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    I have a question. First off, I kind of wish there was a Hustle Hut section for escorts somewhere on this site, I don't mind sharing my tips and tricks (no pun intended...ha) to help people make money. Okay, anyway, my question is, when you have a regular, how do you keep him paying the same amount that he did the first time, and how do you keep them from not being offended when you ask for the donation up front? I always feel like once I get a regular, they will start wanting discounts and then I end up dropping them because I feel like I'd rather take a new client that gives me more. Also after I see my clients the first time sometimes they act offended if I ask for the money up front (if they don't have it out, duh lol) because theyre like "oh you don't trust me?" and then I feel like an asshole for creating an awkward situation, (but not for wanting my money upfront, hello, what the hell) its like sometimes they get "too comfortable". How do you stop this from happening?

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    Don't put up with that shit. You're a businesswoman.

    Any man seeing you is not seeing an escort for the first time. He KNOWS the drill. Money up front. He's being a dick if he tries to worm his way out. Tell him it's just routine, just protocol, and he can just pay or get out.

    As for regulars? Again, don't put up with that shit. You are a businesswomen. Tell them that. Tell them you can't give them a discount because then everyone else would want them, it'd fuck up your book keeping, etc etc. Or tell them they get what they pay for.
    Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sbeezy305 View Post
    I have a question. First off, I kind of wish there was a Hustle Hut section for escorts somewhere on this site, I don't mind sharing my tips and tricks (no pun intended...ha) to help people make money. Okay, anyway, my question is, when you have a regular, how do you keep him paying the same amount that he did the first time, and how do you keep them from not being offended when you ask for the donation up front? I always feel like once I get a regular, they will start wanting discounts and then I end up dropping them because I feel like I'd rather take a new client that gives me more. Also after I see my clients the first time sometimes they act offended if I ask for the money up front (if they don't have it out, duh lol) because theyre like "oh you don't trust me?" and then I feel like an asshole for creating an awkward situation, (but not for wanting my money upfront, hello, what the hell) its like sometimes they get "too comfortable". How do you stop this from happening?
    WTF??? Rates are non-negotiable, simple as that. The guy knows you work for an agency and he knows about agency cuts. The agency is NOT going to take a reduced fee, that's money coming out of your cut. EXPLAIN this. Secondly, DON'T feel like an asshole. Money should be paid upfront, this is STANDARD protocol. By making you ask for the money, they're trying to assert dominance over you. If they say "Oh you don't trust me?" give them a canned, robotic response. "Donations are due upfront."

    UGH. Dumb asses.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sbeezy305 View Post
    I have a question. First off, I kind of wish there was a Hustle Hut section for escorts somewhere on this site, I don't mind sharing my tips and tricks (no pun intended...ha) to help people make money. Okay, anyway, my question is, when you have a regular, how do you keep him paying the same amount that he did the first time, and how do you keep them from not being offended when you ask for the donation up front? I always feel like once I get a regular, they will start wanting discounts and then I end up dropping them because I feel like I'd rather take a new client that gives me more. Also after I see my clients the first time sometimes they act offended if I ask for the money up front (if they don't have it out, duh lol) because theyre like "oh you don't trust me?" and then I feel like an asshole for creating an awkward situation, (but not for wanting my money upfront, hello, what the hell) its like sometimes they get "too comfortable". How do you stop this from happening?
    I've never had a regular ask for a discount. I run a two week introductory rate the first two weeks of every OTHER month.. so say my introductory rate is $280-300. If a guy was to see me at that rate, I'll never expect him to pay $400. That's how you get and keep good business. I also state on my website that If my donation isn't in plain sight where I can see it 5 minutes into the date, I'll leave. I've also never had a client say "Oh you don't trust me?" .. Please.. They know not to go there with me lol! You'll put yourself at a big disadvantage if you start treating them as "buddies" or "friends" and asking for your money after the session. I always check id and get money up front. I don't care who it is. I don't care if Tiger woods came and saw me its um "Donation and ID sir" LOL! Girl, Don't let those men take advantage of you. You have to make them respect you. I can't stress this enough. This is the way I look at it: When you go to the dentist and they ask you to pay, You don't say "Don't you trust me? I'll pay you later". Same rule should apply. Here's my etiqutte page from my website. You'll be suprised how many times I've went to an outcall location and this is the page their computer screen is on LOL!

    Please read this page before booking an appointment.


