
Originally Posted by
Everyman
Hasn't it been about a month?
Ok I'm not really asking the question. I'm a veteran both here and in the clubs and can analyze a situation as well as anyone else. *See my answer below.* But I would be interested in any reaction anyone has to the following scenario.
19 y/o new dancer (20+ years younger than me), I met her 2 weeks after she started, quickly became my fave and been seeing her 2x/week for about a month. First dance she did for me, she said "I'm new, tell me what to do", I did and she followed it step by step. Later she said she did it for another guy and he paid her double price. She was excited about that.
Our "dances" have gradually evolved into make-out sessions, that's what do mostly. The other day she gave me her number, said call her at midnight after she got off work. I did, but she was pretty stoned and the conversation was not very coherent and lasted only a few minutes.
Couple of days later she adds me to facebook (her personal site -- we know each other's real data), sends me a msg saying "sorry about the other night, call me anytime!"
Money facts: I don't give her extra PL money; even if I tip her extra for dances she says "you gave me 85 instead of 75...did you mean to?" Never lets me buy her a drink, says they're too expensive, she'll buy her own. Other day she had made a few hundred, turned a guy down for a dance, came and sat with me, told me about it and said "but you don't have to buy a dance to make up for it."
Has told me about her boyfriend, says she wants to break up with him, but also tells me all about and points out the bouncer she wants to fuck.
*My answer*: she does like me, in a personal sense, sees me as both a good potential regular and someone she can be friends with IRL -- and the making out, phone calls, personal contact, are intended to maintain both. But, extremely unlikely she actually likes me "romantically," you generally don't tell someone like that about others you want to fuck, plus our age/life difference is just too great for me to think there is anything romantic going on here.
Any better analysis?
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