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    I'd like to know you ladies when giving LDs for female customers. Have you ever got turned on by your female customers? When that happens what would you do?
    Are you ladies most attracted to femmes customers or butch-looking female customers?
    This dancer I know told me she'd tell all the female customers that they're beautiful/hot..etc even though they're not.

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    I am bi and I don't get turned on when dancing for females. I don't really know why cause I can occasionally get turned on when dancing with guys. I guess because I never really know why the girl is there, so I don't let that part of myself open up.

    I like both femme and butch girls, but I don't like fat girls. ie. butch ones still have to be athletic or thin.

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    It's only happened once. I damn near turned extras girl for this chick.

    I'm attracted to thin, short, femme girls, but that's usually out of the club. ALL my customers are mentally off-limits, especially with getting married soon.
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    ^i'm the same as you, i'm sort of mentally detached but i definitely enjoy dancing for women more than men when they're respectful (i work in a contact club) because their touch is softer. i'm attracted to different women, just not completely butch fat women. it's pretty much the same as how i like/am attracted to guys, it varies. but it's more varying for women for me than men, i'm much pickier about guys than women. i know more of what i don't like than what i do, and that applies to both men and women.

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    <insert fantasy response of fucking a woman in the CR>

    Happy, OP?
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    you are too much sxcbbw! hahahaha!

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    Did the bbw thing not give that away? Oh, I kill myself sometimes.
    Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.

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    ssshhhh bbw, we don't want to kill the op's fantasy!!

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    Jessie: I don't know why women are in SC, but i know why I'm there. I genuinely just want to have fun and most of the time just to get my mind off of things. SC is like a fun/entertaining distraction environment for me. I go to SC once in a while and while I'm there I dont' have to worry about being hit on by some ignorant guys, or being bothered by them, or anybody like at the regular clubs/bars.
    My experience was, I don't always get LDs when I paid for LDs. For example, this dancer approached me and asked if I'd like to have a LD from her and I said sure. We chit chat for a while before she'd actually giving a LD. It wasn't a dance, it was more of like caressing me, playing with my hair, etc...lol, which I thought was unsual for a LD when there was no dance giving. But, it was cool and it was unique and I was happy with it; she helped in terms of relaxing me.
    So, don't be freak out too much when seeing female customers in SCs. Not all females are there to cause trouble.

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    i think what jessie means she doesn't know why they're there, is that there are women who come in that are completely straight to basically judge and give snarky comments and looks to dancers. for example, i once had a girl sitting at my stage and when i took my bra off that sort of pushed up my b cup size boobs, she said "well that's a good bra and rolled her eyes" she was fat and ugly, i wanted nothing more than to kick her. and you maybe you got a dancer who never danced for a woman before so she was sort of at lost as what to do. i'll admit i don't get to dance for many lesbians or bi girls very often so i even get a little flustered as to what to do.

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    Ruby, I would kick her for you!!!!

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    yeah these girls were with their boyfriends but the guys went off to another stage to tip and they just sat there just judging me and not tipping, making comments about me and stuff (and not to be conceited but i'm hot, and definitely way hotter than they were so they had no place to judge and it just pisses me off when girls criticize other women in general)...there were other guys on the other side (it was a small stage and they were being assholes too) i chose to rip into the guys instead of the girls, even though i should have. if i see a woman by herself i assume she's there to buy dances and always approach. hell, i approach a group of girls, but mostly cause i'll approach just about anyone.

    but when there's a group of younger girls i'm wary. i've had a group of female friends (didn't know i was a dancer) tell me they would go to clubs just to watch the dancers and talk about them. or you see the typical young drunk girls giving ld's to their boyfriends and dancing around like it's a nightclub.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fata View Post
    I'd like to know you ladies when giving LDs for female customers. Have you ever got turned on by your female customers?
    Sure once or twice. Usually no. It's just like dancing for a guy in that respect.

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    When that happens what would you do?
    Nothing any different than normal. Finish the dance, say some cute lil thing, get paid, and go freshen up.

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    Are you ladies most attracted to femmes customers or butch-looking female customers?
    I like it when they're girlie. Not incredibly but still.

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    This dancer I know told me she'd tell all the female customers that they're beautiful/hot..etc even though they're not.
    Of course. That's good for business.
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    Yep! I've seen that..where girls would give their boyfriends lap dances in SCs, and they were told to stop by the waitstaff. They got all pissed and the bfs were complaining that if their gfs feel like giving them lds, they should be able to...lol.. I laughed when i heard that.
    I've experienced the same thing where dancers wouldn't approach me because of the preconceptions. I dont' go to SCs with my female friends, usually with my male friends and I don't go solo (feel weird going solo). Dancers always think i'm daing one of the guys, and said to me when I approached them and tipped on on stage that they don't want to "step on my toes", or "i saw you were sitting with him and didn't want to bother you guys"..i was like.?????.."LOL! i'd like buy my friend a LD, so whenever you're free, please stop by our table"!

