which o course is something u dont want
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