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    Angry How to resolve the things that bother me!

    Hey ladies, I'm new here but not so new to dancing.

    I dance in a club that is in a predominately mexican area, so of course we have the large handfuls of them come in. In our county topless dancing is prohibited unless in VIP or champagne. When I try to get a VIP out of one of them (we have table dances on the floor for 10$ but no grinding, VIP is 25$ and tops can come off blahblah) I find that they get really excited to go in the back, then when they find out they can't touch "down there" they immediately walk out and want nothing to do with VIP. So they just start babbling on as I'm sitting on their lap and won't let me get off the them to go make money. Usually they think that just because they paid cover they can sit down at the stage and get a free show from the girls. I'm in <b>no way</b> racist but these guys bother me so much. You understand what I mean?

    What do you ladies do about the guys who sit on the stage for a free show? And the ones who try and touch and won't have anything to do with you after they find out that you won't let them touch anything the thong doesn't show?

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    Default Re: How to resolve the things that bother me!

    The crowd at my home club has always been diverse. But ever since half a year ago, there has been a very big influx of Mexicans every weekends. When I look around on some nights, the whole place is nothing much but Mexicans. I'm not racist at all too. But I do know what you mean, they tend to just come in to watch the free show on stage. My club is nude on stage. They are just very hard sells, because they demand so much for their money. Okay, im done venting with them..hahhah.

    BUT what i do now, is just laugh it off. Because I think its so funny they so greedy with their money. I understand they work hard for their money and all that, but we're here too work too! Just laugh at them, and move on.. and not let anyone affect ur mood, which in turn, could decrease ur chances of making more money..

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    Default Re: How to resolve the things that bother me!

    You know, we get this from customers of all nationalities. It's not a matter of where they're from so much as a matter of how entitled they feel to get whatever they want despite the law.

    With guys like this, I find it's good to just do a short sales pitch, not sit on their lap, not let the, touch anything besides my hand while I'm talking to them (no arm around my waist or touching my arm/knee) and get the money up front so they can't bitch about the rules after halfway through the dance and try to leave.

    However, my club kicks people out if they proposition a girl more than once if it's brought to their attention, and they have our backs if someone is bitching about us following the fucking law.

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