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    Question Breast implants- do you have em? Do you have more confidence now?

    Hi ladies! I'm a newbie dancer, 4-5 months, and I desperately want some breast implants. As a 32 A cup with pretty curvy legs and butt, I think that enhancing my chest would proportion me out.

    I can't even go into work with a good attitude anymore, which means no money, because of how insecure I feel about my chest. I never felt it as badly as before, but the more I work here, the worse I feel about myself.

    For all of you who have implants, did they make a difference in how confident you were in the club? Did you tips and CR trips go up?

    My confidence is so low, it's like there's no point in going to work anymore.


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    Default Re: Breast implants- do you have em? Do you have more confidence now?

    Get breast implants for yourself, I found that I lost customers when I had mine done because they liked small boobs. Some guys are butt men, leg men and others are all about the titties.. I would focus on what you like about yourself and make sure this is what you want to do. Lord's of acid, I must increase my bust, was my theme song from 16 on.. now I want to go bigger... I think my boobs are small now even after a BA.

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    Hi ladies! I'm a newbie dancer, 4-5 months, and I desperately want some breast implants. As a 32 A cup with pretty curvy legs and butt, I think that enhancing my chest would proportion me out.

    I can't even go into work with a good attitude anymore, which means no money, because of how insecure I feel about my chest. I never felt it as badly as before, but the more I work here, the worse I feel about myself.

    For all of you who have implants, did they make a difference in how confident you were in the club? Did you tips and CR trips go up?

    My confidence is so low, it's like there's no point in going to work anymore.


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    I have implants. Yes, they helped my self confidence, but mine wasn't terrible before hand. I had a full C cup and then leaned out a bit and went to a B cup, so I got em fluffed back up. My money went up a decent amount. Mainly my stage tips went through the roof. LD's and CR's went up a bit. But I was always an odd dancer, I'd usually make at least $200 a night off of stage tips, so dunno if you are strictly a lap dancer how much this'd help.

    I'd give it a while and reconsider, because if it's really a self-confidence issue, implants won't help much. They'll increase your confidence in your boobs, but honestly, you say you are feeling insecure because of your chest, but this post makes it sound like it's more than that. Usually one area won't erode your attitude completely, ime.
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    Girl, I started dancing in a couple clubs where maybe ONE girl had a boob job, to recently starting at a club where it seems like every other girl has them done!

    You and I probably look similar- I got a big ass, thick legs, but unfortunately I have a lil too much belly (I'm trying to lose about 10-15 lbs right now at least). Even when I was mad skinny though, I always had a big butt. Guys love the ass, but I am way disproportionate I think. I'm a 34A.

    In theory I'd love to have bigger boobs, hell I've wanted bigger boobs ever since I was 13 and every other girl at school developed them but me, but I guess I'm afraid of a few things- 1) something going wrong during the operation (I've NEVER had any sort of operation before, or even stayed at a hospital overnight, or been under general anesthesia), 2) the price, 3) the implants leaking in the future or giving me cancer somehow or having to be "worked on" in the future somehow but me not having the money to do it, 4) how my friends, family, and bf would see me afterwards... like they'd just see some 'stripper w/ fake tits' instead of the girl they know and love but now w/ a little something extra... like my feminist friends would judge me deep down inside or lose respect for me or think I was shallow and stupid. I know that's kinda dumb but I didn't exactly grow up in a culture or subculture that was very accepting of breast implants (ironically though, very accepting of other body mods like tats and piercings!). I'm 25 already though, so it's not like I'm some kid who'll grow into her body someday. Ugh I dont know...

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    I'm not sure if implants can give you more confidence..I think it's something that comes from inside..but to completely contradict myself, I felt much more confident going topless and even wearing a bathing suit after I had my tits installed. I did not do it for dancing as I was not dancing at the time..I have always been a pretty nice B but like you ..it wasn't proportioned to the rest of me. I went to a full D and couldn't be happier. I know the boobs lend some confidence to my dancing, I love taking my top off.

    But..again boobs won't necessarily buy you confidence. Some women, not all but some, start analyzing other parts of their bodies after certain work is done and before you know it are deeply in debt. I stopped at boobs since I'm ok with the rest of the body. But I can see how easy it is to start shelling out more money to re-make everything..and I don't think that necessarily leads to confidence

    On another note one of our best paid dancers at the club is a small A cup..she is very popular.

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    Ahhh we've discussed this in our changing room many times. The girls with implants did not see a changable difference in their money.

    I started dancing with mine so I can't compare, but if you want implants do it for you. Before implants I was always ok with my boobs but if given a choice I would try and keep my top on, but now I love my boobs and don't have any problems taking my top or bottom off.

