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    Default Help! How to handle a regular client who texts WAY TOO MUCH

    How do you nicely tell a customer that he texts you too much??? I gave him my number to let him know when I work, but he texts me nonstop, everyday. I asked him to cool it, but he resumed again. Please help!! He doesn't spend much money on me in the club, maybe buy drinks, drop a $20 on-stage, and he got me flowers and a card for V-day. But no champagne trips or higher compensation. He claims to be a very powerful and influential person, and I'm afraid of pissing him off in case he decides to never give me more money, or purposely go to another girl at my club. Help!!

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    Default Re: Help! How to handle a regular client who texts WAY TOO MUCH

    Being powerful and influential are his claims but dropping a 20 spot sounds like he is quite the opposite.

    "I'm afraid of pissing him off in case he decides to never give me (TWENTY DOLLARS!) more money, or purposely go to another girl at my club."
    Back out slowly but essentially kick this guy to the curb if he is bothering. You can be polite just give him less and less attention and don't return his texts. There are two ways to look at it - is it worth it for him to bother you all the time to make $50 here and there long term or live in fear hoping he will drop bank on you, eventually, maybe, one day?

    The lure of more money is the his is the oldest trick in the customer book.

    He is not going to give you more money even if he is rich because you are settling for $20, drinks and a Valentines card. You will stick around because you are lured in by his claims of "more money" or him being "powerful and influential".

    Sorry to be so blunt. Learn from this experience. He is using fear as a currency. Stop letting him.

    In the future get a pre-paid phone if you find you make more money contacting regulars who SPEND MONEY.




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    Default Re: Help! How to handle a regular client who texts WAY TOO MUCH

    Sounds like he's just not worth it. I'd be upfront and tell him you'd be happy to spend time with him giving lap dances or chatting IN THE CLUB but that you have other things to do besides texting... then simply stop responding. If he takes offense to it, oh well, you won't be losing that much.

    As they say "talk is cheap", but your time is not. If he's not spending the money that he claims he has then he's letting it collect dust... as far as I'm concerned that an even bigger insult to you.
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    I would phase out of it, if you don't want to get on his bad side then just do it gradually. Reply to some texts but ignore them more and more. I have a regular who occasionally texts me too much, or at weird times of the night. If I'm in a good mood I don't care but if I'm in a pissy mood I just ignore them until it gets to the point of panicky ''omg are you ok, haven't heard from you at all??'' kinda texts... then I'll reply like ''oops, was hanging out''. I think it annoys him but it shows that I was busy living my own life, that he is not a part of at all. (and also it makes me laugh!)

    It suggests to your regular that maybe your losing interest in him and chances are, if he's a broke-ass he'll move onto the next girl he can harass for free, and if he's actually rich he'll up the spending to try and get you back (woot!)


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    I wouldn't have given him my number in the first place. If all he wanted to know was when I worked - I would have written it down for him on a piece of paper.

    However - in this situation - you need to politely phase out of it - and then perhaps change your number when you've got to the 'occasional text' stage.

    Like the others have said - if he's not spending the money - he'll move on. Probably to another club eventually.
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    I would just ignore their texts and delete them after you read them and tell him the next time you see him in the club, that your phone was either broken or stolen... and then hint at him getting you a new iphone or something... to see if he's going to spend cash on you?

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    ok here is my problem dude is in the club and im sitting with various guys and this dude keeps saying come on over with me and he doesn't even drop money on me at all so what do i do? tell the manager he's bothering my work or what?
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    Tell him that you're there to work, and you can't hang out with him for free all night.

    I did the same thing when I first started....gave someone my number and they texted me continuously as well. I actually changed my phone number, and will never give it out again. I made a work email address that I use instead, but even that is rare. I find it annoying when guys get too clingy like that.

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    Britney I would definitely politely tell him to back off, then bluntly tell him to back off, then get the bouncer and tell him the guy is bugging you. If someone is spending money, I'm happy to get paid all night to hang out, but not for free. And DEF not when you could be making money but he's getting in the way!

    If he can't take a nice hint, don't feel bad about forcing him to hop it!


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    You're putting up with this for twenty bucks? Fuck that guy. Tell him to beat it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britney45317 View Post
    ok here is my problem dude is in the club and im sitting with various guys and this dude keeps saying come on over with me and he doesn't even drop money on me at all so what do i do? tell the manager he's bothering my work or what?
    Ignore him? If you happen to walk by just be all business.

    "Oh I thought you were waving me over to go to the VIP?"

    Why else would he be waving you over? Because he thinks he's special? Show him he's not.

    Unless he's waving you over with bills in his hand what's the point. Start talking to his friends and see if they will spend some money.




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    Quote Originally Posted by serenityx View Post
    How do you nicely tell a customer that he texts you too much??? I gave him my number to let him know when I work, but he texts me nonstop, everyday. I asked him to cool it, but he resumed again. Please help!! He doesn't spend much money on me in the club, maybe buy drinks, drop a $20 on-stage, and he got me flowers and a card for V-day. But no champagne trips or higher compensation. He claims to be a very powerful and influential person, and I'm afraid of pissing him off in case he decides to never give me more money, or purposely go to another girl at my club. Help!!
    Don't give a custie your number unless he spends BIG ! Also what you can do is give him your email address and tell him to email you instead, that way you can respond whenever you feel like it, or when you want him to come in. Then block his number and tell him your phone is out of service and you are going to change it.
    Personally I wouldn't give my number to a guy who spends that little.

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