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    Default They just called us out!

    Read the question and read the responses, then look specifically at the last response, by Ken785. He just called us the fuck out!

    http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168753

    Guy is asking if stripper really likes him. Guy responds with "it's the stripper hustle" and provides him with a link to our website. Damn it!

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    Default Re: They just called us out!

    The stripper is into you when... she asks for YOUR number/contact info without it being a 2 way thing. Maybe not always, but that's a really good sign. Other than that... probably not.
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    Default Re: They just called us out!

    so the guys from the blue are perhaps making the rounds, huh?
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    Default Re: They just called us out!

    I would definitely date a guy who hasn't learned proper grammar. .


    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    The stripper is into you when... she asks for YOUR number/contact info without it being a 2 way thing. Maybe not always, but that's a really good sign. Other than that... probably not.
    Yep. I'm pretty sure that's what I did too. If I felt a guy had dating potential I got their number, and maybe even told them my real name. In my career I think there have only been a few times where I considered it. One time another dancer tried to set me up with her boyfriend's best friend. I decided against it because he seemed nice but the whole situation I thought could get confusing (though this was a dancer I go along with and dancing was a part time job for her).

    The other time is my current situation. I am trying to remember how it all started because many guys gave me their info, but he was the only one I was actually interested in hanging out with. The reason was he was respectful. He was fine with a friendship. I also never dated guys who were interested in dating strippers. I am tired of guys wanting to date strippers because it's cool. Date because you like someone, not because of what they do.

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    Default Re: They just called us out!

    Quote Originally Posted by papillonluvr View Post
    so the guys from the blue are perhaps making the rounds, huh?
    The Blue Boys are pretty mild mannered so that is unlikely. We are mostly all talk and no action. I don't recall you ever venturing into the basement to actually gather the data to develop over time a reasoned and learned opinion. Maybe you have but it sounds more like you are knee jerk profiling

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    Default Re: They just called us out!

    Ignore this guy. He didn't call anything out.

    If a dancers hustle is to lead a customer on then shame on her.

    I've dated guys I've met in the club and some dancers have married their customers because:

    WE'RE REAL PEOPLE.




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    Well it is part of our job to be friendly, etc. Just like it's a hotel concierge's job to be friendly, and people who work at McDonald's to be friendly,etc etc. It's a hospitality job. For the other guy to suggest that dancers PRETEND that we like them because it's part of our hustle, that's fallacy. There is no clear-cut answer to the question "Do dancers like us"...it's such a broad question too which makes it difficult to answer. Some dancers show very clearly that they don't like a customer, especially if he's not very nice. I've seen dancers debate on some topics with guys even when it wasn't in their best financial interest to do so. I have genuinely liked many customers when they've been very polite, sweet etc...even if they only spent 20 dollars on me. I have genuinely hated some customers who've spend $$$ in VIP's with me. So it depends. A few guys over the last 4 years I ended up dating. A few of them i've counted them as my friends and still talk to them even though I haven't been dancing for many many months (and one got laid off a long time ago and couldn't spend any money anymore, but we text all the time as friends...and not at all as naughty friends..he's very respectful and knows he won't get into my pants but we've developed a good friendship).
    So the whole thing of people thinking we're pretending and faking all the time about liking guys...I know that's not true for many of us dancers. If the guy's respectful and there to admire my body and have good conversation, I really actually do enjoy the experience. It's the ones that get obnoxious drunk and start violating boundaries or who are a pain in the ass in VIP room that I can't stand (detour conversation:why are there some guys who think dancers or some women in general want to give up their pussy or suck dick in VIP, to every Tom Dick and Harry we don't know enough or truly like out there? Jesus!Once we start hooking ourselves, and especially indiscriminately...I think it really can fuck up our (dancers, or, speaking for myself, my own) sexual spirit, and sexual-emotional-mental health. No wonder we'd have to get drunk silly or high to do it...it's because it's taking a toll on us emotionally, sexually,etc.There have been studies done on Post-traumatic-stress-disorder and partial-ptsd in prostitutes. The job comes with a price to pay. And saying it's the world's oldest profession doesn't mean it's a healthy "profession"...just like another world's oldest profession is working menial jobs cleaning toilets all day.. or being a hitman....just because it has existed for eons doesn't mean it's wonderful and "ok." Murder and rape has existed since the beginning of time...doesn't that make it ok too? Sorry for going off topic.

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    Default Re: They just called us out!

    I didn't really mean he called us out like he messed up our playing mind games with guys. I never try to get in anyone's head. I am very straightforward about the fact that I am a dancer and that's it. I don't want to lead anyone or hurt feelings.
    I just thought it was funny that the guy posted our site. The more guys that know about our site, the more they will learn about us and our secrets will be out! lol

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    Default Re: They just called us out!

