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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    I completely agree with this post! I'm a black female as well and before I signed on to a cam site, I checked out the girls and I must say SOME (most) BLACK WOMEN ARE STRAIGHT UP EMBARRESMENT!! (however you spell that)

    Even as a dancer, the black women I work with in this upscale club are loud, speaking ebonics, acting wild etc, etc....it's soo not cool. Even when I'm on the stage, I stay away from hip hop music because I dont want anybody judging me. No, I dont care what people think in my personal life, but at work, I do because it's all about the money. I stick with Prince on the stage.

    Now don't get me wrong, there are white people who are just as trashy as well as other races. But we black people have a bad rep so we need to present ourselves properly. besides, this is a BUSINESS please, please, please calm down. Do that ghetto shit at home.

    Also, I dont get tipped alot on the stage- thanks to you stank hoodrats, but when I'm speaking and working the room, they realize that I speak PROPER ENGLISH, that I'm not loud, not ghetto etc etc.

    NO, this isnt a post to bash black women, my own kind- this is a post to point out this issue which happens to be true. And everytime someone brings up the words "black person" people automatically assume a negative nature.

    Thank you so much for pointing this out.

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    1.) They think my photos are fake and expect someone else to show up LOL
    2.) They're always suprised the way I talk and "carry" myself.

    I'm nigerian and it's kinda tough trying to find someone that actually understands me. The last black girlfriend I befriended (american) came to my house and stole my flat screen tv so I've completely written off black girls as friends LOL!

    I went to high school school in Greenville, SC and I was considered "Lame" because I wasn't out late at night partying and smoking weed (Don't smoke,don't drink) I'm just ready to meet some quality black women for once!

    I'm sooooooo sick of ghetto chicks period ugh!

    Quote Originally Posted by wanderlust08 View Post
    Not sure if I should be posting in this thread, as I lack certain criteria (lol). But I would just like to say that all the black ladies in this forum are very classy ladies and you all know what you're doing.

    It could possibly be profitable to have a specialized camsite for classy black women...maybe take it a step further and make it a suicidegirls type of thing (the photosets and client interaction part anyway.) There are plenty of men out there who love black women, and it could also possibly negate stereotypes about black camgirls.

    I just don't get racial stereotypes, I really don't. I give everyone from all walks of life the benefit of the doubt. Basically if you're at least borderline intelligent, you're alright with me! Ethnicity, sexuality, economic circumstance, personal beliefs, etc...don't matter to me, just be cool and we're good.
    OMG thats an awesome idea for a site!

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    i'm guilty of waking up, rolling out of bed and getting on cam. falling asleep, laying down and closing my eyes. blasting hiphop and even rapping along =X LOL

    but the having your kids watching cartoons in the room is a shame.

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    i'm guilty of waking up, rolling out of bed and getting on cam. falling asleep, laying down and closing my eyes. blasting hiphop and even rapping along =X LOL

    but the having your kids watching cartoons in the room is a shame.
    lol @ blasting hiphop and even rapping along.. well if it's working for you that's awesome.... but eh You are insanely hot though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xfatrabbitx View Post
    i'm guilty of waking up, rolling out of bed and getting on cam. falling asleep, laying down and closing my eyes. blasting hiphop and even rapping along =X LOL

    but the having your kids watching cartoons in the room is a shame.
    lol Malaya is right, girl you could get on cam with no makeup and a towel on your head and I bet the guys would still be loving ya sexy self
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    awe Malaya big hugs for being called lame in high school!!! I know that kids are mean in school. But it isn't just the proper kids from other countries. I was made fun of in high school for not being black enough! LOL! I guess the ignorant ghetto kids thought I was lame because I wasn't like them. Those same kids are now adults struggling in life because of their ignorance! There are plenty of good black women out there for you to make friends with. Just be careful of who you get to know!

