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Oasis, check
Pink Pony, check
Mardi Gras, check
She even danced at Follies. That club is all extras. She danced there for quite a while. Im trying to ad all this up. Tell me if im being paranoid. She tried Oasis, didnt last long. They arent known for extras. Pink Pony, pretty strict with Panther being house mom. Again, not many extras. Didnt last long. Mardi Gras, asshole staff, didnt last long. Tiffany's, WELL known for extras, was there a LONG time. OK now Charleston. Thee Southern Belle, No extras, didnt last long. Jaguars, Not many extras, didnt last long. Jester Social...loves it there and is still there. See a pattern? Its one of many patterns im seeing.

And get this, at 8:30 pm tonight she text and said she had zero money because no customers were there. Its 10:30 now and she just text and said she had $300 from just stage sets because ppl were coming in. What?!!
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.



The fact that you haven't communicated your thoughts and fears with her about this means you two aren't the soul mates you claim to be. Soul mates talk about everything.
You asking strangers if your wife is cheating or not doesn't compute with me. How would we know. The communication between you and your wife sucks.
I smell a troll.![]()
all signs point to - your wife's a whore.![]()


I have, we are , and we do. She is just not willing to go to far into it explaining some things. She gets very defensive. And im just asking for other dancers opinions because its what they do and they have more of a clue than you for sure. You wouldnt go to a tire shop and ask someone why your engine keeps over heating.

^ this thread is getting boring. I would like to finagle veronicachick if I could afford her
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.


And so it seems i did. What a drag. Maybe I will go dance and see how SHE handles it. It would be an interesting turn of the tables. I'll pull all the stops. Come home smelling like alcohol and say i only had a glass of wine, do some extras and let the rumors fly, have girls calling me and texting how much they love and miss me. Sounds fun. except the getting naked and dancing part. lol. Male dancers just look silly to me. But hey, i have a six pack. And im sure i can round up a fireman hat and some suspenders.![]()

"I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."

She never got fired really. She left because she said money wasnt good at a certain club. As soon as she found the nastiest little club full of girls doing extras, she stayed and made money. All the while saying that yea, a few girls there did extras but she would never do that. or the classic, "all those girls were fired and its clean now". Yea right.

Just my objective opinion as a guy.
(a) Never been to any upscale gentleman's club that VIP wasn't a fun time. You have to recognize that most girls on here will never say they do anything, but trust me, we have either found the website of the 1% stripper demographic, or many of the girls here just lie about what they actually do in the club to bank. Don't let them tell u that your girl can work in an extras club and bank while being an angel.
(b) If there are dudes texting her, that can't happen unless she is giving out her number. Huge warning flag. Huge.
Best of luck. You should have a honest discussion.
If there are no strip clubs in heaven, I'm not going.




Sometimes, its nice to be a big fish in a small pond though. I've made good money dancing clean at extras-ridden clubs. The girls simply weren't as hot as me and didn't have much game. But the club was comfortable, well-located, and management treated customers well. So sometimes they went with extras girls, sometimes with me. She might be doing something similar.
And don't say silly things like, "I'll dance" unless you are ready to dance for other men. Its not that easy to get hired as a male stripper at a striptease venue solely for females. Your emotions are showing, and I think everyone on the site is riling you up and making it worse.





This is my favorite post in the thread so far. You had me 'laughing out loud' for real.
Sorry, 'I'm_not_here', I don't mean to laugh at your situation. But you are starting to sound like a troll with the constant worrying and insecurity. Haven't met many musicians that would freak out like this.
Plus we get so many threads like this, the women here don't generally do extras and get sick of hearing about it, and the jealousy--they get very sick of that. You can't blame them, even if it's a natural reaction from men raised with the Western notion of Romantic love, etc.
And also you totally fucked with the wrong guy, FBR was trying to inject a little humor into the situation. Of course he didn't really think you'd be happy with a big screen TV if your beloved wife was sucking dick.
Which, I hate to say it, and if you are for real, she probably is. Buck up, go back to being a musician, you'll be deluged in booty again, and you will mend.
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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Its obvious the only way im gonna know for sure if shes doing stuff is to send someone in. My gut says yes, the evidence points to yes. As far as dancing, i know i would have to dance mostly for guys. I really dont care. Not a homophobe. I think it would be good for her to see how it feels.

Yea most musicians wouldnt freak about it. Im usually one that wouldnt. But shes my wife! I said i would NEVER get married but with her i didnt give it a second thought. Maybe i should have. my mistake i guess. And honestly i dont care who i fucked with. i wont be heartbroken if i get booted.
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