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    I'll keep this quick. When I lightly message my wife's g-spot with my finger, she can not take more than 30 seconds of it and makes me stop. She complains of having the urge to pee. I try to reassure her that this is normal and it will pass, but she gets all sqeamish and makes me stop. I just want to please her, but need some help. What is this? Is she close to something mind blowing? Any thoughts would be appreciated. I just want to help her out without being too over bearing.

    Thanks again.

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    She's close to ejaculation, which can be mind blowing, or completely boring.

    However, while she doesn't want to, it won't happen. There's literally nothing you can do to make her enjoy the sensation until she wants to.
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    Is there anything I can do to reassure her? Anything I can say? Any info as to what this is? A little knowledge would be helpful to put her at ease.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SmittyLax6 View Post
    Is there anything I can do to reassure her? Anything I can say? Any info as to what this is? A little knowledge would be helpful to put her at ease.
    This is female ejaculation. It involve's the Skene's gland. It's not urine. However, if she's uncomfortable with ejaculation, that won't be something you can really change.
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    Damn. I was hoping that I could try to get her to relax and maybe she would enjoy
    it and not get sqeamish.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SmittyLax6 View Post
    Damn. I was hoping that I could try to get her to relax and maybe she would enjoy
    it and not get sqeamish.
    Oh, you can try no problem - it's just that if she has a personal aversion to it, you'll fail. Some women just do not like the concept of doing it, and some women don't find it pleasurable when it does happen. I'd spend more time doing things you know she likes, than trying to get her to like things you know she currently doesn't.
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    Important point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sxcbbw View Post
    This is female ejaculation. It involve's the Skene's gland. It's not urine. However, if she's uncomfortable with ejaculation, that won't be something you can really change.
    Can u tell me more about this? So it does exist?

    I don't know where my g-spot even is. I cum from my clitoris being stimulated.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Can u tell me more about this? So it does exist?

    I don't know where my g-spot even is. I cum from my clitoris being stimulated.
    The G-spot thing is up for debate - the Skene's gland, however, isn't. Teeny little opening near your urethra. You have to look for it to see it - though I've been told by a few people that it doesn't exist in all women. Grain of salt. That's what produces female ejaculate - the tissue is homologous to the male prostate.

    Now, if every woman has a g-spot, it's a couple of inches up, on the top wall of your vagina. Try to poke your bellybutton from the inside, you should be pointing the right way. But be super aroused when you're looking, or the tissue won't be swollen.

    I for one am just waiting for Mediocrity to turn up.
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    Im not sure if this is for me but, if shes on her back I can find if by rubbing my middle finger on the roof either come here or windshield wiper style. Pretty quickly a little nubby appears. I think that is it. Ladies help. It not my own equipment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SmittyLax6 View Post
    Im not sure if this is for me but, if shes on her back I can find if by rubbing my middle finger on the roof either come here or windshield wiper style. Pretty quickly a little nubby appears. I think that is it. Ladies help. It not my own equipment.
    Yeah, that's a g-spot.

    Men are capable of mind-blowing orgasms from prostate stimulation. Should your wife buy a huge strap-on or is just plain ol' penile stimulation doing it for you? Same with the g-spot. It's possible she could have a mind blowing orgasm, but it seems she's uncomfortable with the stimulation.
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    I would totally let do that because I trust her implicitly, but i dont think she would be into that.

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    I was giving head once and playing with his balls at the same time and when he came he was really vocal and afterwards said that i put pressure somewhere on the balls and it intensified his orgasm. Would I have been touching the prostate?
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    Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.

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    I don't know what I touched then.....it was that spot between his balls and asshole.
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    That's called the perineum - not a special magical glitter frosted gland, but it feels good.
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    Default Re: Ladies Please Help....G-spot

    I also hate the pressure of my g-spot being stimulated. It is horrible. I have tried many a time with hubby but couldn't do it. I do think I did have one one time from actually penetration. That was phenomenal. I didn't feel the same pressure because it wasn't like a finger pushing right on it which is way to intense.

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    Less intense. Interesting. Perhaps a lighter touch.

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    You could also try touching it with something other than your finger! I find I can't take direct clitoral stimulation - it always needs to be indirect, ie. rubbing against the shaft, as opposed to a digit. Try g-spot stimulation intercourse positions. But again, it's strictly something for her - and if she doesn't like g-spot stimulation at all, there's no point pushing it.
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    I won't push it. What position would be good for indirect stim?

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    Missionary with her ankles on your shoulders, lazy doggy, girl on top - these work for me.
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    Thank you all. Are there any other suggestions? Any other insight would be so appreciated.

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    Make sure she is very aroused first. I dont like being touched down there unless Im already really turned on which means kissing my neck and back lightly just for a few seconds.. Thats just me.

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    Having my nipples sucked and licked makes me crazy wet!!
    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
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    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    For me (and when I am with women) the trick is to move overtop of it very fast.. using your middle finger and ring finger together is often the easiest... so the pressure is spread out along your fingers and not too intense. This has worked for me with my very very sensitive girlfriend and her head pretty much exploded.

    Though, I also had my other arm wrapped around her upper thigh both to hold her down and stimulate her clit at the same time.

    And warm up to that.. spend at least 10 minutes doing other things.. long, slow licks, tongue circles, finger penetration..

    dammit now i'm horny. Any girls want a demonstration?

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