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    awe Malaya big hugs for being called lame in high school!!!
    Lol! I know right! I was the biggest nerd.. in beta club, sports journalist of the year and all but was a big time outcast! Oh and I was considered "weird looking".. lol

    I know that kids are mean in school. But it isn't just the proper kids from other countries. I was made fun of in high school for not being black enough! LOL! I guess the ignorant ghetto kids thought I was lame because I wasn't like them. Those same kids are now adults struggling in life because of their ignorance!
    Exactly why they made fun of me but to top it all off I was the weird looking AFRICAN girl. They'd ask questions like "Do yall have clocks in africa?" and would call me "Kunta!" in front of EVERYONE in the cafeteria... Ugh! But then I got "hot" all the sudden my senior year and everyone wanted to hangout with me but I was too stuckup on school work to give anyone a chance.

    The majority of those kids are STILL in greenville, sc doing nothing and living on welfare. One of the guys I had a crush on that dissed me really bad added me on facebook then sent me a message begging me to give him another chance but I just laughed.. we're soooo not on the same level now..ha!


    Guess what? I was never picked on by white people , mexicans or asians. They all loved me! They thought I was "cool" ha! My arch enemies were black americans. My best friends were mexican and asian. Ain't that something? LOL

    There are plenty of good black women out there for you to make friends with. Just be careful of who you get to know!
    Ahh here's the problem I have with the ones I've met so far: They try to sabotage me! My ex best friend (black girl) had sex with my then boyfriend while I was at the airport picking up HER brother. She was the total opposite of me .. (extremely ghetto) but i loved her! All this after I let her move in with me AND bought her a car with MY money, Got her started as an indy camgirl and all. I was 18 years old! You know what she told me? "You got played N***a" 2 years later she wants to be my friend again. sending me all types of messages on facebook... HELL NO!

    It's either they want to hang out with me because they know I'm willing to give give give or they're jealous of me and want to find something to use against me .. I dunno. I had a decent black friend once upon a time but she moved back to NOLA .

    Big time pushover here..
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    JUST SAY NO! Don't be friends with that girl. Damn, you sound like the african me! I had a friend a few years ago, and same thing. I let her move in with me twice! I tried to help her out with money and getting a job etc. Last time I dealt with her, I had a roommate. Long story short I told her she had to help pay a 3rd or rent, you know? She of course declined, being the dead beat that she is, and strangely enough my male roommate ditched me on the rent the same day she left, then he came back and robbed me at my apartment! I believe "my friend" was behind this. She sends me friend requests on facebook and myspace too, and I just ignore her. She sounds EXACTLY like your friend, and she is the type who would also say "you got played bitch!" LOL

    I had to learn not to be a push over, because it was bringing me down. It costs money too lol.

    Same thing happened with me in school too. Guys started liking me by the 10th grade, only the white kids wanted to be my friends, because the black girls thought I was "acting white" That is such a shame that in some parts of this country, a black person is looked down on for not behaving a certain way. Of course when you grow up most people no longer think this way. Those same people wish they could shake that ghetto mentality so they can better make it in life. Besides, you should feel proud knowing Nigeria is one of the most successful countries in West Africa. That's another thing.......people think Africa is a country not a continent, and think you all must speak the same language lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by josiecamgirl View Post
    people think Africa is a country not a continent, and think you all must speak the same language lol.
    uh...stupid people think africa is a country.

    i remember one time i was at the mall with a friend of mine, she is from south africa, great accent, someone asked her what country she was from, she said south africa...and the person acted like SHE was the dumb one and said "I asked what COUNTRY not what CONTINENT. do you understand english?" Moron.

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    You are right. Stupid people believe this.

