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    You're the kind of guy I stay clear of. No principles, no ethics, going nowhere fast. Obviosly you have problems if you came to a stripper site for advice. Were all different types of women who have one thing in common in that we dance and entertain men for money. Obviosly some women might be attracted to you but if they give it up right away they have as many problems as you do. I could find a guy any night in the club to take to bed but I have more security in myself and do not lower my standards just for the sake of it. I had an ex-boyfriend like you once, whereever he went he fealt he could pick up babes. Will I dropped him after a month and guess what he get's laid but he can't sustain a relationship. Must be pretty lonely to be a stud.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WestCoast101 View Post
    Ok, now the claims are getting a bit more reasonable, but if you are going to say none of that was pay-for-play in some form, I have hard time believing it, or least here and there throwing large dollars around in their general viciinity.
    Believe what you will. I NEVER pay for ANYTHING. I don't buy drinks, I don't pay for lap dances or meals or dates. In fact, I don't date. I invite a woman to hang out with me. I don't think I should have to pay for a woman's company if she's a dancer or not. I've told many dancers if they want to make money they should talk to someone else. But, if they want to have some fun feel free to hang around.

    Some women are whores (pay for play) but most aren't and just want to have fun with a fun man. I'm a fun man.

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    Announcing you got laid on the internet is truly the mark of coolness.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mayajaya View Post
    You're the kind of guy I stay clear of. No principles, no ethics, going nowhere fast. Obviosly you have problems if you came to a stripper site for advice. Were all different types of women who have one thing in common in that we dance and entertain men for money. Obviosly some women might be attracted to you but if they give it up right away they have as many problems as you do. I could find a guy any night in the club to take to bed but I have more security in myself and do not lower my standards just for the sake of it. I had an ex-boyfriend like you once, whereever he went he fealt he could pick up babes. Will I dropped him after a month and guess what he get's laid but he can't sustain a relationship. Must be pretty lonely to be a stud.
    I didn't come here for advice. I asked a question. Problems? Sure. None of us are perfect. In fact, it's our imperfections that make us unique. Perfect is dull.

    Why do you think a woman that gives into her desires has issues? Maybe she just likes sex? I like sex. And I like women that like sex. No problem.

    If a woman wants sex why should she hold back? Is it some kind of power play, head game? Is sex all she has to offer and therefore shouldn't give it up too early in the game because he won't respect her? Maybe she should have more to offer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scoundrel View Post
    I also go to college bars and get BJs in the men's room.... Maybe I'm just more fun than other guys. I don't know. I do jack with them a lot.
    Dude...you get BJ's in the men's room and jack with them a lot?

    Not that there's anything wrong with that.

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    It must be Sunday...they always show up on Sunday....
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    Quote Originally Posted by mayajaya View Post
    Obviosly you have problems if you came to a stripper site for advice..
    I see where you are coming from, but he didn't come here for advice. He came here to tell us about his successful employment of the PUA techniques. Possibly it has even worked for him in real life, I have worked with dancers who fell for that shit from some of those types of guys. But I doubt it.
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    I came here to find out if I am some type of man that exotic dancers like. Judging by the replies, I'm not. I know what PUA is. But, I can tell you I was getting laid Long before Mystery started posting in the seduction forums. I'm what those guys call a "natural." If I have anything in common with any of them it's purely coincidental. I've been at it much longer.

    When I go out, I go out to have a good time. I talk to people and they respond. Maybe I'm a little louder or wilder or whatever. But, many women, including more than a few exotic dancers like me. This isn't bragging, it's simply stating the facts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scoundrel View Post
    Believe what you will. I NEVER pay for ANYTHING. I don't buy drinks, I don't pay for lap dances or meals or dates. In fact, I don't date. I invite a woman to hang out with me. I don't think I should have to pay for a woman's company if she's a dancer or not. I've told many dancers if they want to make money they should talk to someone else. But, if they want to have some fun feel free to hang around.

