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    So, in my experience with Military Guys we get here, I can either get nothing out of them, or rarely, I can make my night off them.

    But I've been getting a lot of 'maybe later's from most military guys I've been talking to recently. Most are Americans passing through Canada on their way back from the Middle East, or about to head out.

    The ones I bank on typically have something in common with me, but most of them I just don't know what they're like. And I don't want to really focus on the job since most of it is really unsexy.

    Most come in in a large group, males and females, typically ranging from 10-30 people. What's the best way to approach them? Good ice breakers?

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    I love the military customers. They have the best stories, and as long as you keep them talking, they'll keep on paying. Most of them are proud to serve and love to talk about their experience. I had a combat medic buy like 10 dances in a row on Tuesday because he appreciated my interest in what he does. Make them feel like heroes!

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    The bigger you make them feel, the more they will get out of you. I used to work almost exclusively with military guys, since the club I danced at was like 5 minutes from the post.

    I would act all impressed, like "Oh, you're military? I love a guy in ABUs"-touch his chest on this one, "I bet you must have amazing stories"-after which, say something that will help with a drink sell, such as "let's have a drink and you can tell me something amazing", "Please let me take your mind off what you have been through"-lean towards him and if he's not too shell-shocked, rub his head or cheek or something, "Let me show you what you probably haven't seen in a long time"-this one while suggestively pulling on my thong or top strap. Then, make you VIP or dance sell. You can, of course, sell a dance after any one of those lines, but this is the approach I have used most often.

    As for the group thing, just approach them all and choose one to talk to, or ask which one hasn't had a sexy woman in a long time, try to have them buy dances for each other too.

    Once you know how to work them, you will be making easy money.
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    Quote Originally Posted by papillonluvr View Post
    The bigger you make them feel, the more they will get out of you.
    yes. i ALWAYS ask about things that aren't too unsexy (i try to avoid any kind of killing/terroristic/friends dying subject) and say things like "oh i bet that was so scary!! you're so brave!!" they like to be made to feel like heroes. (and in a way, they all are. )

    try to have them buy dances for each other too.
    this. this happens all the time. guys get REAL close with their millitary buddies, and if you and another girl can work a guy and his "battle", then it's an easy CR sell.

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    useful post, thank you!

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    I listen to them and give them a lot of non-sexual contact. Hold their hand, scratch the back of their head, little should massage while I am talking to them. I sit on their lap. All of this is before I ask them if they want a dance. I spend a song (3 minutes), sitting with them and giving them some human contact that they may have missed. At the clubs in my area the dances are only 10 dollars, so I don't sit for too long. Even if they reject the dance at first they will most likely waive you over a little later. If you think they are coming back with a lot of money (some do) I would wait out another half song with them giving them extra non-sexual attention. Those guys really appreciate that, and you haven't lost your ability to sell that next dance. Your attention should come back to you via a string of dances or stage tips:-)

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    I've been doing those things automatically because I really do admire them. I had one guy actually break down and cry. I just hugged him until he was ready to think about something else. So many of them just seem to need a big hug and feminine attention.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Optimist View Post
    I've been doing those things automatically because I really do admire them. I had one guy actually break down and cry. I just hugged him until he was ready to think about something else. So many of them just seem to need a big hug and feminine attention.
    Oh god, I had one the other night and it just broke my heart. He just looked so... vulnerable and sad.

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    They only get paid on the 1st and the 15th. I find it's hard to get anything out of them when it's not around those days. Maybe if you're talking to a military guy between pay day, and try to get him to buy a dance and he say's no, he might be broke.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rayna Skye View Post
    They only get paid on the 1st and the 15th. I find it's hard to get anything out of them when it's not around those days. Maybe if you're talking to a military guy between pay day, and try to get him to buy a dance and he say's no, he might be broke.
    absolute truth. i worked in a club near a millitary base in georgia, and it was like clockwork, the fridays the boys got paid, the girls all got paid. the very next weekend it would be dead as fuck.

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    I think I have an unfair advantage coming from a family with two navy parents but having said that... my club is right by an airforce base and because we're on the coast we get a lot of navy boys in, and because we're a pretty well known tourist town, we get guys from the other branches too. I make really good money with these guys because they know that I know something about what their lives are like and because they can sense the genuine respect.

    Having said that... you have to feel them out. Some of them need a hug and a sensitive ear but if they aren't that type, then after you've gone through the "what do you do" thing and go ooh and wow a little bit, I honestly suggest trying not to talk to them about the military. They're in it day in and day out and most of them are sick, sick, sick of it. They don't often have a lot of free time so when they do they want to live it up.

    Talk to them about where they're from, what their hobbies are, do drinking games (responsibly of course), tell them raunchy jokes, basically entertain the hell out of them so that they are thinking about anything but having to go back to the base. Especially if they are coming back from or are leaving for the middle east. Yeah, you wanna get money out of it but if you invest just a few songs hanging out and they have money (and you'll know when they do because as others have said, they get paid on the 1st and the 15th) one will get a dance or ten, then his buddy will follow his example, and in a big group it can start a chain reaction where they all want dances with you because you're just so awesome, and they'll shower you with money on stage, and you end up leaving with a lot of money, feeling good about making soldiers happy. Everyone wins.

    Be their stripper therapist if they need it but distraction from all the crap associated with a dangerous, stressful job is what they usually really want.

    ETA: Oh, as for an approach? Just walk up to the group with a great big smile and say "Hi, how are you?" to whoever makes eye contact with you.

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    [quote=rareaspasia;1907653
    Be their stripper therapist if they need it but distraction from all the crap associated with a dangerous, stressful job is what they usually really want.[/quote]

    Very good advice.

    I love military guys, especially the young ones because they like to spend.

    Unlike the university guys of the same age. They can stay on campus.

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    My personal experience is that if they are Marine or Navy = $$$

    Air Force ( sorry dad) or Army it's ALOT harder these guys are usually in logical mode and are alot tighter with money.

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