    Honorarium etiqutte: My honorarium is NON-Negotiable. Please do not ask me for "discounts" or "specials". Once again I am NOT for everyone if you feel like my gift is "too high" then I would suggest you go elsewhere. Upon my arrival please have my gift in a plain white envelope or out in plain sight (preferred). Failure to do this within 5 minutes of our meeting will result in our appointment being terminated. DO NOT make me ask for my gift. I find this very disrespectful. Do not talk about money during our session or discuss sexual acts during our time together...this will also prompt me to leave. Do not ask questions like "What do I get for this?" Here is the answer: All monies received are for my time and companionship only. Simple. So don't ask. You read it here on my site already .. ok? Good. If you've never used an escort service before you can Now continue reading .....


    My Personal "Spare Time".
    I'm sorry, but I do not see clients for coffee, movies, lunch , dinner and etc.., in My Personal "Spare Time".



    Hygine
    Please take a shower before our date

    Alcohol & Drugs
    I do not partake in the use of Alcohol, Drugs or Tobacco. My premises also do not accommodate such use. If I find a client has arrived ‘high' from the use of any controlled substance, I reserve the right to ask him to leave.



    No Means No.
    This should be very simple; however, I have never found myself in awkward positions from clients who do not respect my boundaries. My website makes it clear on what I do and do not provide. I do not answer questions during a session and never ask me to perform a sexual act during a session;So please just remember: No means No. I do not make exceptions for anyone.



    Please Value My Discretion & Privacy
    We both have family, careers, and friends. I value your privacy and in return ask for only the same. Please refrain from asking any questions that you would not feel comfortable answering.



    What I look for in prospective clients?
    I am very selective in choosing the gentlemen that I share my time with. I take time in selecting respectful men whom I feel I will be able to connect with at a deeper level. I respect myself and expect to spend my time with those I regard as sincere and respectful gentlemen.

    Keep in mind that I reserve the right to end the appointment at anytime. Please be respectful of my feelings and wishes. Thank you!
    .. LOL.. i'm not going to bother to fix it.. I spelled hygiene wrong. I'm not perfect guys!
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    Malaya- you rock! Nothing is as great as a sexy, smart and assertive girl with her shit together.

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    I love that Malaya, you have the best assertive attitude. thanks for all the responses. I feel like when i learned the 'game' I got a lot of misinformation and I am starting to see a lot of areas that I was fucking up on because of bad advice! I just got date-check certified and I'm starting to build an escortsite. Thank u girls so much, I swear, sometimes all you need is another perspective...I was feeling so stuck and now I feel like I'm getting back to where I was when I started escorting...making lots of money and having fun, instead of being broke and irritated all the time, which is the whole point isnt it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by demonika View Post
    Fix it when you can, Malaya!!! I was just thinking how well written it was. You did a great job. I will be chiming in more from the other side of the pond when I get around to it. UK seems to be a lot different on the security scale. We don't have to worry too much about the legalities.

    It isn't worth it to 'discount' anything. It kind of comes off disgusting. If they want robot boning they can 'order' a fifty dolla ho from Craigslist. Keep your standards high or mid-level and you will get that or better. Quality comes both ways.
    Quote Originally Posted by Victoria669Jones View Post
    Malaya- you rock! Nothing is as great as a sexy, smart and assertive girl with her shit together.
    Thanks yall! I just got back from vacation! My regs kept blowing my phone while I was on vacay so hopefully I'll bank big this week ESPECIALLY with my reviews on TER!!!!! I'm about to take my daughter to chuck e cheese's in a few, I'll fix the spelling on my site later today or tommorrow. Taking off today, tommorrow is back to work for me!

    Quote Originally Posted by sbeezy305 View Post
    I love that Malaya, you have the best assertive attitude. thanks for all the responses. I feel like when i learned the 'game' I got a lot of misinformation and I am starting to see a lot of areas that I was fucking up on because of bad advice! I just got date-check certified and I'm starting to build an escortsite. Thank u girls so much, I swear, sometimes all you need is another perspective...I was feeling so stuck and now I feel like I'm getting back to where I was when I started escorting...making lots of money and having fun, instead of being broke and irritated all the time, which is the whole point isnt it?
    LOL thanks girl. Its all about presentation. If you present yourself like trash, men will treat you like trash. Remember: Insanity-when you do the same thing over and over again expecting a different result. So SWITCH IT UP whether it's your pictures, the text on your ads or where you advertise at! Don't be afraid to take risks and hang in there. It'll be all good girl!

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    Just to add: Sometimes when you offer discounts to regulars they more than make up for it with multiple hours/more visits, etc. Of course it is totally up to you, however make sure that that customer is someone you don't depend on (i.e. the guy that spends a grand a week on you). Sometimes even knocking $50 off your total rate can make a huge difference to someone.

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