men only like blonde hair, petites, big boobs, and Asians.. and if anyone tells you different, they are lying through their teeth.f*ing pedophiles.
men only like blonde hair, petites, big boobs, and Asians.. and if anyone tells you different, they are lying through their teeth.f*ing pedophiles.





I averaged 450 a night when i worked in Cleveland, Ohio with black hair, a B cup, and not being super petite.
Though i do make more money as a blonde. If you are pissed off and feel like your dark hair is hurting your money, then go blonde. Hair color is changeable. Or maybe try a wig for a night.
You are gonna find you are still going to need sales skills. Sorry, thats just how Ohio works!
The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.





Well if that were true I wouldn't make jack shit. You may want to ask my $500 shift last night about your theory.
poop. i don't understand why when i wear a blonde shitty looking wig i make 4 times as much as when i'm brunette, (my natural color) i'm tired of being told "you look better with your natural blonde, brown doesnt suit you." (WHAT????) but the owner and the fellow dancers say brunette's the way to go, but the customers say otherwise.....i spend all night with a custy in my blonde wig..he's in love with me ("You're the hottest chick in here, blah blah blah") i take off the wig and come out in my natural brown and try to hold a conversation, won't even look at me or give me the time of day.....(i do this experiment a lot, out of curiosity) i wore a padded bra to see if it helped my money, it did. took off the bra, its like "I'm waiting for someone." or "your boobs look small compared to your hips. you PAYED for a boob job?" i'm so tired of the B.S. yeah, it comes with the territory, but, goddamn.
i want to put my nappy blonde wig on and make it worth the money to even come in, cuz right now, it's been costing me more to get there that what i make. it is columbus after all....





well if you really do make 4x as much with the blonde wig, then just wear it girl!
The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.
If you sit there with the shitty attitude about yourself in the club then that is probably why you aren't making any money. You have to be confident with yourself before you can expect someone else to be.
this is just me.. but if i were making 4 times as much money as a blonde, I'd just dye my hair blonde. I don't think it's so much that blonde and asians make more money, but that you(specifically) look more attractive to these men with blonde hair.. I dunno what you look like so I'm just assuming here.





Ok I am a petite blonde with big tits and why the fuck is a man who is attracted to that look a pedophile? Maybe you need to look up a dictionary because a pedophile is attracted to pre pubescent children not adults and not adults with big tits.
There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.
Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.
Maybe, just maybe, you look better as a blonde, and that's all there is to it. Seriously. Blonde hair might suit you better. If people think it's your real hair, and your brunette hair isn't - it certainly does sound like you look more like a natural blonde.
But, the men that say that =/= all the men at your club, and they CERTAINLY =/= all the men in the world. I certainly get an assload of attention with this fat white brunette body.
Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.
This just smells like trolling, honestly.





That's funny, cause blondes with big boobs are one of my bfs least favorite "types". He also doesn't "get" the Asian thing. Not that he doesn't think Asian women can be attractive, but he doesn't get the specific attraction to women just -because- they are Asian.
and FTR when I "went blonde" I did not make "more money", the only thing that changed was my overall customer base. And honestly (hopefully no one will get offended by this) I was approached by way more douchebags as a blonde than I am as a redhead. I don't know why, but it was definitely different.




yeah, so what? you have the option of wearing the wig and making more money or keeping it brown and bitching about it. when you go to work, you try to appeal to the majority of the customers, which does place some limitations on what you want and your personal tastes- i wouldn't go to work with a giant rainbow afro and hairy legs (no offense to any rainbow afro wearers)- why cause i want to actually make money - if you wanna be a brunette - be a brunette on your own time
These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?




talk about an insult if there ever was one.
Completely generalized.
Have you thought that maybe that is just how your club in particular works??
I'm a short brunette, 34B, and curvy enough to not be called petite...and I did extremely well.
And instead of bitching about it, then maybe you should fix it. Not all men are the same and have the same tastes.




i have small boobs, but too bad i'm way too tall to ever pass as a pedophile type. white girls complain in my club that they can't get dances from latinos or black guys...i'm skinny but proportionate...and i'll get dances from varying ethnicities. but i change the way i talk to them and how i present myself to them. i've worked both brunette and blonde and don't see a difference in my money. it's like the same complaint that young guys don't want dances from younger girls and really like the super-stripperfied look...i don't fit that either and have made really good money off of young guys. it's about your hustle not your look imo.




not true... I'm not a stripper yet but I have done webcam modeling and adult phone chat and have been very popular doing so and 95% of my custys are white... of course, most of them probably wouldn't admit that they like big booty-black girls in public but a lot of men have a chocolate addiction on the dl LOL