    Some women are whores (pay for play) but most aren't and just want to have fun with a fun man. I'm a fun man.
    focusing on your substantive question from someone knowing a very large number of strippers over the years,.strippers like different types, they are hard to categorize except there's at least a quarter-truth to the stereotypical X-boy playing unemployed pot smoking BF hanging back at the their shackout pad while they work, especially witth younger. less educated strippers.

    as for a broke ass (or cheap ass) guy in his late 40's no matter how much he may have perfected being the asshole type , its not a formuala to be the 'right type" for most strippers, unless you are putting out some Sean Connery vibe thing, in which case (unless you are married) you wouldn't be bothering hanging out a strip joints in the first place.

    you must go to some real sleazy clubs.

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    ^^I generally don't concern myself too much with whether or not people are telling the truth here and your posts are no exception.

    But really, why do you think we care?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Scoundrel View Post
    I came here to find out if I am some type of man that exotic dancers like...

    But, many women, including more than a few exotic dancers like me. This isn't bragging, it's simply stating the facts.
    It's also contradictory. Why would you come here to find out what you already know? I think I know the answer to that question, though.

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    keep in mind SW is not always exactly a representative cross section of strippers in america or other major industrialized countries, because dancers in here are probably much more self reflective. often even writing in a post-grad style, and there seems to be a near absence of USA based (ESL type) foreign dancers.

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    1. you ARE bragging (if your story is even true)
    2. if you don't spend money in the club you are absolutely NOT my, nor any other dancer with at least SOME common sense's "type".

    and as far as finding out if you are the type of guy "exotic dancers like"........ that, like so many other posts made by customers on here, assumes that "exotic dancers" are a different species of person and we're all exactly the same.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WestCoast101 View Post
    keep in mind SW is not always exactly a representative cross section of strippers in america or other major industrialized countries, because dancers in here are probably much more self reflective. often even writing in a post-grad style, and there seems to be a near absence of USA based (ESL type) foreign dancers.

    ^I don't give a rats ass if SW represents "strippers as a whole". I've worked in quite a few clubs for quite a few years and I can tell you without a doubt, that the chance of any girl I have ever worked with going out into the parking lot and fucking a guy who spent no money on her ITC and has no plans on spending money on her OTC is sooooooooooo small you'd need a microscope to see it.

    I mean, I'm not saying girls don't fuck customers (obviously) and I'm not saying it's NEVER happened "for free".... but come on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WestCoast101 View Post
    keep in mind SW is not always exactly a representative cross section of strippers in america or other major industrialized countries, because dancers in here are probably much more self reflective. often even writing in a post-grad style, and there seems to be a near absence of USA based (ESL type) foreign dancers.
    So your implication is what?
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    Quote Originally Posted by WestCoast101 View Post
    focusing on your substantive question from someone knowing a very large number of strippers over the years,.strippers like different types, they are hard to categorize except there's at least a quarter-truth to the stereotypical X-boy playing unemployed pot smoking BF hanging back at the their shackout pad while they work, especially witth younger. less educated strippers.

    as for a broke ass (or cheap ass) guy in his late 40's no matter how much he may have perfected being the asshole type , its not a formuala to be the 'right type" for most strippers, unless you are putting out some Sean Connery vibe thing, in which case (unless you are married) you wouldn't be bothering hanging out a strip joints in the first place.

    you must go to some real sleazy clubs.
    People here make a lot of assumptions.

    I use the term asshole only because it's how so an men refer to me when the women like me and not them. They use it as sour grapes. I use it as a joke.

    I am not married. I used to be, but not for a very long time now. I'm also the father of an 18 year old son that will be starting college in the Fall.

    I'm not broke. But, I'm far from wealthy. I make enough to cover my needs and have some fun when I'm off work.

    I like dating strippers because they usually aren't too demanding of my time. My time is important to me.

    I am in my late 40s. But, I still meet, attract and have sex with women in their 20s, some of them exotic dancers. But, for whatever reason women close to my age don't like me. I don't choose who likes me. I just go with it.

    As for the "sleazy" bars, I have gone to places like the mens club of Dallas. Though not anymore because I've moved West. This was the first high end cabaret in the nation and is still one of the best.

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    Petty Penny, I too at least think the guy is exaggerating a bit or maybe even a massive amount, but i still cannot figure out why( if its fiction) he's claiming this in the context of being 48 y/o -which in many strippers eyes is tantamount to old age, no matter who the hell the guy is, how good looking one might be, or and what he otherwise offers - all of that making it even harder to believe.

