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    Default what exactly is an extra and why are some clubs lax

    I'm very new so excuse my ignorance..I have a good idea that extras means allowing touching in the private shows and more..but I'd like to clarify. What other extras do dancers perform? (I'm personally a no contact dancer)

    And I have noticed in my area some clubs allow touching or scooping up dollars with boobs, nuzzling necks, etc and other clubs don't even allow a dancer to take a tip from a customer..the tips are placed on the stage or in a jar.

    I've also heard the term jack house and if I'm guessing correctly, it's referring to clubs that allow more touching?

    thanks for the clarification

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    Default Re: what exactly is an extra and why are some clubs lax

    Extras are sex acts beyond the "normal" range of club contact. Since contact varies from club to club, what's considered at extra at one club might not be considered an extra at another. For example, at a high contact club, boob touching might be the norm, but a no-contact dancer would consider it an extra.

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    Default Re: what exactly is an extra and why are some clubs lax

    2-way contact is generally not considered an extra unless you only do air dances as a matter of course.

    To me, an extra is either way genital contact, and anything past that.
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    Default Re: what exactly is an extra and why are some clubs lax

    Extras = genital touching, BJ's, HJ's, sex acts, kissing, things that supposedly cost "extra" though apparently many dancers include this stuff in the normal price of a dance/VIP nowadays

    Jack house/ jack shack = if i'm not mistaken, a whorehouse that specializes in HJ's (correct me if im wrong ladies)

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    Default Re: what exactly is an extra and why are some clubs lax

    Things have changed because years ago I got called into the managers office for performing an "extra". The extra? I kissed a customer on the cheek when he tipped me. This was back in the no contact air dance era where anything sexual was not allowed. In fact another dancer got in trouble for touching her boobs. In clubs like this the customers could only tip us by putting money in our garters and the bouncers would watch. In some clubs a customer could hold our waist during a private dance (otherwise no touching) while others had to sit on their hands.

    Now though an extra means much more. Obviously sex, bj, hj are extras but in many clubs a customer touching a boob was an extra and now it may not be. Same with a customer touching between the legs. Years ago I briefly worked at a club where guys could touch you anywhere if they bought a VIP room, but most clubs I worked at were no touch (I lasted a week at this touch club because of this). I've heard from many current dancers that in many cases kissing is now expected. That I wouldn't like because I am of the mindset that I only kiss guys I want to.

    Those of you who didn't dance in the 90's you missed the good times. You missed being able to dance without them groping you, or them expecting extras like they do now.

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    Default Re: what exactly is an extra and why are some clubs lax

    i cant believe kissing on the cheek was considered an extra! that is a form of greeting in several countries!

    i draw the line when genital contact (so if any dick or pussy is getting touched, by either party, extra) is involved or body fluids are swapped (including spit-- making out is an extra. as is suckin on mah titties like you wanted me).
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    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: what exactly is an extra and why are some clubs lax

    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    i cant believe kissing on the cheek was considered an extra! that is a form of greeting in several countries!

    i draw the line when genital contact (so if any dick or pussy is getting touched, by either party, extra) is involved or body fluids are swapped (including spit-- making out is an extra. as is suckin on mah titties like you wanted me).
    I couldn't believe it either. I found nothing wrong with it. Not like I was kissing him on the lips. This was at a strict no contact club where you couldn't touch him at all. Weird now that I see what clubs let customers and dancers get away with.

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    Default Re: what exactly is an extra and why are some clubs lax

    It depends on the city or state laws. In Washington state you are not allowed to be topless while doing a dance. So "flashing" is considered an extra.

    Grinding is probably considered an extra because it goes beyond a standard air dance.

    So grinding (and flashing) is at the low end because that seems to be the norm.

    Beyond that, letting guys touch your boobs, pussy, ass, you touching their crotch, pinching their nipples, hand jobs, blow jobs and sex.

    Most of those cross the line and don't seem to be considered dancing any more.




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    Default Re: what exactly is an extra and why are some clubs lax

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    On top of that, it's also a personal thing. There are thing that I consider an extra that other girls don't. On top of knowing the laws for your area, you need to set your own boundaries and stick to them! Don't compromise your morals or standards because you dance. As a matter of fact, I've found that my morals are even stronger now that I have been doing this awhile.
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    Default Re: what exactly is an extra and why are some clubs lax

    In my club, techinically the custie isn't supposed to touch. I guess 95% of the dancers then technically do "Extras" including arm/leg touching and at the further end boob touching. Me included. I charge extra for touching. Dances where their hands are at sides are $20. Prices increase from there.
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    Default Re: what exactly is an extra and why are some clubs lax

    Depending on the laws of the city in combination of the culture of the club. I used to always give cheek kisses as a greeting, even though 99% of the time, my cheek "kiss" was always in the air. If contact occurred it was accidental. It was part of the "European charm".

    Really, there is no one definitive answer.

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