Saturday I was working and my mother showed up during my set on stage... and sat at the tip rail.... it was embarassing and very upsetting for me. She considers me a prostitute and thinks that to work at a strip club you have to get a pimp.... and if you dont... then the pimp gangs will kill you. She also believes that everyone is sucking dick in the back for 20 bucks.
BUT to give everyone a low down about the club and myself... I'm working at 1320.. which is in va.. its pasties and thong while on stage... no contact at all... no private rooms... its not a full bar... they bleep out songs most of the time... its really laid back... and I have a good friend who has been there for 5 years who is helping me out and watching my back... the staff are wonderful... they do random bag searches for drugs... and if they catch you soliciting or doing drugs they call the cops and fire you asap...
I feel comfortable with what I'm doing at this job. I have my limits and I will not push them. No matter how tight money gets or how much they are offering. I'm generally a good kid. I'm doing excellent in college... I respect my mother... I dont do drugs... I don't sleep around... I take care of myself... and I try to fulfill my responsibilities to the best of my abilities.
I currently have not been able to fulfill my finical responsibilities and therefore have started dancing. This is not a career move or a long term thing. This is me... spending 16 hours a week making 3x what i'd be making full time at a regular 8 bucks and hour job. I don't want to put/spend alot on a job when I'm in school. School is my main focus right now. And hey, I really enjoy dancing.
I just dont really know how to handle my parents. And they dont seem to be receptive to anything I have to say.



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