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    JUST SAY NO! Don't be friends with that girl. Damn, you sound like the african me! I had a friend a few years ago, and same thing. I let her move in with me twice! I tried to help her out with money and getting a job etc. Last time I dealt with her, I had a roommate. Long story short I told her she had to help pay a 3rd or rent, you know? She of course declined, being the dead beat that she is, and strangely enough my male roommate ditched me on the rent the same day she left, then he came back and robbed me at my apartment! I believe "my friend" was behind this. She sends me friend requests on facebook and myspace too, and I just ignore her. She sounds EXACTLY like your friend, and she is the type who would also say "you got played bitch!" LOL
    Oooh this has happened to me before, this is why I live alone now. Just me and my daughter.
    I had to learn not to be a push over, because it was bringing me down. It costs money too lol.
    Who are you telling?! I'm always getting fucked over ugh! I'm the one that's always stuck buying rounds for everyone and I DON'T DRINK.. this is why I don't go out anymore and when I do, I go out by myself or have to pay the other person's entry fee because whoever I'm with is usually broke unless I go out with one of my guy friends.
    Same thing happened with me in school too. Guys started liking me by the 10th grade, only the white kids wanted to be my friends, because the black girls thought I was "acting white" That is such a shame that in some parts of this country, a black person is looked down on for not behaving a certain way. Of course when you grow up most people no longer think this way. Those same people wish they could shake that ghetto mentality so they can better make it in life.
    Very true!

    Besides, you should feel proud knowing Nigeria is one of the most successful countries in West Africa. That's another thing.......people think Africa is a country not a continent, and think you all must speak the same language lol.
    Lol Yeah nigerians are known for thinking they're better than everyone else. Everyone else being black americans. All I'll say is I've met wayy too many irresponsible black americans and very few responsible ones but I've never met ONE irresponsible nigerian. When we come here we come here to take advantage of what america has to offer not to sit around and be bums on the street. One thing people don't realize is to live in nigeria, there is no middle class. It's either you're rich or you're poor. In nigeria, there is no such thing as credit, welfare, government help so if someone walked into a bank and asked for a loan or line of credit you'd get laughed at.. luckily enough for me my parents are very well off. It's sad that a lot of black americans don't take advantage of what this beautiful country has to offer (for example, free education).. They rather take advantage of food stamps and welfare and talk about how the "white man" is holding them down.

    LOL @ Africa being a country. So glad you pointed that one out.. see how ignorant that is? Ugh! I've also heard "Do you speak african?" What the hell is african? I'm like I speak Igbo not african!! African is not a language.



    This is from MY personal experience.

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    Regarding the topic at hand, I think it means well and I can see the points made but I'm not sure if I fully agree. I mean personally I prefer a classier route BUT there's a fetish for everything. One of my favorite ladies to watch on my off time is Nemesis (who is black btw). I've seen her around on phone sex / cam sites for years and I think she makes bank on her niche. She sits on cam with her bald, shaved head, no make up (or just a dark lipstick if any). She wears cheap walmart "lingerie" (usually a supportless bra, thong, wifebeater and ankle socks) and cusses the customers out while in free chat and that's only IF she's not busy ignoring them by looking in her handheld mirror and plucking/shaving her facial and body hair.

    I will sit in her room and watch her shave not even acknowledging anyone in her room and she goes private after private!

    So who knows really. I don't think it's that black and white to say everyone needs to follow certain rules to make it. I think if all black women (or women period) were the same host after host, that the men would get incredibly bored. To me it's similar to a white woman saying "Girls if you're going to do cam you need to diet down to 100lbs, wear sexy lingerie, get implants and dye your hair blonde" How bland would that be to go on a site and only see thousands of skinny bleach blondes with DD tits?

    Do whatever you have to do to make yourself stand out and find the niche that works for you is my advice!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Billabong View Post
    Regarding the topic at hand, I think it means well and I can see the points made but I'm not sure if I fully agree. I mean personally I prefer a classier route BUT there's a fetish for everything. One of my favorite ladies to watch on my off time is Nemesis (who is black btw). I've seen her around on phone sex / cam sites for years and I think she makes bank on her niche. She sits on cam with her bald, shaved head, no make up (or just a dark lipstick if any). She wears cheap walmart "lingerie" (usually a supportless bra, thong, wifebeater and ankle socks) and cusses the customers out while in free chat and that's only IF she's not busy ignoring them by looking in her handheld mirror and plucking/shaving her facial and body hair.

