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    OK, walk in sit down, place is pretty dead, with in 5 minutes a girl sits down and starts to rub my back.

    Go for a dance and it was great, but I just got there so only one to start. She understood and says track her down later if I want more. I tipped her 50%. Well I go for another dance which sucked. So I'm sitting at the bar and give her a friendly wave and she comes over but immediately says that she has to make money to pay her rent and walks away.

    Now I still had money, but at that point, I certainly wasn't going to give it to her. Finished my drink and left.

    This is bad right. Anything I should do differntly here? I understand she has resposnibilities but it is a job. She was a little off, no?

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    Default Re: She lost the fantasy

    What sucked about the second dance?

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    Something tells me you are leaving something out here. It doesn't make any sense. You must have said or done something that pissed her off. Obviously you don't know what that is or you wouldn't be asking here. What exactly did you say to her when you waved her over? When you did take her for a dance did u force her to talk to you for ages before or after the dance?

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    I don't get it either.
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    You got the second dance from HER, or from another dancer?

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    Perhaps you were trying to pick her up in the dance and she got pissed off.. so now she is annoyed. I'm here to make money not to dodge your OTC questions. I do this if a guy is too painful constantly asking me out... I'll just stop dancing for him no matter what. If it really annoys me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    What sucked about the second dance?

    It was with a different girl. She wasn't that into it and was a little rank which I didn't like. It was eww.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    Something tells me you are leaving something out here. It doesn't make any sense. You must have said or done something that pissed her off. Obviously you don't know what that is or you wouldn't be asking here. What exactly did you say to her when you waved her over? When you did take her for a dance did u force her to talk to you for ages before or after the dance?
    She did go in the back right before I was sitting at the bar. Now that I think about it, when she came back out, she did look a little aggitated. The other thing was that she was on stage with 3 other girls, she came over and hung out and I gave her some singles, I couldn't tell you how many.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    Perhaps you were trying to pick her up in the dance and she got pissed off.. so now she is annoyed. I'm here to make money not to dodge your OTC questions. I do this if a guy is too painful constantly asking me out... I'll just stop dancing for him no matter what. If it really annoys me.
    No, none of that. I was a total gentleman and get the deal. During the dance she was totally sweet. I'm gonna chalk this up to something happening while she was in the back. Wondering if I should go back and ask if I did something wrong. I feel bad if I did something to upset her.

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    For whatever reason, in that particular situation, she decided that you were a time waster. I wasn't there so I'm not going to waste time speculating about what may have happened. Neither should you. If you liked the dance and you want more just go back to the club and buy more.
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    Default Re: She lost the fantasy

    Sounds like she was likely having a rough night of it and saw someone more profitable when she exited the dressing room.

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    ^ Those last two posts.

    To me, it just sounds like you gave her one of those "I won't empty my wallet for you" vibes.

    Yes, it's a job for her. You know what that means? SHE HAS TO PAY HER RENT. It being a job doesn't stop her worries, or make her superwoman.
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    She could have been an issue with the 2nd girl you purchased a dance from. As in, she won't dance for any customer that buys dances for the sucky dancer. So she made up some excuse about needing to make money, blah, blah, blah to find a new customer.

    I have purposely avoided customers because some girls are crazy possessive about their "customers". The $20 for the dance wasn't worth the dressing room harassment that would come later.

    That could have been the issue when she was in the back. Workplace bullying is a problem in strip clubs just like every other job.


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    Quote Originally Posted by sxcbbw View Post
    Yes, it's a job for her. You know what that means? SHE HAS TO PAY HER RENT. It being a job doesn't stop her worries, or make her superwoman.

    Exactly. We're not all gonna be perfect all the time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sxcbbw View Post
    ^ Those last two posts.

    To me, it just sounds like you gave her one of those "I won't empty my wallet for you" vibes.

    Yes, it's a job for her. You know what that means? SHE HAS TO PAY HER RENT. It being a job doesn't stop her worries, or make her superwoman.
    Chances are she was having a shitty night, maybe she got ripped off. Perhaps you made her wait way too long for one single dance, and she found out in the back that her regular showed up and ended up spending a ton on another girl who approached him. It could be anything.

    Now it never hurts to be professional. Some girls will drop their "act" for very minute reasons. Others will lose it at something very big. It would take a lot for me to drop the stripper persona and yell at a custy about my rent, thus ruining the potential for more money out of him.

    Who knows, everyone is different in how they work. There isn't any type of mandatory training on how to conduct one self on the job.

