Hey everyone!
So I've been hanging out around this forum on and off for a few months just browsing some of the awesome material that's floating around. There's so much great information and so many great stories! I have been trying to muster the courage to dance for a whiiile, I just can't seem to actually act on my intention. I've been to a few strips clubs over the past couple of years, taken a few pole classes for fun and loved it, and I lovvve being sexy. I'm around 90% confident in my body and personality (everyone has their flaws) so that's not the issue..... I'm just veeery worried about what my family and friends would think if they ever found out. I'm 20 years old, and I live over 2000 miles away from my family... but they mean A LOT to me, and I'm not sure how I feel about lying to them about my work (that is, IF I do try dancing). Plus, my part-time day job (and passion!) is working with young girls in dance and gymnastics. My life would be OVER if any of their parents found out.
Is anyone else keeping their job from family/friends/etc??! Ugh I'm having trouble figuring this part outWhat to do?!



) so that's not the issue..... I'm just veeery worried about what my family and friends would think if they ever found out. I'm 20 years old, and I live over 2000 miles away from my family... but they mean A LOT to me, and I'm not sure how I feel about lying to them about my work (that is, IF I do try dancing). Plus, my part-time day job (and passion!) is working with young girls in dance and gymnastics. My life would be OVER if any of their parents found out.
What to do?!
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From what I've learned on this site and IRL, if you don't want ANYONE to find out it's going to take a lot of lies and fake back stories to explain everything that you're 'not doing'. It seems like it'd become frustrating and a little tiring to constantly have to hide it. I think some girls on here have been hiding it for a while and could probably give some good advice. I'm not too concerned about it and I would hate having to hide it from the world, personally.



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