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    AGAIN. Im so effin frustrated. If it aint one thing its another. I dont have to pay rent, thank God. I do, however have to pay daycare for both of my girls, my truck note, my insurance, 3 student loans.... all off Victrias Secret lil paycheck. Im looking for another full time job now. But until then..... I have until tomorrow morning to give 455.00 for my truck or they gonna come get it. Im so fed up. I got a man and have resorted to fuckin my old customer for cash for some of my bills and still cant even get my fuckin truck paid. What the hell is wrong with that picture? Aint like I go out and buy myself anything...Ive been wearin the same raggedy ass shoes nd clothes for months. Yeah, I just paid for the hotel for my Miami trip, but that was out of my ex's account which is to be deducted from the income tax money that he WAS SUPPOSED TO SEND ME A MONTH AGO!!!! Since I couldnt use his debit card to pay my truck, and that was all I had access to, I used it for the hotel and expected my cash to be here days ago. Now he keeps makin fuckin excuses why he cant send me MY $3500.00 talkin about he cant do a wire transfer from the ship(he can) he doesnt know his account number(he does) he doesnt have the number to the bank (i sent it to him) Im one step away from calling his command. But until all this happens, I still have to worry about making 455 dollars tonight to give these people tomorrow. I really wanna shoot myself.Shoulda stayed in the damn club. Fuck this real job ish....
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    hide the truck and go dance or wait for the money if you really feel like you are going to get it.
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    If you decide to drive your truck somewhere to get a little more time to pay, don't drive to any relative's houses or anywhere you've worked. Just go out of town with it a ways if possible. Best of all in a garage door closed, an out of town friend.

    It means a lot of money to these repomen to get your truck. So they are very, very good at finding them. They post lookout bulletins all over, track you down through people you know, they have all kinds of ways of getting information. I talked to a guy once who showed me all these huge books they sell to private investigators, etc., with unlisted names, numbers, and addresses. All the repomen are on the lookout for your truck, if you park it on a random street in your town or area they could still find it. Of course it's better than in front of your house lol.

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    I hid it in my garage last night. LOL
    I am going to pay it now.... Got the money. Phew!Clear until next month and we do it again! LOL..... Story of my life!

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    I hope next month works out better for you. Be sure to call his command about the money issue. I used to give my ex time to get things straight, but it was all just a waste of time. Not until I called the higher ups did things get rolling. Call them and tell them you expect to get your money soon- the squeaky wheel gets the grease.

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    What should be happening is that the Navy should be depositing the BAH and BAS directly into you account and not his. The child support can also be gained directly from his paycheck via garnishment and deposited into your account. Go talk to Navy JAG and finance.

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    Yea, we are not legally divorced yet, IDK why we put it off so long, we havent been together in YEARS! but whenever he sends the tax money, I agreed to go file for the divorce. So anyways, he is still claiming us and getting BAH or whatever for his place in VA. I dont really care, as long as I dont have to sweat AT ALL about daycare being covered, Im good. I can handle the rest. He sends 660 a month and day care total is 652. Leaves me just 8 dollars but Oh well....daycare is HIGH!

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    Wow! 660 a month does not seem like enough to me. How many kids do you share? Doesn't he have to pay you money too because you take care of them full time?

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    Its not enough. I just have never been a greedy person and daycare is all I need covered. I guess if we go thru a judge, he'd be paying a lot more. He probably should be giving me A LOT more but Oh well.
    We share 2 kids.

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    Xiomara,

    I feel for you but don't think that getting some form of spousal support in addition to child support is greed. You are the mother and you are the primary caretaker of your child.

    Maybe you are familiar with the adage that a 'woman's work in the home'(and stay-at-home dads,too!) is one of the most labor intensive, unpaid 'jobs' in the world.

    I understand your desire to be as independent as possible but you both brought life into this world together and you bear the brunt of the day-to-day responsibility of actual hands-on child rearing.

    I wish you only the best! Glad you got your car stuff taken care of.
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