    I gained a lot of self confidence through the internet though surprisingly enough. But it works out, since I dance now confidence is a great thing.

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    I've always though implants should be something you get for you. I don't have implants but was very lucky to have been blessed with natural perky 36C's. Many people often thought they were fake they looked so good and non saggy. I never struggled to make money because they are natural. I have a friend who is a 32A and she made money too. It's just the realization of knowing you won't appeal to everyone whether you get boobs or not.

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    Yes i do 36 C. My sister ( also a dancer) bought them for me right before I started dancing so I can't compare the money to before and after, but I always wanted them and love them. I stuffed my bra in high school . I was so flat, basically just nipples, but had a great ass and legs. When I got them I went through this shopping face of buying and wearing the skimpiest shirts I could find. My confidence instantly went up after I got them, I felt complete and looked the way i always wanted to.

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    in my own experience 'bigger tits' has always meant 'bigger tips' !

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    Default Re: Breast implants- do you have em? Do you have more confidence now?

    I can't say as to tips etc since Ive always danced with implants.

    I got them for ME and couldn't be happier. I believe if you get ANY sort of cosmetic procedure done, it should be for YOURSELF and not anyone else or any other reason.
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    I noticed a change...I lost some custies, but gained others. I was very self conscious of mine though...I was nipples on ribs almost and went up to a 34D. I danced for years before i got them done though. I've always had thicker thighs and butt though, so this just made me proportional. Now i'm "curvy" instead of being "that chick with the fat ass"..lol Plus, I fit in clothes better...esp dresses. It was so hard to find ones that fit...if the top fit well, the bottom was too tight...if the bottom fit well, the top was too big. Now that I am proportional its MUCH easier.


    BUT...1) do it for yourself. Stripping wont last forever and if you dont want them for YOU dont do it.

    and 2)RESEARCH RESEARCH RESEARCH Go on as many Dr consults as you can. Look through magazines for breasts that you like. Ask questions until you are blue in the face til you decide what you want..over the muscle or under, round or teardrop, textured or smooth, saline or silicone, etc....

    It took me over a year of doing all this to pick a Dr i was comfortable with and would give me exactly the look i wanted. And it was the best money I've ever spent!

    You cant see my boobs in the second pic, but you can tell I had nothing up top. The first pic is what I have now.

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    Well said!

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    I noticed a change...I lost some custies, but gained others. I was very self conscious of mine though...I was nipples on ribs almost and went up to a 34D. I danced for years before i got them done though. I've always had thicker thighs and butt though, so this just made me proportional. Now i'm "curvy" instead of being "that chick with the fat ass"..lol Plus, I fit in clothes better...esp dresses. It was so hard to find ones that fit...if the top fit well, the bottom was too tight...if the bottom fit well, the top was too big. Now that I am proportional its MUCH easier.


    BUT...1) do it for yourself. Stripping wont last forever and if you dont want them for YOU dont do it.

    and 2)RESEARCH RESEARCH RESEARCH Go on as many Dr consults as you can. Look through magazines for breasts that you like. Ask questions until you are blue in the face til you decide what you want..over the muscle or under, round or teardrop, textured or smooth, saline or silicone, etc....

    It took me over a year of doing all this to pick a Dr i was comfortable with and would give me exactly the look i wanted. And it was the best money I've ever spent!

    You cant see my boobs in the second pic, but you can tell I had nothing up top. The first pic is what I have now.

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    I danced before getting implants... and I'd say yes, there is a money increase. and yes I def have more confidence.
    I wasn't flat before... but now that I have my implants, in general I attract more custies. I feel like I have to try a lot less now to sell dances.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie View Post
    in my own experience 'bigger tits' has always meant 'bigger tips' !
    I'll agree with this. I got mine done 4 years ago and I had a very noticeable change in stage tips and a slight increase in lap dance sales. Stage tips went up considerably. I had more confidence after my boob job, but now they just feel so "part of me" I don't notice them anymore. I desperately want them re done, but can't afford it. I went from a full A cup to a DD.
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    You cant see my boobs in the second pic, but you can tell I had nothing up top. The first pic is what I have now.
    I've said it before but damn! You have some of the best implants I've ever seen!

    I don't have them yet, but I don't have to ask I know my confidence would increase and my money would increase.

    I work in a club with very few large boob girls and anytime there is one the guys go nuts. Seriously... she doesn't even have to be good looking half the time! Just pay attention to the other girls in the club. Watch how the customers react to

    a) the beautiful face girl
    b) the athletic girl
    c) the good pole dancer
    d) the big girl
    e) the girl with the biggest boobs...