    I will sit in her room and watch her shave not even acknowledging anyone in her room and she goes private after private!

    So who knows really. I don't think it's that black and white to say everyone needs to follow certain rules to make it. I think if all black women (or women period) were the same host after host, that the men would get incredibly bored. To me it's similar to a white woman saying "Girls if you're going to do cam you need to diet down to 100lbs, wear sexy lingerie, get implants and dye your hair blonde" How bland would that be to go on a site and only see thousands of skinny bleach blondes with DD tits?

    Do whatever you have to do to make yourself stand out and find the niche that works for you is my advice!
    did she have really poor lighting, cartoons on tv and baby monitors going off in the background, kids screaming in the background, was her tampon string hangin out? If not then not that's not what the post was about.Sounds like she was putting on a great show to me. I know plenty of guys that would pay big money to see what you described above.

    Lady sheer comes to mind... sheer.net

    Of course the men would be bored if everything was the same. But being different and being gross are two totally separate things.

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    did she have really poor lighting, cartoons on tv and baby monitors going off in the background, kids screaming in the background, was her tampon string hangin out? If not then not that's not what the post was about.Sounds like she was putting on a great show to me. I know plenty of guys that would pay big money to see what you described above.

    Lady sheer comes to mind... www.lady- sheer.net

    Of course the men would be bored if everything was the same. But being different and being gross are two totally separate things.
    Well, in your OP you say black women need to do their hair and you quote a woman who said that black women should look desirable (cover up acne and scars), be nice to her watchers (don't cuss them out when they ask for freebies), don't ignore them, not play rap music, have high quality, touched-up pics and suggested wigs, makeup, nice lingerie,etc. So I would say yeah that's partially what this thread is about. Only later were cartons and children brought up. I wasn't addressing that because to me that's common knowledge to anyone and yeah it's against most camsite rules.

    I don't know about her tampon. I don't take her private. She probably does though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Billabong View Post
    Well, in your OP you say black women need to do their hair and you quote a woman who said that black women should look desirable (cover up acne and scars), be nice to her watchers (don't cuss them out when they ask for freebies), don't ignore them, not play rap music, have high quality, touched-up pics and suggested wigs, makeup, nice lingerie,etc. So I would say yeah that's partially what this thread is about. Only later were cartons and children brought up. I wasn't addressing that because to me that's common knowledge to anyone and yeah it's against most camsite rules.
    Dude, There is a HUGE difference between mainstream and fetish camming. The camgirl you described sounded more like a fetish cammer. A guy that's into mainstream camming won't want to see her. Different strokes for different folks. Yes mainstream black camgirls DO need to do their hair and put on some damn makeup and not play rap music. If you're catering to a certain audience then I'm not talking to you(For example, If you're a fetish/domme camgirl.)

    The same black models I'm talking about are the ones that complain that they aren't making any money so I'm pretty sure we're not on the same page here billabong.

    I don't know about her tampon. I don't take her private. She probably does though.
    ahh free viewer...

    Again, If she does, catering to a certain type of fetish. Something like this wouldn't work for me. lol

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    Dude, There is a HUGE difference between mainstream and fetish camming. The camgirl you described sounded more like a fetish cammer. A guy that's into mainstream camming won't want to see her. Different strokes for different folks. Yes mainstream black camgirls DO need to do their hair and put on some damn makeup and not play rap music. If you're catering to a certain audience then I'm not talking to you(For example, If you're a fetish/domme camgirl.)

    The same black models I'm talking about are the ones that complain that they aren't making any money so I'm pretty sure we're not on the same page here billabong.



    ahh free viewer...

    Again, If she does, catering to a certain type of fetish. Something like this wouldn't work for me. lol
    Ok, I can see where you're coming from but your main post just says black camgirls which could mean anyone basically who is camming and is black. Again I say whether you're a domme or not there's a fetish for anything. Maybe a guy wants to suck and fuck a chick and doesn't mind if she looks a hot ghetto mess and acts it too. That's all I'm saying. What you and I may find disgusting there might be a guy who is willing to pay thousands for.