I have to agree and disagree here. I think my hustle is decent. If I ask seven guys for a dance four of them will agree. Alot of girls here (at my club) just go wanna dance at every guy and wonder why they don't get anywhere. Ofcourse, a top hustler would have even more saying yes, but I digress. I am still fairly new to this game.
Anyways, at my particular club alot of the men don't actually like the young school girl thing. While I hear alot of dancers on here say they bank with that look. Likewise, maybe at your particular club really likes the Blonde Barbie type. It may be a regional/group thing. I dance in Dallas and if we get enough redneck blue collared types in here, that is sometimes all they want. So in some cases your hustle could be fine, it is just your club. Like JD mentioned, if you go to a club that is more urban and less white... You would do just find as a thicker/curvier brunette.
Now, I am not saying I couldn't sell dances to the aforementioned type of man. But just like the whole thing with the wig, I had so many complaints about having glasses/looking like a school girl who makes straight A's. So, I had to decide to stop wearing the glasses.
So either wear the wig, or bleach you hair. If you really don't want to do that, switch clubs. What kind of men approach you on the street? That is the rule of thumb I go by. The same type of men who try to talk to me outside of the club are the same types that buy dances from me.




yeah, i think every girl has a type of guy that prefers her. like asians are the easiest sale for me, but they never try to 'get' with me outside of a club. i used to think only asians, old dudes and lonely, ugly young guys were my type but i think as you become more experienced you can hustle any type of guy, will you have more success with the type you usually dance for? yes, but it doesn't mean that you should ignore the types you think wouldn't go for you. but then again, i work in a club with a very mixed clientele, so my advice may not hold true to your club.




I am Asian (korean), 5'7 tall and have big tits.... how that makes me appealing to a pedophile I do not know
This is silly. In some ways it is true and in my experience guys do like petites better than tall girls, big boobs better than small ones, bolndes better than brunnettes, skinny girls better than thicker ones, and whatever else. You will appeal to a more mass of customers if you fit most or some of the criteria, but to say that you won't make money if you do not is silly. At the end of the day, if you do not know how to hustle you will struggle or at the very least only make a fraction of what you COULD be making. The girls who can hustle will outsell the barbies any day of the week, even if the "barbies" or significantly more attractive.
Our top earner doesn't fit any of the criteria. She is a brunnette, average height, and I would say she is fat. She could definetely stand to lose 20lbs and is not toned at all. She looks the best she can but shes not all that hot in the face either. She makes a ton every night because she is friendly, never gives up, and is a super hustler. I do have really big fake boobs, but I am tall, black, and surely not blonde! If this were true, I would have quit long ago, and I live in OH also. Sure there are customers who absolutely will not get a dance with a black girl. I could care less, because I am hot and there will always be other customers. When I didn't make money I would say nobody "liked me" that night too. Really I just wasn't hustling like I should have been and taking the no's personally. Looks are not the most important thing. Hustle will trump looks everytime. Knowing how to sell is much more important.
I've only worked with 2 asians before and they did seem to do well, but one was a crazy hustler. Asians aren't seen regularly so they are a real 'novelty' around here, so they rightfully clean up when they do.





Men like all types of women. Most of all they like women with good personalities who are entertaining, sexy, confident, cheeky and happy. Not self-conscious whiners.




just out of curiosity, do you guys think that applies to the real world as well? I mean, basically, no matter what the guys' type is, if you don't fit it, but have a great attitude and are confident they will still be attracted to you? I've been thinking about that a lot lately and was wondering what other gils think...





It depends on the guy... IRL and the SC. But i think it actually applies more in real life.
Im a girl, but i have a very specific type. When i am in the strip club, i pretty much only will buy dances from girls who fit my type. Yes, i am one of those customers.
But in real life, i let more slide. I might be ok with a bit of a tummy (a bit, not a huge gut... no amount of personality can make that ok for me) if there is an awesome personality that goes with it. but here it is not a transaction for fantasy... its a real person who i spend time with.
plus, a lot of guys in real life wont go as specifically for their type because they might not have enough game to get it. in the strip club, if they are very specifically looking for a petite brunette, all they have to do to spend time with the petite brunette is spend money. in real life, if that is their favorite type, they might not have enough game to get the petite brunette and might have to settle for hte larger brunette. They actually have to be able to win over a girl effectively. and fit her standards as well.
so yea,... personality applies more so in real life.
The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.









its not that they take the uglier ones on purpose. its more that circumstance prevents them from getting the hotter ones.
remember strip clubs are fantasies. part of the appeal of the fantasy is being able to have a really hot girl fawn all over you. all it takes is a few hundred dollars. in real life, they might wish they had the hot girl with the personality to want to date them, but it just wont happen. but the less hot girl with a nice personality will date them, and will treat them well, and be a good companion.
if men could get any girl that they wanted to actually date them and stroke their egos and care about them for free, then we would probably be out of business.
The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.
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