Short of plastic surgery and working out more, I have done everything that I can to improve my appearance...I think.
I have also researched numerous body language, flirting, and selling techniques. This leaves me needing to learn more about how to be sexy. I grew up pretty tomboyish. I even "trained" myself to walk like a guy (when I was younger - I broke myself out of this habit, gradually, but still walked hunched over until I was 20) and to speak in a deeper voice. I never had much confidence (which is related to being "sexy") due to various life experiences ever since I was in grade school where I was constantly being put down for either my looks or my character.
All of this, combined, has resulted in me being one of the LEAST sexy people that I know. I look at other females' little traits and find them to be sexy. It's almost like they are a different species, at times. I don't know what to do. I've researched the "science of sexual attraction," but I feel as though the info that I found is limited.
I feel that this is one of the only parts of my hustle (and everyday appearance, I suppose) that I haven't actively tried to perfect.
Can anyone give me any tips? Are there any books that are recommended?
The only one that I saw recommended on here was something like "7 Days to Sex Appeal."
Thanks in advance, bc I'm in need of some serious help!



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