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    Dammit! I knew I should have got on cam while I was waxing my chin!

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    Billabong, Quit trying to tell me something I already know dude. Again, That's not what I was talking about. You're talking about something totally different.

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    Billabong, Quit trying to tell me something I already know dude. Again, That's not what I was talking about. You're talking about something totally different.




    LMFAO
    I don't see how we're talking about something different and I don't see why you're getting defensive. You can agree to disagree, but my opinion still stands that not every girl, even if she's NOT a domme, needs to do glamor. There is a fetish for everything. Fetish does not only = domination. Men can have a fetish for black girls, a fetish for long hair, a fetish for big boobs .. whatever! If a girl wants to present herself as ghetto and cater to the men who like that then work it!

    Listen, I can see how this thread helps girls who might come in and complain they are making no money and checklist everything above as something they are doing wrong, but what I disagree about is that this thread is built on the assumption of watching others that they are nasty and no one wants to see what they're presenting because it's not how YOU would run your business. How do you know for sure they get nothing? Some dude may be loving them as they are is my point.

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    Billabong I see where you are coming from. You have made a few good points. Obviously this is somewhat a sensitive subject, and you seem to be on the defense. As a black woman myself, I and another black female cammer have discussed this issue a few times via yahoo. Yes, there are white, hispanic, asian, old, young, tranny, and men cam models who are a hot ass fuckin mess! Not just the black girls, BUT Malaya was not talking about them. She wanted to bring up the subject of black women who are fucking up their business on cam. Malaya wants to bring attention to the fact that SOME black girls are complaining about not making money, getting a certain clientele in their chat room who basically suck ass and will never pay for a private. This is a subject that black girls have secretly discussed amongst themselves. There is a fellow black female host on my site who has come to my text chat on numerous occasions trying to get tips on how to get more private sessions, what she should/should not do etc...I went to her chat room to see what she was doing wrong and could improve on, per her request, and I found her to be doing the same shit that Malaya was describing SOME black women are doing. I pointed out to her what she was doing wrong, as she asked me to do. It is an issue that we discuss wether people like it or not. It is a real issue amongst some of us. I think people get mad because we, black people, talk about things that WE are doing and exclude other races. It is not our intention to single pple out, or exclude people. Over time we have been singled out and we try to work on things to improve ourselves, because no matter what people say or think, they will say stuff like "that ghetto black chick was playing rap music in her room..." noone will go to a white girls chatroom and say "did you see that white girl playing that rap music, I know she aint makin no money" There was a white girl last night playing lil wayne in her chat room, btw .

    Anyway, there are going to be some black women out there googling topics on how to make more money on cam. They will come across this, and find this post helpful, brutally honest, but helpful. Some will be offended, because they wont like the truth, some will find it funny, and some will simply not give a fuck. When I first saw this post I knew it could possibly cause a little drama as all issues of race do.

    Yall will have to agree to disagree eventually, but this subject will still remain a topic for discussion.

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    I don't see how we're talking about something different and I don't see why you're getting defensive. You can agree to disagree, but my opinion still stands that not every girl, even if she's NOT a domme, needs to do glamor. There is a fetish for everything. Fetish does not only = domination. Men can have a fetish for black girls, a fetish for long hair, a fetish for big boobs .. whatever! If a girl wants to present herself as ghetto and cater to the men who like that then work it!

    Listen, I can see how this thread helps girls who might come in and complain they are making no money and checklist everything above as something they are doing wrong, but what I disagree about is that this thread is built on the assumption of watching others that they are nasty and no one wants to see what they're presenting because it's not how YOU would run your business. How do you know for sure they get nothing? Some dude may be loving them as they are is my point.

    lol well how about these girls are not catering to a certain client and JUST LOOK LIKE SHIT!

