Don't ask. The only customers I have told have been in situations where I wanted to tell and I offered the info.
My stage name is jessica, when they ask my real name I say Jess and smile sweetly. In other words if I wanted u to know I would tell u.





Don't ask. The only customers I have told have been in situations where I wanted to tell and I offered the info.
My stage name is jessica, when they ask my real name I say Jess and smile sweetly. In other words if I wanted u to know I would tell u.
There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.
Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.




yeah and behind my big smile is me thinking 'damnit not this again...' until you're giving me money![]()
I will tell guys my real name, because it is very common. I don't like the question though, and I do not like being called my real name ITC, so there is no purpose in asking. I will tell them because it makes them feel like I trust them enough to share my real name. I've even had guys ask my last name, and that usually just gets them a shitty look and a obviously fake answer.





Reduced to its most simplistic, most dancers seem to prefer to keep work and their private lives very separate. Telling you their real name moves you a step over that boundary, so they're unlikely to tell you - although fake 'real names' are not exactly unknown.
Here in the UK, you only have to look at the names dancers work under for different agencies to see how common/disposable stage names are. One dancer is A____ for one agency N____ for another and Y_____ for the third. None of them bear any resemblance to her real name.
Phil.

Thanks ladies. I didn't want to make that mistake in person so I thought I'd ask it here. Thank you so much for the insight.





Asking what a dancer's real name is, is only masking the true question in a customer's mind, which is: "does she like me?". The only way to get the true question answered is by posting a "Does She Like Me?" thread in customer conversation soliciting the opinions of the experts here on Stripperweb. Sorry, but there is no other way.




Really winds me up
''Bexie eh....hmmmm....that's not your real name, is it?''
''Yeh, it is''
''No, its not''
''Ok, it's not''
''So what is your real name?''
''Sparkles.......''
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I love this question about as much as i love a customer asking ''How about I dance for YOU!?'' hehe
''I love fake boobs''
''They're not fake! I grew them myself!''





Ugh no. Please don't ask me my "real name". If I wanted people to have my real name I wouldn't have a stripper name.
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I have a stripper name ( Carmen ) as well as a fake real name ( Alicia ) , so that's what you'll get if you asked me. When I tell you my fake real name I also make such a big deal of it " Oh ........ I'm not supposed to tell you this ...... ect. " .![]()
^ I bet your real first name is Carmen. Carmen is a hot name and I bet it is you.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.





There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.
Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.




''I love fake boobs''
''They're not fake! I grew them myself!''
on the flip side..
i had a customer who gave me a fake name, that i called him for TWO YEARS. when i found out his real name i thought it was hilarious.
not so much when it's me being asked lol.
As quoted by Luckyone:
I asked directions from a genie in a bottle of jim beam and she lied to me.
Methodus saved my life!
V, if your real name isn't velvet that will totally blow my fantasy to smithereens
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.





A lot of girls in this town dance with their real names, I've never heard of it causing anyone a problem... the whole 'real name' thing is boring, if you ask me... why should I care unless I'm gonna write her a check? gee, I had a friend named rabbit who changed his name to seal... an old hippie from england... ok the guy was far from normal but should I resent the fact that I didn't know his 'real name'?
BTW, did you know that 'Lady Gaga' is not her real name?
also, that kid in the glasses is not a real sergeant...


stripper names are part of the persona dancers must adopt (well most dancers) the same with fake real names it is a way to keep their reality separate from their work
plus of course they are fun
I may not be a dancer but only my manager knows my actual name to all the other staff and the ICs I am Teleron, master of the beat, lord of the speakers and several other titles I make up periodically
I have been a regular of a girl for 2 month she has never ask me my name she is from russia. i am just wondering why?








I never ask their real name. I've been a regular of some girls for years before I find out their real name (or possibly fake real name, who knows). Often time it will come out as an aside. I'll ask is that your real name and they'll say "I thought I told you already?".
Other girls have introduced themselves with their real name (or fake real name first) and then give the stage name. Kind of name overload, I'd prefer they give one or the other.
Others only give me their real name. One girl introduced herself as Jennifer (name changed to protect the innocent). I made a comment that it didn't seem like a typical stage name but she didn't comment back.
This is a club I only got to on vacations. This was Mons Venus in Tampa and they'd call the girls up on stage in groups ("Hip Hop next song, Heavy Metal in 3"). They'd rattle off 6-8 names and I never picked up that when Jennifer was on stage they hadn't called Jennifer.
So one day I'm talking to another girl and she asks me if I have any other favorites there. I say Jennifer. "Don't know her, what's she look like and what is she wearing?" I give a description and she says that must be her real name, you're talking about Sapphire (again, a name change).










I never ask for real names or any personal details. For me it is the beginning of the end of what I go to the club for, which is pure fantasy. Invariably it paves the way for the subjects that I have zero interest in, such as her boyfriend, her bills, club politics, all that real life crap. After a while, it always comes out, sometimes one of her friends will ask me have you seen so and so yet? I will say who? They never believe that I didn't know the real name of the woman I have been getting dances from once or twice a week for 6 months.



If you're gonna ask, make sure you've at least bought her a few dancer drinks and a dance or two. Nothing annoys me more than a guy who only tips me $2 on stage, buys me a regular drink and nags me for my real name.
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