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    don't be afraid to ask a dancer for a dance. i think sometimes tipping doesn't work as well like it does for men as far as showing interest because i've been tipped by a lot of women but they rarely buy a dance. i once passed a couple together...they were a legitimate couple and i went back to them cause they were eyeing me but i talked to the guy first and he told me to talk to his girl cause it was up to her and she said they wanted me to dance for them. but i mostly danced for her. and he watched. i do think women in sc's are kind of stigmatized and automatically stereotyped, but you can't really blame them cause a lot dancers have had bad experiences with women who are with men. i'm just not easily intimidated and always ask the ladies who's up for a dance, if i get turned down i keep going on my merrily way. but that's me being positive and in stripper mode.

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    Ruby, I like your attitude

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    What I meant is there is a number of reasons a girl could be there...

    a) lesbian/bi
    b) with her girl friends
    c) with her boyfriend/husband

    she might genuinely like girls, like girls but not want to admit it, be jealous, etc, etc,... too many scenarios for me to contemplate... I just give a generic dance as to not offend. At the end of the day I am there to make money. I'd rather spend my night hunting the men for cash and then have my fun with the other dancers after work

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    I have been attracted to female customers, but that is really rare, just like with the men. They don't get a special dance or extras if I am attracted to them, just a normal, hot lapdance. I am definitely attracted to femme types. Other features can vary pretty greatly, but they must be girly and not overweight, but not super skinny either...oh and preferably have nice boobs. If I approach a table with a woman, I ALWAYS talk directly to her first. I never, EVER ask the guy about dances, I assume she is in the drivers seat, and normally this strategy works well. If she appears to be avoiding eye contact or anything before I approach though, I will walk on by... I've had a few nutters.
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    Same as male customers, despite personal bisexuality. #1 most important thing is respect. They don't have to be attractive. As long as they are hygenic and cool, its just as enjoyable as a man of the same caliber.

    Yes, I've gotten naughty with women before. Men too. Very rare.

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    Well we already know as I mentioned in the other thread that I go for fem types or really pretty bois (very few, but if I'm attracted then it doesn't matter cuz a girl is still a girl butch or not to me) and if the girl is 1 is my custie I've give an extra hott dance and if I want more then take it farther outside.

    I do believe in most scs there is 1 fem lesbian dancer who loves butches (as I and many of my butch friends always date that girl) then there are those lesbian dancers like myself who like feminine girl while there are much more that are bisexual and their taste tend to vary however I would say more bisexual dancer I know go for the more feminine girls with exceptions like I have for the prettier ones. So I would say a butch would have better luck finding a fem lesbian gf in a sc, but a bigirl would have more selection if looking for a hott hook up or date with a stripper. However that is not a rule more like general odds from what I've seen interms of gg and stripper/custie hookups I know of.

    I never ask girls for dances, but then I never ask guys for dances either I expect my custies to let me know. However male or female attraction or not I do my job and that is giving a hott dance and being the sexy stripper that wants to take their money. As for me getting turned on by giving a dance- I love being a tease so even if I'm not attracted to the custie part of me does get turned on by turning some1 else on. However if I am turned on by a hott girl I'm dancing for it's an added perk of the job for me. Changes are in that case I'll let her know and take it from there after giving her the kind of extra hott sexy dance only girls get from me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fata View Post
    Yep! I've seen that..where girls would give their boyfriends lap dances in SCs, and they were told to stop by the waitstaff. They got all pissed and the bfs were complaining that if their gfs feel like giving them lds, they should be able to...lol.. I laughed when i heard that.
    I've experienced the same thing where dancers wouldn't approach me because of the preconceptions. I dont' go to SCs with my female friends, usually with my male friends and I don't go solo (feel weird going solo). Dancers always think i'm daing one of the guys, and said to me when I approached them and tipped on on stage that they don't want to "step on my toes", or "i saw you were sitting with him and didn't want to bother you guys"..i was like.?????.."LOL! i'd like buy my friend a LD, so whenever you're free, please stop by our table"!
    This has happened to me too. I'm bi and I'll go to the SC basically because I like going number one, and number two I'm curious about dancing. I always tip, never in a million years talk sh*t, buy LDs, so on. But I'm probably different because I actually have friends who dance and I've worked as a waitress. I think some girls don't realize dancers are regular people with feelings and boyfriends and families or something the way that they act.

