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    I would never date a married man if I was looking for something serious. I have never been with someone who was "actively" married. I am not 'more attracted' to a man because he is married. The only married men I know are ones ITC, or the married friends of my husband/gf's. I don't know what woman has a circle of married men for friends.

    Now ITC, I don't care whether a man is married is not.

    If I was looking for a fling, I wouldn't care if a guy was married or not.
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    Quote Originally Posted by johnnytwoshoes View Post
    Do strippers prefer married men for boyfriends?
    No I prefer any man with money in his wallet. Actually... I prefer it in my hand rather than his wallet.
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    Quote Originally Posted by WestCoast101 View Post
    Obviously your question is directed at the women in here, who of course just happen to be strippers. However, you should realize (not all but) many women either won't acknowledge or don't understand exactly what creates all the magic '"chemistry" that causes them to be attracted to certain guys and not others, beyond the obvious (non controversial things) like looks, resources, height, strength, intelligence, - and if anyone suggest other (less benign) factors are often operating subconsciously- they often go ballistic.

    Think of a married guy in a club, just by being there he's already a bit of a horndog, so its obviously a benefit (over single guys) in terms of generating the alpha seed spreading nonmonogamous chemistry that provably gets the chemistry flowing for many women. So in that sense, married guys have a sort of a built in advantage in that regard.
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    To the op: Yes, strippers do like married men as boyfriends. They also like getting their nails done, lapdancing for fat guys, and plotting for the day when they will form the giant voltron stripper and take over the world. This will happen. When girls say things like, "We are not all the same." it is merely a ruse to keep you from finding out about our plan. We are, in fact, all the same. We operate with one hive mind, and that hive mind LOVES to date married guys.
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    LOL, it ain't just theory baby!

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    Seriously Westcoast if this alpha dog, horndog bullshit really is true why do u post on SW? Shouldn't u be too busy with the hoards of women lining up at your door?

    Honestly any woman who is interested in a married man for a romantic relationship either:

    - has no self esteem and doesn't believe any man would make her his one and only

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    - is a commitment phobic so being with an ultimately unattainable man appeals to her - these women are similar to those who begin dating men in prison
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Seriously Westcoast if this alpha dog, horndog bullshit really is true why do u post on SW? Shouldn't u be too busy with the hoards of women lining up at your door?

    Honestly any woman who is interested in a married man for a romantic relationship either:

    - has no self esteem and doesn't believe any man would make her his one and only

    or

    - is a commitment phobic so being with an ultimately unattainable man appeals to her - these women are similar to those who begin dating men in prison
    Bwahahaha, THIS. If we're talking about relationships here, and not just, who's putting money in the hand (because really, who cares? Do you care if your boss is married or not as long as they pay you?) -

    A married man will not (in most circumstances):

    -Raise your kids
    -Split your bills
    -Look after you when you're sick
    -Put you on his insurance
    -Introduce you to his family
    -Or basically ANYONE
    -Leave his wife for you
    -Offer you any kind of security

    Be it forbidden fruit syndrome or just plain old self loathing, only crazy people want relationships with men that can do nothing for them over men that can and will do the above.

    Yes, men are genetically predisposed to spread their seed. They're also predisposed to feel some kind of obligation to keep those crotch monsters alive and well looked after. That's why child support is mandatory, and donating to sperm banks isn't. A shared parenting is still the best way to make sure your seedlings survive to spawn forth another generation.

    Last I read, infatuation stops at 18 months, and therein anything left would be pretty solid love type emotion. Well, so says New Scientist.
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    ^^
    oh shit yeh just talking about relationships and certainly not regulars!!

    Totally agree with u. I could never be someone's hidden secret! My best friend was recently put thru this unwittingly (as she didn't know he was married, total con-artist). It nearly drove her to suicide.
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    Another problem that could be solved with communication and the abolishing of the dedicated monogamous couple as the only socially accepted family model. Yay polyamory!

    Sorry - inside joke turned soapbox, lol.

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    My theory on the question posed in the thread: it's because by having a mate, the man shows that he is preselected. It's the same reason people will like songs, movies, etc. that many other people like.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Slin View Post
    My theory on the question posed in the thread: it's because by having a mate, the man shows that he is preselected. It's the same reason people will like songs, movies, etc. that many other people like.
    Just a liiiiittle off. People tend to follow trends because liking what the pack likes = fitting in = not being eaten when food's low. By being a huge player, a man would be signalling that he's liked by many other women sexually, whereas marriage denotes unavailability and only, ostensibly, one woman getting any.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sxcbbw View Post
    Yes, men are genetically predisposed to spread their seed. They're also predisposed to feel some kind of obligation to keep those crotch monsters alive and well looked after. That's why child support is mandatory, and donating to sperm banks isn't. A shared parenting is still the best way to make sure your seedlings survive to spawn forth another generation.

