I think anyone with some common sense is going to realize that anything that a dancer says to you that is in anyway sexual and especially during a lap dance is just a stripper line.
But what about normal, chit-chat conversations during say, while waiting for a song to start or while the stripper is on break and isn't currently selling dances?
Are those conversations genuine conversations or is the "stripper mask" still firmly in place?
My best guess is that it's a mix of both. The girl isn't deviously planning every thing she says in order to entice you to buy more dances but at the same time, she also realizes that simply by spending time with a customer; it'll probably make it more likely he will seek her out.
I'm asking because when I was in Flashdancers last time, I was having dinner at the sushi bar. A dancer who was on break came by and sat down next to me and ordered some food. After a while, I turned to her and said "How's business going" to strike up a friendly conversation. We talked a little bit about what her job was like, the Pickup Artist show on VH1 and the tactics that were taught on there (which she absolutely hated), how women are better at reading body language and non-verbal commuications, etc. The conversation was completely non-sexual and at no time did she make any attempt sell me anything. Also, she wasn't talking in that really flirty and upbeat way that a lot of strippers do when they are on the floor. When she was done eating, she simply left.
Maybe I'm just over-thinking and being too cynical, but I couldn't help think about smart it would be to gain a customer and even a regular by acting completely different from all the other dancers that are hustling. Instead of pretending to be heads over heels for the guy and flirty like most other girls do, you instead just talk to him like any other stranger in a public venue which makes him think "Oh cool, she's not being pushy or selling anything".



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