    Like I said earlier, You're not telling me anything I don't already know. I know there is a fetish for everything but it makes no sense to get on cam looking a HOT DAMN mess if you're not making any money looking that way. CASE CLOSED!
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    Billabong I see where you are coming from. You have made a few good points. Obviously this is somewhat a sensitive subject, and you seem to be on the defense. As a black woman myself, I and another black female cammer have discussed this issue a few times via yahoo. Yes, there are white, hispanic, asian, old, young, tranny, and men cam models who are a hot ass fuckin mess! Not just the black girls, BUT Malaya was not talking about them. She wanted to bring up the subject of black women who are fucking up their business on cam. Malaya wants to bring attention to the fact that SOME black girls are complaining about not making money, getting a certain clientele in their chat room who basically suck ass and will never pay for a private. This is a subject that black girls have secretly discussed amongst themselves. There is a fellow black female host on my site who has come to my text chat on numerous occasions trying to get tips on how to get more private sessions, what she should/should not do etc...I went to her chat room to see what she was doing wrong and could improve on, per her request, and I found her to be doing the same shit that Malaya was describing SOME black women are doing. I pointed out to her what she was doing wrong, as she asked me to do. It is an issue that we discuss wether people like it or not. It is a real issue amongst some of us. I think people get mad because we, black people, talk about things that WE are doing and exclude other races. It is not our intention to single pple out, or exclude people. Over time we have been singled out and we try to work on things to improve ourselves, because no matter what people say or think, they will say stuff like "that ghetto black chick was playing rap music in her room..." noone will go to a white girls chatroom and say "did you see that white girl playing that rap music, I know she aint makin no money" There was a white girl last night playing lil wayne in her chat room, btw .

    Anyway, there are going to be some black women out there googling topics on how to make more money on cam. They will come across this, and find this post helpful, brutally honest, but helpful. Some will be offended, because they wont like the truth, some will find it funny, and some will simply not give a fuck. When I first saw this post I knew it could possibly cause a little drama as all issues of race do.

    Yall will have to agree to disagree eventually, but this subject will still remain a topic for discussion.
    Well said!

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    Hey, Josie. I'm not on the defense at all I thought I made it quite clear I'm being reasonable and not against either side of this.

    Like I said if it were a thread that simply said "Hey I got a message from a black girl who said she wasn't getting any business here are a few tips I gave her to follow that might make your camshow better and have worked for me and may work for you. Bright lights, no kids, pretty clothes etc" that would have been one thing, but like I said it's built on tearing others down for what one might consider to be a hot mess and unappealing to customers when none of us have any idea how successful or unsuccessful the "hot messes" are lol.
    As I keep saying there are fetishes for everything so to say you watched a woman who didn't have her hair did or acne covered and that's a no no really has nothing to do with how successful she might or might not be. Some dude might be totally into that.

    And this isn't even totally directed at Malaya or meant to "lash out" at her because I know what site and what thread she copied a bulk of her OP from. I'm just stating how I feel about the subject, not how I feel about Malaya.


    And Malaya I already AM a camgirl lol and I do quite well at it. I also wear multiple hats within the adult industry and have for years now and am successful with that too. I said in an earlier post that I myself prefer glamor over trashy even when I cam, but that's just me. I see other girls who do things and look like how I would never look, but I really can't judge their success. I used Nemesis as an example because I would never shave my face (if I grew facial hair lol) on cam. That's horribly unsexy to me (and I'm a domme myself!). I wouldn't be caught dead with ankle socks and a shaved head either .. but when I view her cam the guys seem to love her. So I could've thought "Ooo girl don't do that you'll never get any customers" about her and I would've been dead wrong. That's the point I'm making.

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    And for the record I totally get what you're all saying and I do agree that it never hurts to up your quality and presentation especially if you're looking to be more successful. I just DISAGREE with the part about using other girls as an example of whats wrong with black cam girls instead of using a basic example of what could be wrong and Malaya didn't write majority of that, she's just defending it lol. Hopefully this makes more sense to everyone

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    Hey it's cool. I respect everyones input on all subjects. Now I must get back to camming! I have not reached my goal yet for this week, messin around on these damn forums. Time to light the fire under my ass!

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