    Last I read, infatuation stops at 18 months, and therein anything left would be pretty solid love type emotion. Well, so says New Scientist.
    What genes "think" and what you as a human think and wish to be true, are often very very different, and its clear that with modern males at least, genes directing them (if not by act, then desire) toward high volume seed spreading are simply overwhelming genes directing them toward pair bonding and focused resource type committed long term offspring-centric relationships, and one might account for this by suggesting that tribal societies as a dominant factor in man's development probably account for millions of years, whereas pair bonding perhaps mere 1000s, all very "recent" in geologic timeframes.

    It also explains why in primordial influenced genetic terms female genes might "berlieve" (mistakenly of course) that latching onto and placing bets with seed spreading males over resource committment males - makes sense in increase their ultimate odds of genetic survival. No one can legitimately claim that this all important mystical "chemistry" is a volitional choice for females, instead they are obvoiusly to a large degree products of genetic "decisions" beyond their control

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    Quote Originally Posted by WestCoast101 View Post
    What genes "think" and what you as a human think and wish to be true, are often very very different, and its clear that with modern males at least, genes directing them (if not by act, then desire) toward high volume seed spreading are simply overwhelming genes directing them toward pair bonding and focused resource type committed long term offspring-centric relationships, and one might account for this by suggesting that tribal societies as a dominant factor in man's development probably account for millions of years, whereas pair bonding perhaps mere 1000s, all very "recent" in geologic timeframes.

    It also explains why in primordial influenced genetic terms female genes might "berlieve" (mistakenly of course) that latching onto and placing bets with seed spreading males over resource committment males - makes sense in increase their ultimate odds of genetic survival. No one can legitimately claim that this all important mystical "chemistry" is a volitional choice for females, instead they are obvoiusly to a large degree products of genetic "decisions" beyond their control
    This is the worst broken record shit I have ever heard. Seriously... Why am I attracted to boys that look like girls then? I hate alpha males. I've never ever been interested in a single one. I must genetically defective or perhaps evolved to a higher intelligence.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    This is the worst broken record shit I have ever heard. Seriously... Why am I attracted to boys that look like girls then? I hate alpha males. I've never ever been interested in a single one. I must genetically defective or perhaps evolved to a higher intelligence.
    No one stated there were no exceptions to the general rule, and some women prefer Pee Wee Herman to Sean Connery in his prime, so what!

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    I'd love you know which university apparently got your degree in biology from there, westcoast.

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    I'd love you know which university apparently got your degree in biology from there, westcoast.
    I was waiting on you showing up. Like a kid staying up late to see the decent TV on after the watershed. I'll get some popcorn.
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    I was waiting on you showing up. Like a kid staying up late to see the decent TV on after the watershed. I'll get some popcorn.
    Eh, the Mister is out at a rave and I'm watching a House marathon. I'm feeling saucy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    Eh, the Mister is out at a rave and I'm watching a House marathon. I'm feeling saucy.
    Shit, get OUT OF MY LIFE AGAIN.

    Except my man's at a club, and it's a Mad Men marathon here. But still, Jesus.
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    its a long string baby

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    but very irrelevant, so why go there?

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    ^^ Because you're touting all this as fact like you're the Grand Pubah of Popular Science.

    Ps. I went over this with Marv. Either's mediocrity or it's the stage name. Pick one. Even my man doesn't call me baby.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    ^^ Because you're touting all this as fact like you're the Grand Pubah of Popular Science.

    Ps. I went over this with Marv. Either's mediocrity or it's the stage name. Pick one. Even my man doesn't call me baby.
    Even I'm smart enough to know that this thread is a no brainer.

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    House FTMFW. Between that, and all the LAW & Order's except CI, I need no other television programming, ever. And both are favorites for marathons.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigmarv View Post
    Even I'm smart enough to know that this thread is a no brainer.
    Interesting because it reads to me as blah blah blah.

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    No I prefer any man with money in his wallet. Actually... I prefer it in my hand rather than his wallet.
    Me too.
    I will tell guys all sorts of things when I'm working because that is my job.

    I am acting; plain and simple. If I think a customer wants to hear that I date married men, that's what I will say, because that's going to make him feel happy. When the customer feels happy he will spend more money. It's just good customer service and common sense.

    It's like any other job. I'm not there to give my opinion and talk about myself. I'm there to make the customer feel happy.
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