



those should be the commandments posted right when you walk in![]()
"The point is, ladies and gentlemen, that greed, for lack of a better word, is good. Greed is right. Greed works" -GORDON GECCO





I've met or seen only about thirty strippers I would want to date. I don't see why guys "want to date a stripper". In reality they are no hotter than girls everywhere. People forget that a major part of stripper clientele are guys over forty who are happy with less and generally don't get to see naked young women any other way.










Without my prompting, she would often say she was the stereotypical stripper and would list off things in the original post and a few others that are not there. The other things I noted by hanging out with her.
Strangely enough, in my last contact with her she was totally against exotic dance, but largely because of the extras situation. In other ways she had the same M.O.
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Blonde jokes are two lines long so that men can understand them.
In a way I agree with you. In terms of looks you will often find girls of equal or better beauty. But in terms of being able to turn guys on, I rarely find this outside. These traits are sometimes natural, but also sometimes learned within the community.
My ATF once levelled me with desire just by looking at me from across the room, I spilled my beer sitting at the bar.OK I just wanted to use this icon.
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Blonde jokes are two lines long so that men can understand them.









^getting to actually hook up with a 22 year old stripper is a different story.





I'd actually have to agree with this, based purely on physical attributes. I think strippers' confidence can make them seem hotter...but I think the vast majority of strippers are normal-looking women (with beautiful bodies, of course...but this isn't difficult to attain when you're young) who have on great makeup and sexy outfits.
I think a man's brain shifts gears when he see's a stripper he "knows" outside the club whether an accidental bump into at Walmart or a planned OTC. I've run into a couple of strippers unexpectedly and they still looked attractive to me even in casual civilian garb and make up. A planned OTC I would expect would motivate the stripper to dress it up a bit. Not sure that she would be less attractive if she didn't.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.





Yeah, this is pretty much the case unless you are in the top notch clubs in big cities, and even a lot of them are not nearly as strict in their hiring standards as they used to be.
Except not all strippers have beautiful bodies, from what I have seen, young or not. It's weird, some of them actually will gain weight instead of losing it, like most do from dancing.
It's amazing the transformation that occurs when some of these women come back out the dressing room door. Some of the hottest dancers I have ever worked with are just ordinary women who have physical grace, confidence, and an eye for visual embellishment.
I thought the OP quote was funny, if seriously prone to stereotyping and basically just a big joke. But I have actually known a lot of Cinammon's, they are out there.
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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No, I've scratched that itch and the reality shattered my fantasy about that. It has always ended badly for me. Regular relationships are tough enough and this added dynamic presents too many issues for me to want to deal with.





I think some of a dancers confidence goes on with her costume in the dressing room.
(a) In a SC, they're fairly automatically an object of desire. So many of the men they go up to are going to give an ego flattering response to their presence. (I'm not discounting the assh*les they'll also meet).
(b) Dancers can behave in a way different to their real life personality and know the consequences of that behavior stay ITC when they leave.
(c) If a dancer doesn't develop a degree of self-confidence when working, she won't stay that long in the business.
So I think we have to distinguish between ITC and OTC confidence.
Phil.








For me physical grace is half of what makes a girl attractive. I tend to think that there is no such thing as a congenitally ugly girl. I think clothes make a difference too. Many girls I have seen - in SCs and elsewhere - look better naked than clothed, either because their clothes hide their attributes or the clothes they choose don't compliment their features, complexion etc. This applies to stripper costumes too - some strippers I have completely changed my mind about after they strip on stage.
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