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    Default Re: Hi everyone - Quick question about self-esteem

    I would certainly suggest going to a strip club in your area-- or more than one! Buy a dance, watch the stage show, look at how things seem to be going. There are things that go into dancing that aren't just dancing-- how much contact will you be comfortable with? Do you want to dance nude or topless? Do you want a club that serves alcohol or not? Check it out, its fun!

    As far as the auditioning process, theres a sticky in this section that covers most of it. Call and find out how their process goes. Go in, talk to a manager, do a little audition. It's scary but you'll be fine.

    Your body is absolutely great to dance. You're thin and have perky boobs. Size doesn't matter, in fact, out of the girls in my club, only a few have fake ones. Guys love all shapes and sizes. Having a big butt is a good thing! From what I can tell you look toned and confident! Go for it!

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    It depends on the club. Definitely go in and buy a dance in all the clubs you're thinking of working at.
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    Default Re: Hi everyone - Quick question about self-esteem

    Quote Originally Posted by zippy092 View Post
    Hi everyone -just joined!
    I've read the newbie posts - thanks so much for the safety tips and other info. I am 18 almost 19 and thinking of becoming a stripper/dancer. Is this age OK?
    I am learning pole moves and think its sexy to dance. I am going to go to a few clubs (I NEVER been inside one - should I phyically go in or call? who do I talk to? What do I say? - How do they usually hire)
    I read a few of the experiences and am bit nervous about the girls and custies

    And lastly I would like it if you girls could tell me what you think of my body? I have low self esteem about my shape since my boobies are small, my bum is big and im short gah, would it fit in the club?
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    Thanks! I respect what you girls do and hope I get to "understand" the ways of the club soon
    I get SOO upset hearing the huge numbers of girls thinking that they don't look great - when they do!

    Honestly - you look lovely! Your bum's not too big - and you've got pretty curves. OK, you may not have massive boobies (unlike me - I'm 38DD!!) - but they are nice and 'pert'. There's nothing wrong with being short either (I'm only 5'5") - heels will help that anyhow.

    So all in all - you've got plenty going for you.

    I agree with the other girls about taking a look at the clubs first - 'forewarned is forearmed' as the saying goes.
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    Default Re: Hi everyone - Quick question about self-esteem

    confidence is everything..it really shows thru in your dance. go for it..

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    Default Re: Hi everyone - Quick question about self-esteem

    well considering in this post and in the other post that you linked to photos of yourself in what appears to be a softcore porn site, im assuming you arent really too worried.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: Hi everyone - Quick question about self-esteem

    Call the club and ask what the age requirement is to work there as a dancer. The club I started in the customers had to be 21+ but the dancers had to be 18+, so I started before I could drink. I think that is a good thing because some dancers who start older also develop a habit of drinking when they work, but when you start younger you are less likely to do that because you don't get into the mindset of thinking you "need it to do the job".
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    Default Re: Hi everyone - Quick question about self-esteem

    It's really amazing how much what you think of yourself projects onto your outer self. Lemme explain. You can be Megan Fox, but if you think you're ugly, people won't find you attractive. On the other hand, you can be Big Bertha, and if you think "Hot damn, I am goodlooking!" people will pick up on that and find you attractive. People, essentially, are lazy and think about you only what you tell them to, but subconsciously.

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