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    Last night I was dancing to my first song and a guy put a dollar up on the stage. Well it was towards the end of the song when he did that so my next song started to come on before I got over to him. So I took off my top and he takes the dollar bill off the stage! Now, I used to have a great body and then I had a kid. So I def. have kind of a mom stomach with stretch marks and a little bit of loose skin. I am pretty sure I can get rid of it by working out. I have already lost three lbs and it's my first week back since 2006. Why do guys think it's ok to do that? Grrrrr!

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    because theyre ignorant wankers, unfortunatly I think its that simple.

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    lol, I like that!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Forever_Fallen227 View Post
    lol, I like that!

    But yeah don't worry about your stomach or w.e because there will always be men who can see flaws in everyone even the people you think are flawless, just work on it if it will help you feel better about yourself.. I think if you use the search tool there is quite a few topics about getting your body back after having a baby or try searching on google for some tips and stretch marks are nothing to worry about nearly every woman has them baby or not, just make sure to moisturise they will fade.

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    Next time collect your tip before taking your top off.

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    Don't get yourself down because some dude is playing those games. It has nothing to do with flaws you perceive in yourself and everything to do with him trying to make you feel bad about yourself to get his sad little thrills. Next time that happens just be a bitch to him and ignore him for the rest of your set. And keep your back to him after you take your top off.

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    I've seen guys do this to smoking hot girls with perfect bodies.
    Some of them just get off being a d-bag.
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    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Forever_Fallen227 View Post
    Last night I was dancing to my first song and a guy put a dollar up on the stage. Well it was towards the end of the song when he did that so my next song started to come on before I got over to him. So I took off my top and he takes the dollar bill off the stage! Now, I used to have a great body and then I had a kid. So I def. have kind of a mom stomach with stretch marks and a little bit of loose skin. I am pretty sure I can get rid of it by working out. I have already lost three lbs and it's my first week back since 2006. Why do guys think it's ok to do that? Grrrrr!

    He took your dollar off the stage?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!

    Dude, i would have flipped my shit. Im a calm girl, but i have little patience for bullshit like that. I bully customers at the stage all the time... and as a result i tend to do well on stage tips.

    i would have snatched the dollar back. I would have yelled at him. I might have even told the manager he stole from me. because when the dollar goes on teh stage... it is your dollar. as far as i am concerned, if he took a dollar that was on the stage and then pocketed it, he stole from you.

    you handled that calmly. im a peaceful person, but when i get riled up, i get really riled up. what can i say, im from new jersey. that mother fucker would have at least gotten kicked in the head. or something. please telll me you did something at least to punish him.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    ^me too. i have no qualms yelling at guys sitting at the tip rail not tipping, waving a dollar expecting something special, guys who want or try to put dollars down my underwear or rub it on my body...i just don't have patience for cheap bastards at the tip rail. we have a circular stage and when my legs are extended and i'm laying down, i do some swift leg work close to their heads with my 7 inch heels to scare them and if i accidentally kick them, oh fucking weellll, that's what they get for sitting at the tip rail with no money. i'm pretty tolerant on the floor but something about the stage just brings the anger out in me.

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    I would have been like 'you going to put it in?' holding out my panties and looking at him like he was an idiot. I'd put him on the spot and if he refused I'd be like 'What the Fuck?!' very loudly and flip him off. I've had to do that to severl guys that wanted to just stare and wouldn't even tip a FUCKING DOLLAR. I'm just like FUCK YOU. *flips off*. Making me look like a bitch when I'm in my cute school girl stockings, but that's just stupid. A fucking dollar.

    Fuck him!


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    Ha. When guys come up to me with a dollar and find I won't put my boobs on their face for that, they're all THAT'S IT?

    To which I reply "Babe, it's a dollar. You can't even buy a pack of gum with that." And hold out the sides of my thong.

    Bastards.

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    Agree with Athena. We can't let them get away with the BS they try. We have to stand our ground up there. I wish I could ignore them, but I can't. We get enough disrespect. I can only handle so much. I let a lot of things fly, but you have to demand the respect. People are dicks, they always try us.. Sometimes they get away with it. Sometimes we ring their asses and they hang their heads in embarrassment. I love the latter.

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    Please don't take this personally and think it has anything to with how you look or dance the guy is a choad.

    Some men make it a sport to try and bring girls down a notch. Ignore them.

    Ignore them as in never give them the womanly attention that they so badly seek unless they straighten out their act. Then take their money.

    One dollar is not worth it to get in a fuss over or pay attention to retards like that.




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    You could always just do a sweep so the money falls on the stage and say, "thanks babe." Not much they can do about that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    Ha. When guys come up to me with a dollar and find I won't put my boobs on their face for that, they're all THAT'S IT?

    To which I reply "Babe, it's a dollar. You can't even buy a pack of gum with that." And hold out the sides of my thong.