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    Look at it from the bright side. Thanks to her, you were able to save your hard earned dollar and walk out of that place with minimum losses. That is a victory my friend and you should not trivialize it.

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    If a guy only gets one dance from me I'm not likely to make my way back to them. Some would say it is leaving money on the table but they place themselves at low priority. Even on the super slow nights.

    I understand customers want to test out girls but if they spend $20 here, $20 there that seems like a lot of extra work. The time spent hustling (which in itself can be mentally exhausting) could be energy used in the VIP for lap dances.

    It also seems like a guy is not interested in the way we dance. Normally when you like a girl you keep her around you don't send her away.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    Sounds like she was likely having a rough night of it and saw someone more profitable when she exited the dressing room.
    Bingo.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SmittyLax6 View Post
    OK, walk in sit down, place is pretty dead, with in 5 minutes a girl sits down and starts to rub my back.

    Go for a dance and it was great, but I just got there so only one to start. She understood and says track her down later if I want more. I tipped her 50%. Well I go for another dance which sucked. So I'm sitting at the bar and give her a friendly wave and she comes over but immediately says that she has to make money to pay her rent and walks away.

    Now I still had money, but at that point, I certainly wasn't going to give it to her. Finished my drink and left.

    This is bad right. Anything I should do differntly here? I understand she has resposnibilities but it is a job. She was a little off, no?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Stripper Hacks View Post
    If a guy only gets one dance from me I'm not likely to make my way back to them. Some would say it is leaving money on the table but they place themselves at low priority. Even on the super slow nights.

    I understand customers want to test out girls but if they spend $20 here, $20 there that seems like a lot of extra work. The time spent hustling (which in itself can be mentally exhausting) could be energy used in the VIP for lap dances.

    It also seems like a guy is not interested in the way we dance. Normally when you like a girl you keep her around you don't send her away.
    I understand that, but he did tell her that he wanted more later and that should stop back in. She killed the sale for whatever reason, and should have handled it differently. Once waved over she should have said,

    "Oh hi ! Are you ready for another dance?" If the answer was no, then she should have said, "Okay. Well I can't chat right now, but if I'm not busy maybe I will come over for a few minutes. I've got to try to make some money, just give me a wave if you are ready for a dance hun." I've said this and usually I have no intention of coming back which is why I say MAYBE I will get a second. Being short and rude is the perfect way to lose a customer. Marching over and bitching about bills you have to pay is just silly.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hot4ablackchick View Post
    I understand that, but he did tell her that he wanted more later and that should stop back in. She killed the sale for whatever reason, and should have handled it differently. Once waved over she should have said,

    "Oh hi ! Are you ready for another dance?" If the answer was no, then she should have said, "Okay. Well I can't chat right now, but if I'm not busy maybe I will come over for a few minutes. I've got to try to make some money, just give me a wave if you are ready for a dance hun." I've said this and usually I have no intention of coming back which is why I say MAYBE I will get a second. Being short and rude is the perfect way to lose a customer. Marching over and bitching about bills you have to pay is just silly.
    I agree. The stripper in question displayed a total lack of what is called tact.

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    Thank you all. The more I think about this, she must have had something said to her. Next time I go, I will give her another shot and buy more. Did she handle it well? No, but everybody deserves a second chance.

    BTW, this board is great and it helps at being a better customer too. Thanks again everyone. It is really appreciated.

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    @hotforablackchick I agree and yes I would have said something along the lines of what you mentioned.

    However maybe she heard "wantcha' come on back" too many times that night.

    @SmittyLax6 don't take what I said personally it's all biz.

    You gotta remember that girls and boys look at business and money differently. She may have dragged her personal shit into the equation and felt miffed that you only bought one dance. So that is her bad for taking it personally. I don't condone what she did but it's just a thought as to why.

    Hopefully you'll catch her in a better mood on a better night.




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    Quote Originally Posted by SmittyLax6 View Post
    OK, walk in sit down, place is pretty dead, with in 5 minutes a girl sits down and starts to rub my back.

    Go for a dance and it was great, but I just got there so only one to start. She understood and says track her down later if I want more. I tipped her 50%
    I have to ask this, so did you pay the 50% on top of the dance? I'm sure you did, but I remember this was an issue one time for me. This guy came in, told me he'd get a dance from me if I chatted with him for awhile. I did, he got a dance, then paid me less than what he was supposed to. I complained but got nowhere. If it wasn't for the fact that it was a dead night, I wouldn't have spent time with him at all. I can't speak for her, but maybe you did spend too much time with her and just buying a dance might have made her mad.

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