    I suspect the guys from that site would rather read yet another treatise on how to insult women's calves properly to make another score, than to actually research SW in order to counter stripper sales techniques.



    Of course, I could be wrong.

    Quote Originally Posted by junigirl View Post
    ...why are there some guys who think dancers or some women in general want to give up their pussy or suck dick in VIP, to every Tom Dick and Harry we don't know enough or truly like out there? Jesus!Once we start hooking ourselves, and especially indiscriminately...I think it really can fuck up our (dancers, or, speaking for myself, my own) sexual spirit, and sexual-emotional-mental health. No wonder we'd have to get drunk silly or high to do it...it's because it's taking a toll on us emotionally, sexually,etc.

    This is where I really take issue with the less-enlightened customer types, who fail utterly to realize the consequences of high mileage club activities. I have worked in the stripclub/whorehouse environment, and it ain't a pretty sight. Though it can be entertaining at times, if you have a thick skin, it is dark comedy at best.

    It is so hard on the women, and the women must then perforce harden themselves. Not an environment for the weak.

    Many turn to sedation in varying forms, which only puts off the trauma and usually makes the final reckoning much, much harder. Others develop a very real contempt for customers, and having seen what I have seen, I cannot blame them one bit. Generally there is some combination of the two.

    The percentage of women who can survive and prosper in the harder core environments like these is very small, from what I have seen, though they are out there.

    Whenever I read something written by one of these guys who celebrates getting a 20$ blowjob, I want him to see his sister--or better yet his girlfriend--in the same club the next time he goes in, and then hear what he has to say about it.
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    Thanks for your reply Djoser.

    Yup, those guys who are so cheap, who celebrate getting something for super-cheap, it's sickening. It's either they have no respect for women or humans in general. Maybe it was the way they were raised? I don't know. It bothers me so much. The whole issue is near and dear to my heart. I was dating someone (I no longer see him anymore) who was a Pakistani, handsome, good looking, charming, great in bed, could talk very well, etc..he was my exotic little boy toy. But once I found out that he and his friends were planning to go on a trip to Ukraine, I went bananas. This was while he was dating me. I found out because I was spying on his internet history.What a fucking devil in sheep's clothing. Going there to get cheap sex with his friends. Turns out he went to Romania too a couple years back. I guess he's used to that. And then after that I learned more about sex slavery, and poor countries etc etc. They went to those countries because they could get sex for so cheap.It was so sickening. I guess humans out there can be such trash, and he was one of them, except he was so good at being deceptive about it all. The guy is sick in his head. And turns out he was looking to get an arranged marriage too lol! He's not marriage material! The whole episode fucked with my head so badly (I ended up going on coke and alcohol binges to numb it up). Jesus, it was an ugly time. I have no tolerance for guys like that. He just didn't care. He ended up going on that trip after I found out, and even educated him about sex slavery, sex conditions in those countries, etc. Just disgusting. Those types of guys have no conscience, no ethics, no nothing. They're selfish. And the thing is, such guys are indistinguishable from the good guys...when I met one of his friends who introduced him to the sex slavery tourism stuff, he seemed so charming, well-spoken, handsome, etc...it's crazy how there are so much trash out there who you wouldn't suspect. Ladies, be careful and don't do your research before you trust any man. You never know their true colors until you find out too late or do some spying on them over time. I see him as a criminal. Someone who pays into that stuff is just supporting it. It's just unforgivable. I wish I could castrate him and his friends.He's not a good person deep down.

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    ^^Sorry about your ex. He and guys like him are common, but there ARE good people out there. We just have to get through the crappy ones to find them!
    Good luck!

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    Thanks Christy. Maybe if I told him "what if that were your mother sucking dick and spreading her legs open for strange men several times a day, for very little money...Would you think that is ok?," then maybe it'd register through his head that it's wrong? He knows it's wrong, but he just doesn't care. What a worthless piece of shit. Beings like him have no positive value on earth. He's a detractor from humanity.

    Once in a VIP room, some guy was trying to get full service, bj and everything. We were doing half an hour vip. I asked him "what if I were your sister, and some guy asked me to do all of that, to a complete stranger? And for so little money? Would you think that's ok?" His response was something like "you're not my sister...my sister would never work here!" I guess he didn't view me as equal, but rather as a slave he could try to make me perform sex acts on him. He didn't see me as a human being. It was just so gross. Shits like that have a mindset that just fucks with everyone else...he's no different from a selfish Bernie Madoff who doesn't give a shit who he rips off. They're all alike. If that guy in the VIP had that mindset, I wonder what other things he does in life that are just plain wrong because he thinks it's justified in his selfish little smelly twerp brain.

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