    Bastards.
    LOL I usually say something similar. One time when a guy was waving one at me ($2) and said to "work for it". I just flipped. I looked at him and said, "Look at me babe.... does it look like I work for anything? That's $1.20 for me. (pull two tipping dollars out of my garter and throw them at him). There you go sweetie. Go buy yourself a big mac!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    LOL I usually say something similar. One time when a guy was waving one at me ($2) and said to "work for it". I just flipped. I looked at him and said, "Look at me babe.... does it look like I work for anything? That's $1.20 for me. (pull two tipping dollars out of my garter and throw them at him). There you go sweetie. Go buy yourself a big mac!"
    yea ive flipped out a few times on stage.

    i dont know why... but i get my angriest on the stage. i mean i bully customers into giving me money everywhere, but on the stage i actually feel a rush of anger, instead of just the usual hustle aggression. then i get off stage and its all fine. but on stage, i can get really mean! My buttons are much easier to push for some reason, and i am a total cunt when my buttons are pushed!

    I also tend to do quite well on stage tips and i am not a particularly awesome pole athlete. yet another reason why i have stopped believing in being nice to the customers.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    i'm convinced that some of those guys want to be bullied, i've bullied them before and then gotten multiple dancers directly after. and like you athena, i get the angriest on stage, but i think we deserve to be bitches if a guy only tips a dollar or two...they KNOW they have to tip to sit at the tip rail but apparently they don't know a dollar is like a penny, it's like wasting energy bending over to pick it up...whenever i have to pick up a dollar. i could go on and on about how irritated i get with a dollar tip. actually with tipping in general. i've had guys tip me 3 dollars after a 100 dollar set and tell them to tip me, when they look at me all bewildered i tell them, "c'mon now would you leave a waitress a 3% tip? and is your waitress as hot as me?" that usually strips them of the remaining money they have in their wallet. i definitely bully guys into tipping me, it's one of my favorite parts of the job haha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    He took your dollar off the stage?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!

    Dude, i would have flipped my shit. Im a calm girl, but i have little patience for bullshit like that. I bully customers at the stage all the time... and as a result i tend to do well on stage tips.

    i would have snatched the dollar back. I would have yelled at him. I might have even told the manager he stole from me. because when the dollar goes on teh stage... it is your dollar. as far as i am concerned, if he took a dollar that was on the stage and then pocketed it, he stole from you.

    you handled that calmly. im a peaceful person, but when i get riled up, i get really riled up. what can i say, im from new jersey. that mother fucker would have at least gotten kicked in the head. or something. please telll me you did something at least to punish him.
    Usually if this happens we can just tell the manager and he or she will take care of it, but it was like 15 mins to closing time so I just said wtf ever. But if it happens again I will def. say something. Even if I have to take care of it myself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stripper Hacks View Post
    Please don't take this personally and think it has anything to with how you look or dance the guy is a choad.

    Some men make it a sport to try and bring girls down a notch. Ignore them.

    Ignore them as in never give them the womanly attention that they so badly seek unless they straighten out their act. Then take their money.

    One dollar is not worth it to get in a fuss over or pay attention to retards like that.
    Once I saw him do that I didn't pay any attention to his side of the stage. Meaning him or any of his buddies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rubyredlipsss View Post
    i'm convinced that some of those guys want to be bullied, i've bullied them before and then gotten multiple dancers directly after. and like you athena, i get the angriest on stage, but i think we deserve to be bitches if a guy only tips a dollar or two...they KNOW they have to tip to sit at the tip rail but apparently they don't know a dollar is like a penny, it's like wasting energy bending over to pick it up...whenever i have to pick up a dollar. i could go on and on about how irritated i get with a dollar tip. actually with tipping in general. i've had guys tip me 3 dollars after a 100 dollar set and tell them to tip me, when they look at me all bewildered i tell them, "c'mon now would you leave a waitress a 3% tip? and is your waitress as hot as me?" that usually strips them of the remaining money they have in their wallet. i definitely bully guys into tipping me, it's one of my favorite parts of the job haha.
    Ahahaha...I like that! I need to start saying that.lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by rubyredlipsss View Post
    ^me too. i have no qualms yelling at guys sitting at the tip rail not tipping, waving a dollar expecting something special, guys who want or try to put dollars down my underwear or rub it on my body...i just don't have patience for cheap bastards at the tip rail. we have a circular stage and when my legs are extended and i'm laying down, i do some swift leg work close to their heads with my 7 inch heels to scare them and if i accidentally kick them, oh fucking weellll, that's what they get for sitting at the tip rail with no money. i'm pretty tolerant on the floor but something about the stage just brings the anger out in me.

    Yes! I have kicked people in the head more than once for being all up on my stage and not tipping. High five.

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    No thats not ok he's an asshole.
    I got fired from my 1st club because the guy said he just needed to get money out and so I danced for him (it was a satellite stage you don't need to do anything special if noone wants to watch and tip) and then at the end he said "maybe next time". I kicked his drink on him.

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    What does this have to do with you or your motherhood status? That guy is a jerk.




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