    The girl with the biggest boobs gets the best reaction every time in my experience. It's not to say that anyone can be a top earner with the right hustle, but bigger breasted women use their boobs in their hustle. I often see them lean on the table and put them right in the guys face when they ask... seems to work a lot!

    The only thing that I fear is a complication or scarring that I may be self-conscious about. Unfortunately that is a risk you have to take if you decide on it.

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    I was my biggest fan BEFORE I got implants. They're not magic. They're not gonna all of a sudden change your life. You need to be ok with you before you get them and you need to not expect people to fall at your feet because you have them.

    Do I have more confidence? Sure. Do I make some more money? Definitely. But make sure you're getting implants for the right reasons.
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    ^^^ agreed. I would also point out that one needs to keep in mind the difference between a girl deciding to get implants ( and implants of a certain size and shape ) for personal reasons, and an exotic dancer deciding to get implants ( and implants of a certain size and shape ) as a 'business investment'. I can't tell you how many dancers who have gone for C cup implants based on personal factor selection, only to turn around and replace them with DD's ( or larger ) a second time around.


    It's not to say that anyone can be a top earner with the right hustle, but bigger breasted women use their boobs in their hustle.
    There will always be some guys who are put off by very large breasts. But there are also guys who are obsessed with very large breasts ... and these guys usually have LOTS of money to spend

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    I have DD and I think they are small after three years.. I know I have a boob fetish I just don't want to go over board. I went to a custom bra store and was measured as a natural F.. If I upgrade it will be for me and my love of boobs..

    I think people also forget there is a certain amount of pain involved and risks due to surgery.

    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie View Post
    ^^^ agreed. I would also point out that one needs to keep in mind the difference between a girl deciding to get implants ( and implants of a certain size and shape ) for personal reasons, and an exotic dancer deciding to get implants ( and implants of a certain size and shape ) as a 'business investment'. I can't tell you how many dancers who have gone for C cup implants based on personal factor selection, only to turn around and replace them with DD's ( or larger ) a second time around.




    There will always be some guys who are put off by very large breasts. But there are also guys who are obsessed with very large breasts ... and these guys usually have LOTS of money to spend

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    Quote Originally Posted by pinupgurl2k6 View Post
    I have DD and I think they are small after three years.. I know I have a boob fetish I just don't want to go over board. I went to a custom bra store and was measured as a natural F.. If I upgrade it will be for me and my love of boobs..

    I think people also forget there is a certain amount of pain involved and risks due to surgery.
    I agree... It is still surgery and shouldn't be taken lightly. you have to thoroughly research and find the right doctor for you... dont pick a dr according to cost.... sometimes when a deal is too good to be true, it really is too good to be true.

    I'm sure we've all seen our share of boob jobs gone wrong at our jobs. But i love my boobies, I researched boob jobs like crazy before I found my dr. I know every1 reacts differently to this surgery but I actually didn't even feel pain throughout the whole process. just discomfort. I didnt even need the pain meds, I stopped the following day. my recovery was a good one and I have under the muscle silicone.

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    I really honestly love myself and my A cups and I bank with them. I really feel even like if I got fake tits my whole persona would be gone. I've beaten out hotter girls like head on when a guy had to choose before but then he says to me "I go for personality" LMAO, thanks! But constantly, even tonight, guys will just say to me "don't get implants!" and I'm like "yaaa I wasn't gonna..." But lately I've been wearing two really padded bras and I just love the feel. I honestly want to get implants only to a mid-C. I'm so effing confused. I do very well at work now, I really couldn't see implants increasing my income esp since I feel very comfortable allowing boobie squeezing and sucking in the CR, but don't think I would be if I had implants.

    I'm 27 and I haven't gotten them done so far. I really might wait till I'm done dancing? Eh fuck it, I think I'll just keep wearing really padded bras for awhile still. I love being able to take them off and still know that they look great, versus what could happen if any type of mistake or hardening happened. So no I don't have them but I have tons of confidence. I'm only considering them for fun so I can experience the full woman package in a bikini before I get too old, but I think I could get them at like 35 after dancing and be happy.

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    laurcon...i didnt have mine done til I was 32! And had been dancing many years flat chested.

    i was actually phasing out of dancing when i had mine done. I had quit at the time, but went back after a yr or so for a little longer.

    So I def didnt do it for dancing. i just always wanted them!

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    I started dancing with implants. But yes, I have more confidence in my body. I liked my body before, but I like it even more now. The boobs balance my figure out, since i'm thin in the waist with a big round booty. Had I not have this body type, I wouldn't have bothered though.

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