    But yeah dancers have always been super respectful to me even though I sometimes feel awkward about being a girl in the SC. I'm short and small and girlie and I like other girls who are small and girlie too, but most of my bi or lesbian friends like the opposite (femme & butch or butch & femme: I dunno it's just a coincidence probably).

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    I have been attracted to female customers, but that is really rare, just like with the men. They don't get a special dance or extras if I am attracted to them, just a normal, hot lapdance. I am definitely attracted to femme types. Other features can vary pretty greatly, but they must be girly and not overweight, but not super skinny either...oh and preferably have nice boobs. If I approach a table with a woman, I ALWAYS talk directly to her first. I never, EVER ask the guy about dances, I assume she is in the drivers seat, and normally this strategy works well. If she appears to be avoiding eye contact or anything before I approach though, I will walk on by... I've had a few nutters.
    I did this when I was waitressing too. We had to wear slutty outfits (I thought they were cute but hey) so sometimes we would get snarky comments and ladies would be rude to us. I always approached the girl first, flirted with the girl, and stuff like that. Guys usually won't care as long as their girl is happy it seems so I just stuck with that approach.

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    My biggest pet peeve is when there's a guy egging my on and trying to force me to give a lap dance to his girl because he wants to watch. In that case I usually try to find a second alone with the girl and ask if the dance is really for her, or actually for her boyfriend. If she says its for her boyfriend and looks really uncomfortable, I go really easy on her and just air dance and whatnot. Poor girls. They wont say no to their boyfriends but still look at you with that look of terror. :-/

    Aaaaaanyway, I have totally been turned on by dancing for a woman. I am into butch women, and low-maintenance femmes (in other words, no heels, no dresses, no makeup...). But either way, I think it's more sexy and sensual dancing for a woman. Still though, I put all customers at the club off limits. Even if she's different and I think she'd be nice to hang out with outside of the club, I don't allow it. it's just a personal boundary I am not willing to cross.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CaseyLace View Post
    My biggest pet peeve is when there's a guy egging my on and trying to force me to give a lap dance to his girl because he wants to watch. In that case I usually try to find a second alone with the girl and ask if the dance is really for her, or actually for her boyfriend. If she says its for her boyfriend and looks really uncomfortable, I go really easy on her and just air dance and whatnot. Poor girls. They wont say no to their boyfriends but still look at you with that look of terror. :-/

    Aaaaaanyway, I have totally been turned on by dancing for a woman. I am into butch women, and low-maintenance femmes (in other words, no heels, no dresses, no makeup...). But either way, I think it's more sexy and sensual dancing for a woman. Still though, I put all customers at the club off limits. Even if she's different and I think she'd be nice to hang out with outside of the club, I don't allow it. it's just a personal boundary I am not willing to cross.


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    This happened to me about a month ago. I so wanted to get her number but I didn't because I felt it was unprofessional. Plus I thought I was moving back to GA and it wouldn't have mattered anyway.

    But it kinda made me realize that I am attracted to women and want to open up my relationship.

    I like more femme girls, petite, alternative or kitcshy style. I like women that take care of themselves and their bodies. I have seen some attractive butch girls though, with tans and six pack abs that would make a dude jealous lol. I also like redheads.

    But yes, I have gotten turned on by a girl. She said my dance was very 'intense' and there's good reason behind that... I was super turned on. Oh btw I'm also really shy around girls and blush a lot when I'm fronted out for liking one. It comes with my inexperience. My boyfriend likes to tease me about my girl crushes because he likes to see my giddy/embarrassed reaction.

    Anyway, I'm rambling because I have been awake since 7 this morning and still can't sleep. Night!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Harleigh HellKat View Post
    This happened to me about a month ago. I so wanted to get her number but I didn't because I felt it was unprofessional. Plus I thought I was moving back to GA and it wouldn't have mattered anyway.


    OH!!!


    But it kinda made me realize that I am attracted to women and want to open up my relationship.

    I like more femme girls, petite, alternative or kitcshy style. I like women that take care of themselves and their bodies. I have seen some attractive butch girls though, with tans and six pack abs that would make a dude jealous lol. I also like redheads.

    But yes, I have gotten turned on by a girl. She said my dance was very 'intense' and there's good reason behind that... I was super turned on. Oh btw I'm also really shy around girls and blush a lot when I'm fronted out for liking one. It comes with my inexperience. My boyfriend likes to tease me about my girl crushes because he likes to see my giddy/embarrassed reaction.

    That's HOT!



    Anyway, I'm rambling because I have been awake since 7 this morning and still can't sleep. Night!

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