    The net effect to me would seem to be slight boost in credibility in that regard at least.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scoundrel View Post
    People here make a lot of assumptions.

    I use the term asshole only because it's how so an men refer to me when the women like me and not them. They use it as sour grapes. I use it as a joke.

    I am not married. I used to be, but not for a very long time now. I'm also the father of an 18 year old son that will be starting college in the Fall.

    I'm not broke. But, I'm far from wealthy. I make enough to cover my needs and have some fun when I'm off work.

    I like dating strippers because they usually aren't too demanding of my time. My time is important to me.

    I am in my late 40s. But, I still meet, attract and have sex with women in their 20s, some of them exotic dancers. But, for whatever reason women close to my age don't like me. I don't choose who likes me. I just go with it.

    As for the "sleazy" bars, I have gone to places like the mens club of Dallas. Though not anymore because I've moved West. This was the first high end cabaret in the nation and is still one of the best.
    Correct the "asshole" term is a short cut term many times, agree.

    OK, you just boosted your crediibility a bit, it still seems to have some holes in it, for example college bars i don't know, not for 20 yrs at least, maybe they've gotten crazier. As for doing it in the parking lot with dancers, you're talking real sluts if thats a true account

    FYI I'm not exactly the most diffcult person( on the customer side in here) to convince, as for years now I've been aware that putting out at least the tinge of a nonmonogamous vibe with women, for whatever reason, seems to often kick things up. I have pobably 100 posts in here explaining why i believe this occurs, none very popular, so I do have some sympathy with what your saying at least.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post
    It's also contradictory. Why would you come here to find out what you already know? I think I know the answer to that question, though.

    I was asking if dancers prefer a certain type of man. I didn't know this. I know of some dancers that keep a man around simply to do the heavy lifting. I'm NOT that type, but I have dated a few that were cheating on that type.

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    I think I am the right type. Chronologically around 70 and suffering with ED but having a very large estate.

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    I am actually quite impressed with SW members right now. Despite the OP, we've kept this thread relatively civil and light.

    Congratulations everybody!!! (I'm not being sarcastic)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scoundrel View Post
    I was asking if dancers prefer a certain type of man.
    My type of man is often tattooed/pierced, thin, at least somewhat femme looking, and often into creating music/art.

    I am an exotic dancer.

    Therefor, this must be true for all exotic dancers, which makes you SOL buddy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scoundrel View Post
    I came here to find out if I am some type of man that exotic dancers like.
    If your bullshit claims were anywhere near being true you'd already have the answer.

    And as I said before, Whores are attracted to Man-Whores. This ain't the 1960s and

    Two years of fucking drunken strangers = How many STDs?

    You claim you "NEVER PAID FOR ANYTHING." What? They let you valet for free? They let you enter the club for free? Oh, yeah, you've got that blow job thing going on in the men's room.

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    geez Yoda, this is not a typical group in here. LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by WestCoast101 View Post
    Correct the "asshole" term is a short cut term many times, agree.

    OK, you just boosted your crediibility a bit, it still seems to have some holes in it, for example college bars i don't know, not for 20 yrs at least, maybe they've gotten crazier. As for doing it in the parking lot with dancers, you're talking real sluts if thats a true account

    FYI I'm not exactly the most diffcult person( on the customer side in here) to convince, as for years now I've been aware that putting out at least the tinge of a nonmonogamous vibe with women, for whatever reason, seems to often kick things up. I have pobably 100 posts in here explaining why i believe this occurs, none very popular, so I do have some sympathy with what your saying at least.
    I use the term slut differently than most. I don't think a woman is a slut because she has sex too soon or to often or with too many. I think a slut is someone that has sex for the wrong reasons or with someone they don't really want to do it with. An example might be having sex for validation or to join some group.

    If you think any woman that has sex in a parking lot with a man she met only a few hours ago is a slut simply because she did that, then we differ in our opinions.

    What you refer to about women liking men that other women like is true. If you really want to understand it you might read "The Red Queen, Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature" by Matt Ridley. It's a very good book.

    As for college bars, I don't know what to say. Maybe going to college is like going on vacation for a lot of young women. They can go wild and mom and dad will never find out. I don't know how old you are, but I've been sleeping with college girls for about 20 years and I don't things have changed much at all.

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