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    Default Re: I was so Scared to go inside! How do I over come this?

    I am guessing, from your threads, that this is really not the road you should be going down.
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    Default Re: I was so Scared to go inside! How do I over come this?

    Quote Originally Posted by zippy092 View Post
    I never been in a club before! So I was driving past one that I wanted to apply. I know they are hiring. It just looks weird and they have an asian sign on thier building - even though Im aware that white, black girls work there most are asian. Should be vary of this?

    So I drove by it and kept looking at it, see people go in and ugh - men, old, bolding men. I dont know if I can do it. I didnt even get out of the car.

    Oh plus, with this club its 10$ for a LD - and their only in booths, Girls dont hustle. So girls walk around, and pole, smile, maybe a "hi" and thats it but the management doesnt want girls talking to custies only in LD. A "booker" goes around to ask the custy which girl he wants, by pictures or by seeing her walk around. Is the better you think?

    And.. How should I overcome by being around the men? I never really talk to older men, and I probaby wont know what to say, not that im shy, but feel weird, gross and blank! What do you do?
    I know that club. It's the Fairbanks hotel.

    Never worked there, but very familiar with it. BTW for those reading this post I live in the same city as the OP. I am Asian(korean) and white (european) mixed so I might be a bombshell if I ever work there, or who knows I might be a dud...

    I have a traditional Korean face (slanty eyes), but my boobs are a D cup. However being 5'7 and 135 pounds I am on the taller/bigger side for an asian. Thus hard to tell wither I would do well there or not.

    From what I know it is mostly Asian immigrants that work there. The booker does pay you, however you only get like 50% or some shit like that. Plus from what I remember there is also a house fee to work there. Based on that information I am not sure it is really worth it. But who knows it may just be very busy!

    I went and checked out a new club today as well. Hotel Royal in Whitby. I did not dance, rather just went in to talk with the DJ about freelancing there. He gave me the low down;

    $50 house fee- Monday-Saturday, but if you do two stages shows each day that you work you get that $50 back.

    They don't take % of dances, which IMO is good because if I am paying a house fee I certainly ain't digging the club taking a % of my dances.

    $10 for table dances and $20 for minimal contact dances. Not bad IMO.

    I am still sitting on wither I want to try Hotel Royal out or not. The thing is it is so close to my home.



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    Default Re: I was so Scared to go inside! How do I over come this?

    The setup at this joint sounds weird, but it might not be bad. Having somebody to book dances for you might relieve some of the pressure to sell. On the other hand, if someone else sells for you, you could be expected to do things that you didn't agree to.

    That said, it doesn't sound like you're prepared to be a stripper. You're already grossed out by the men, and that is something will definitely get worse, not better.

    You should try to get a job as a cocktail waitress at a strip club. The money is good, and it will give you a chance to see the club from the inside. Also, if you wanted to dance later, you would already know some dancers who may be willing to help you figure things out.

    Also, there's no reason to be afraid of asian girls.
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    Found this post from a thread on dancing in canada, in regards to fairbanks:

    Quote Originally Posted by justifymylove View Post
    Fairbanks is a little different than most Toronto clubs. It is not a great club for a freelancer. oh.maya.gosh already mentioned that you don't hustle for dances, that is the first thing. The second is that guys can get $10 lapdances, or a half-hour session in the VIP for $80. The dancers do not keep all that money, is my understanding (although I could be wrong on this.) And the lower price does not mean no contact, unfortunately. Overall, I would not recommend it, especially for someone travelling through.
    You do need a license to dance in Toronto.

    I would highly suggest either going out to mississauga or coming east to Whitby. Mississauga does have the airport (so lots of US $ there) and does not require a license. You just show up with ID. However that said, Mississauga is well known to be VERY high contact and lots of girls offering extras. I have a good friend that is a dancer who regularly works those clubs out there. She does offer extras and does things dirty, and blatantly admits to it.

    However in the east part of the GTA it is the complete opposite. There is not much US $ out here, no airport or other business type customers. It is more blue collar. From what I know and have seen at Hotel Royal in Whitby it is very low contact and any girl offering extras is not welcome back (was told this by the DJ). Again I have only been to the club once and have not danced there yet. Also I do know that Durham region has been trying for years to get strip clubs shut down (and everyone of them except the Hotel Royal has been closed by Durham), so the club owner is VERY strict about girls not offering extras.

    In Peterborough its the same situation. The city wants the club closed down, thus the "no extras" rule is strictly enforced. Even though I live in Oshawa I drive out there to dance because I feel it is a very easy going club and the customers are not grabby for the most part.



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    Quote Originally Posted by zippy092 View Post
    Yeah I heard that about Mississauga too - I was thinking of seeing their airport strip or whisky's go-go. The others seem to have bad reviews and I dont want to end up in a dirty club. I knew a stripper who was 35 from there and boy she did everything and took a few back home even! As for other locations.. they seem way off the chart for me.
    I would think Airport strip is good. I hear Whisky's has a lot of girls that do extras. My friend who works out there is young (23), tall and VERY fit, yet she seems to think it is cool to give bjs to randoms guys. Yes she even brags about it.



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    Jenni - I'm moving to the Toronto area soon, so your posts are all very helpful to me! Thanks to you and the OP!!!



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    This clubs sounds fucking shady. I wouldn't work anywhere that I couldn't hustle for myself. I'd bet you anything this booker guy gets tipped out by certain girls to "sell them" harder than other girls. FUCK NO.

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    If you aren't comfortable being a customer, this may not be the right fit for you.
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    Default Re: I was so Scared to go inside! How do I over come this?

    Have you even tried going in as a customer? Maybe with some male friends?
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