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    Hey girls I am just insanely curious...how do you stay safe from STDs? Do you do more than just use a condom the whole time? I don't mean any offense...really just trying to satisfy my curiousity
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    Use condoms, Dams and get tested every 3 months.....


    .. That's what I do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by malayataylor View Post
    Use condoms, Dams and get tested every 3 months.....


    .. That's what I do.
    That is pretty much all you can do is pratice safe sex and get tested regularly.
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    I've worked as an escort and my husband and I are swingers. I have had sex with well over 100 men and I've never had any type of STD.

    I ALWAYS use condoms for intercourse unless I am having sex with my husband. Professionally, I use condoms for oral sex as well. I also designate one hand for myself and one hand for my partner. So, I never touch some guy's dick and then touch myself with the same hand.

    I also LOOK at my partner. If there is a rash or anything out of the ordinary, nothing happens. I've known women who have contracted herpes and when I asked them if they noticed any sores during sex they say "OMG, I don't know, I wasn't going to look at it!"

    That boggles my mind.

    If you take the time to look at the person, use common sense and always use protection, the risks are pretty low. I've been to the CDC's website and I use their information to decide what my risks are and if the money is worth it or not.

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    it would still scare me...I am really paranoid though. Thank you all for your replies! My curiousity is sufficiently satisfied!
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    Quote Originally Posted by MarvelGirl View Post
    I also designate one hand for myself and one hand for my partner. So, I never touch some guy's dick and then touch myself with the same hand.
    I've never heard of anyone doing that, but it makes a lot of sense. Thanks for mentioning it.

    I saw my first client earlier this week and remembered that I need to re-stock in hand sanitizer. Not that helps with STDs, but I absolutely hate colds and other minor bugs. The last time I escorted, I dozens of those little bottles stashed everywhere.

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    BF and I have started swinging. We both got tested before we started, and we agreed to use condoms for PIV and BJs with others, but we go unprotected when we have PIV and oral sex together. I haven't used damns before. Are those really all that necessary?

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    ^If you worry about blowjobs enough to use a barrier, worry enough to use a dam when going down on women.
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    ^ Well said!

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    Have U guys ever had guys who just dont wanna wear a rubber? Like, that try to beg, or pay more, not to use one? Im sure there have been some. I would go OFF!

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    ^ Yes I have a client like that. I told him if he asked one more time I would walk out on him. I have another one that says he's allergic to them. I tell him he'll have to deal with the reactions.

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    LOL. Lame. Ever have guys bring a Magnum...and they CLEARLY dont need it??
    And if you walk out on them...you still take all the money? I love it!

    I dont get why a man would risk his sexual health. They are so stupid. Thats why I laugh when they burrrrrn! Buahahaha!

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    I have a friend with a latex allergy and I wouldn't wish that reaction on anybody. Think weeping hives. Poor girl can't even have elastic in her underwear.

    I got a supply of Bare condoms by Durex. They are latex-free, so no allergic reaction and no "sexy" latex smell. I figure that shuts down at least one line of argument.

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    thanks! I'm definitely going to recommend that to him!

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    Latex allergies are not uncommon... They also get worse with exposure. Hence more people in the medical profession vs overall population develop allergies to it and yes it is awful. But you are right Taylor, there are a few non-latex products on the market and I actually prefer the feel of them. I even use condoms with my husband because I don't use any other birth control.

    Zofia... have you actually started swinging? I think you will find in the swinging scene that most people will not use condoms for BJ's or Oral on women. I agree with the others, if you are concerned about it, then yes use both. My husband and I swing and honestly if someone asked to use a dam or condom for oral, I'd probably pass on that part and say well lets just have sex then. I just don't see the point when its covered for oral.

    I certainly would never let someone cum in my mouth though. More because I just think its a bit ew... That's reserved for hubby only. The biggest risk is passing herpes-1 to your crotch which would be horrible! I guess it is a risk I don't worry about too much because a) the number of people we meet is not that massive (Its a 3-4 time a year thing for us nowadays). b) HSV 1 doesn't really want to live in your crotch so you'd be much more likely to contract a cold sore if you were with someone who was shedding the virus c) If I did ever contract something like that, I'm already happy with my life, I'd just stop swinging and keep it for me and hubby. d) when people pick up at bars do they make each other use condoms for oral? no. I see swinging as pretty much the same. I am actually less sexually active and much more safe than many of my single girlfriends who get drunk and "can't remember" what happened last night.

    I also asked about it at my sexual health clinic. I explained we swing and I am with both men and women and they said it is obviously a more risky behaviour, but no where near as risky as FS without a condom. I also asked about passing from woman to woman and they said it is very difficult but to obviously always wash toys and hands.

    I totally see the benefit of an escort using condoms for everything though. The sheer volume of people increases the risk (even though it just takes once). Plus your career is ruined if you contract herpes or worse. For me it just means no more shinanigans!

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    Quote Originally Posted by malayataylor View Post
    ^ Yes I have a client like that. I told him if he asked one more time I would walk out on him. I have another one that says he's allergic to them. I tell him he'll have to deal with the reactions.
    That is when you bust out the latex-free condoms. (not lambskin, but there's another variety that I can't remember the name of. Lifestyles makes them...) If he's really allergic then he has an alternative, and if he's just trying to bullshit then...you just busted his ass. Hahaha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wanderlust08 View Post
    That is when you bust out the latex-free condoms. (not lambskin, but there's another variety that I can't remember the name of. Lifestyles makes them...) If he's really allergic then he has an alternative, and if he's just trying to bullshit then...you just busted his ass. Hahaha.
    Oops I stopped reading after malaya's post to comment and didn't realize that had already been dealt with. Bonehead of the day award goes to meeeee.

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    ^ You are right though... not lambskin. Here durex makes some of some other material I think called "out of this world". And I agree they are. LOL.

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    They are called Bare. And I actually like them better than latex. Mostly because I hate that latex smell. When I run out of my latex condoms I'm just going to switch over entirely.

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    I cannot cope with the latex smell, it really squicks me out.
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