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    Default How to overcome the anxiety of moving and new clubs?

    Right now im three weeks away from moving from a small town in western new york. I am one of the highest paid girls and i average about 3500 a week. My parents are in florida and I will be moving into my own home with my husband and 3 dogs. Im so affraid that i will do horribly down there and never make it as I did up here. Yet some days I know that I will make it and might even be better.

    Im different than most I work long hours to get where I am at every week. I do not play the "stripper lottery" by going in for four hours and hoping to have a 500-1000 night. I hustle my ass off and work for it.

    I just need advice on how to cope with the move and new a club? and any suggestions on any clubs to start at

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    Default Re: How to overcome the anxiety of moving and new clubs?

    Well thats a very good weekly average, so obviously you know how to hustle.

    cant help you on specific clubs... you might want to say what region of florida so girls in the area can suggest things. my one experience dancing in florida wasnt so great... and the state has a reputation for high mileage. i think most of the clubs are nude... not sure if you are used to that. If you have only danced topless, it might make a difference for you. i didnt think that working at a nude club would bother me until i tried it... turns out for me full nudity is outside of my comfort boundaries. So if you arent ok with full nudity, you might have to travel a bit outside of your region (again, this depends on what region you are in).


    But anyway, i have traveled and danced a decent amount.. and it can be hit and miss. I kind of like the unknown factor, but i am also single and have no children or pets and im done with school and refuse to sign leases, so if i dont like a place then i can just move again.

    But dont assume you will do horribly- have faith in your ability to hustle. Your earnings might be different, but dont assume you will do horribly per say... assume that the environment will be different and may be better or worse suited for you. I would figure out which girls on here are in the area you are moving to and pm them. and of course check out the reviews. i would recommend checking out stripclublist.com, but be warned that a lot of idiots go on that site and make teh clubs sound much dirtier than they really are- so take everything there with a whole bucket of salt.

    Also, i would consider what your style is as far as sales, as well as the model of your club. if you go from a club with expensive champagne rooms to a club with only lap dances, then you might be dissapointed (ahem this is where i am now). If you are a girl who is a lap dance factory queen and just sells dance after dance after dance then try to find the club with the highest volume of customers. Im assuming if you are making 3,500 a week then you have champagne rooms and you are good at selling them-- that or you are working really long shifts like 6x a week... or just have really expensive dances. so yea... i would factor in the model of the club you are considering in comparison to where you are now.

    also, i recommend starting at 2 clubs... thats what i always do. get hired at 2 clubs, then pick a fave or keep working both... and if you pick a favorite and its still meh, then get hired at anotehr one and work the old fave and the new one etc etc. you can cycle through quickly and find the club that best suits your style. you are an independent contractor, it is within your right to not be exclusive to a club (although some clubs will try to violate this).
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    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: How to overcome the anxiety of moving and new clubs?

    Thank you for your post...

    My region is around polk city . Im outside of orlando and clermont about 30 minutes. Im willing to drive to tampa and any other places around my region if I had to.

    My club has no champagne rooms and my dances are $20 each song. The longest shifts Ive done are 12 hours straight.

    Guys have approached me or I will just go up to them ask their name introduce myself have a conversation and they will strike up the question of the dance or I will say hey so n so it was so nice to meet you and I hope you have a great day. and at that time if they are interested they will ask. I can now tell when a guy wants a dance for me and that is when I ask because i know that is what they want.

    The two club thing is a great advice because thats how i first started in the business and worked both of them for two weeks and figured out where it was good money and not worth being at.

    I also do work sometimes 6x days a week just because as long as the money is good I will save every little bit of it!

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    Default Re: How to overcome the anxiety of moving and new clubs?

    I don't know that you'll ever get over the anxiety and butterflies of starting at a new club, but one thing to remember is that if you don't like it - you can always change clubs or move somewhere else.
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