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    Default Combining Stripper Personas to Find Best

    We've all heard about the common types of roles that dancers portray, such as the innocent school girl; the ditzy, bubbly blond; the dark dominatrix; the girl next door; etc. Some girls go all out, and some just incorporate these roles into parts of their acts. My question is: is there are universal "type" that is more appealing to men?

    Of course, dif types of men prefer dif types of dancers at dif times in their lives, but what I'm wondering is if there is one type (or combo of types) that appeals to a higher percentage of customers.

    Part of my curiosity stems from what I mentioned that I was reading in a dif thread, regarding the science of sex appeal. Various sources say that men prefer very feminine, innocent, younger (within reason) females. This fits with the whole innocent school girl act. But what about the sexual aggressiveness that men seem to like, too?

    This makes me wonder if the right combination of personas will result in a closer result to the perfect type of hustle...even if those personas seem like night and day.

    What are your thoughts?

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    i think the standard most appealing to men one is a slightly ditzy, kinda girlnext doorish, funny really horny coed, if that makes sense. i start from that one and then i start to adjust my personality to a particulat custy
    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    I think it's a matter of what fits YOU best. I never seem to have trouble getting customers.

    The girl-next-door thing makes you very approachable. It seems to be the classic "every guy" thing. You can be the smart, nerdy girl next door; or the horny exhibitionist girl next door that doesn't close her curtains when she showers. And everything in between.

    I can't pull off the girl next door thing. I'm so goth I shit bats. Like, seriously. But I can't pull off the dark dominatrix thing really well either, because I have a submissive personality. I settled on a more rockabilly style (I've had Betty Page bangs for YEARS) and if a customer is turned off by the "dark gothy" thing, it's easy to turn it around and pull off the "1950's sex pot/June Cleaver in stilletos" deal, and suddenly, I'm not a scary goth chick - I'm just a housewife who loves to bake that enjoys looking like a sexpot and letting loose, and I become approachable. I become, wihtout being the girl next door, the feminine younger girl with a bit of sexual aggressiveness evidenced by being a stripper that men want.

    I don't think there is a perfect persona for hustling. It has to be believable for YOU. Hope that made sense and helped some. lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissMynxx View Post
    I'm so goth I shit bats. Like, seriously.

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    I'm so goth I shit bats. Like, seriously.

    Where do you work I have to meet you and get dances lol that made my day

    I think we shouldn't play a "role" per say you should just get an idea of why your customer is there and then provide him or her with what they are looking for.

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    I'm the Southern Belle. At my club in upstate NY, I'm one of the only blondes and the only blonde with long hair--I have a faint Southern accent (though I admit I thicken it up sometimes) and I'm one of the most genuinely polite girls. I always smile when I approach customers. I'm really friendly and helpful, and I'm never rude to a customer unless he's doing something I feel merits it (i.e. I never go off on a customer for turning down a dance--a shocking amount of girls at my club do that). Recently, a lot of the girls have been super bitchy, so my friendliness has been standing out. I've had customers coming up to me after an hour or so and telling me they want a dance because I was by far the nicest girl there. It's an interesting niche for me, cause I'm pretty fucking cynical. But all the etiquette classes I took when I lived in Arkansas are really paying off. And I manage to do the whole thing without coming across (even slightly) as an airhead or a ditz. It's a role I enjoy.

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    I tried being cutesy girl next door, more so than I already come off and it threw me off completely. I tried playing the role for about 15 minutes until I couldn't do it anymore. I went into the dressing room, changed my make-up, clothes and went back to dancing to the normal alternative music I usually dance to. I wouldn't say I'm alternative, but definitely into high fashion. I do the same at work, I tend to wear a lot of black or darker colors, occasionally red and wear a liquid liner a la 60s (cat-eye) and red lipstick and I'm 5'9 and about 120. But I still come off as young and innocent and am very friendly. Just the simple fact that I'm young makes seem girl next door to the older customers. It's funny, the young guys always over guess my age and the old guys always under guess...but I guess it works! So I'll play both...but will never again try dressing the role...if that makes sense.

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    Confidence and keep smilin'. Could be a ditzy smile, a sexy smile, a very naughty smile...just smile and act like you own their soul.

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    i dont usually come up with one coz i would break character. rather i find one that fits me best and go from there. the ditzy blonde/queen bitch seems to be working wonders these days

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    Quote Originally Posted by msincredible01 View Post
    .just smile and act like you own their soul.
    hahaha NICE!

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    Default Re: Combining Stripper Personas to Find Best

    Really, I don't think it matters which persona is "the MOST" popular.

    It matters what the guy you are trying to sell a dance to at that particular moment wants.

    so even if various sources say that men prefer very feminine, innocent, younger (within reason) females...if the guy you are talking to wants a dominatrix you aren't going to close the sale acting innocent.
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    Default Re: Combining Stripper Personas to Find Best

    What about the Hustler?

    All business telling it like it is!

    Some guys wish they had that much business savvy so it's a turn on for them.

    The other would be a GFE type.

    ".just smile and act like you own their soul. "

    This.




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