
Originally Posted by
jack0177057
Exactly, Kellydancer - the genuine gentleman will do nice things for a woman because it's in his nature, not because he is expecting to be rewarded with sex. He won't be disappointed nor terminate the friendship if she doesn't put out.
But, here is what the OP wrote -
Yes, it does sound like she's trying to "take advantage" of them,... but, she's talking about the kind of guys that "fuck off into outerspace" if she doesn't put out.
If I respect and admire a woman, I will not abandon her just because she doesn't agree to be my GF or put out. I've had plenty of female friends in my life that have been strictly platonic - and I've helped them out expecting nothing sexual or romantic in return (though, I've asked for other favors like helping me shop for clothes, cooking for me or helping me decorate my house, etc.). On the other hand, I've seen lots of guys pretend to be "white nights" with ulterior motives... Then, they play the role of the victim when they spend a lot of money or time doing favors, but don't get to bed the girl. He was a phony and she outsmarted him.
Here's Juliet dilemma: she needs help from guys - to fix a leaky faucet, car mechanical problems, lift heavy boxes, etc... but, she doesn't have the money to pay the professionals, nor does she want to have to give a blowjob every time a dude does her a favor... It's sad that there are no true gentleman around her that will help her out without expecting a special reward. Her options are: (a) play the game and outsmart the phony guys, or (b) pay them with non-sexual services - like offering to cook for them, help them shop for clothes or groceries, etc...
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